男人是怎么看待出轨这件事的

 nanrenshizenmekandai ☞chugui zheijianshide?yuyiweichuguidenanshixianliao，xiaojietexinghuoxuyouyuzhizaoxingyeyuangu，feichangxiaiyubierentantaoxintainanti。yitianyeli，woyuyixiebulejiedepenyoujuzaiyiqixianliao。hunyinzaodisanzhechazuzenmeban？ruhejiechuhunyinchuguiweiji？

一、男人是怎么看待出轨这件事的

 hunyinzaodisanzhechazuzenmeban？ruhejiechuhunyinchuguiweiji？yiwei80houdenanshixuduorengaozhilewoxiangguantachuguidexianjinshiji。tagenwoshuo，tayiqianheyihoudoutanguo11genvyou，zhidaorujinyeyou。

 woshuo：“nibingbushijiehunlema?haoxiangyouyigexiaohai。”tahuiyingshuo：“shide，danzheibingbushiweihaiwodeai!”womingbaihetataolunshehuidaodeshimeiyongdeheluowude，youyutayongyushuochuqu，zheishuomingtaqueshibuguanzhuzheizhongjianjie。

 danwozhendebuzhidaogairuhejiexialai。woxiangqileluxunzai《lilun》zhongchangshuodehua，yinciwozhiyouhuifutayigewenminglimaodexiwei。tawangzhewodefanying，haoxiangweitadefengcaijuedezihao。ranhouyuwoshuoqilaitapengdaodezheixietashuobailede“nvyou”。

 “niyongyuanbuzhidao，rujinyixie90houdenvhaizidouxihuanrenmenneiyangdedaboxing，wanshan，quwei，keyimanzutamen。”woyiran“heihei，haihao，”

 suihoumingquetichuyigenanti：“zheixienvshenglejiejinijiazhongma?”wobujiufajuezheiyinantidehaiziqishi，tahuiyingshuo：“huoxu，wokeyigaozhitamen。zuoriyouyigenvhaiqianzhewoshou，yaowotongyitayixieshier。woshuotanaxieshier，tashuochukaiwodelaopo，zhiyouyoutayige!”

 wobiezhule，meiyouxiao。woshuota，“niyeshiruhehuiyingde?”taningjingdishuo：“wohuoxutongyile。wobutongyibierendejianjie。youshi，dangnineiyangshuoshi，wowuxuneiyangzuo。”?“e，tashiqueshi”

 tahaoxianghaihuiweiwuqiong：“yixienvxingqueshihenchun，rutongyige89suidehunanshengnvsheng，genzhesinian。dangniwanhunshi，tajuranhailaila。”?“heihei，ni，taihaole!”wohaoxiangyirujiwangdixiao。

 suihouwoshuolezuihouyigenanti：“dangnvshengmenhenizaiyiqishi，zishenyounanyouma?”wodewentidechuxinshiyaolejiezheizhongnvxingshifouqueshihenchun。shubuzhi，tadehuiyingchedibaituolewokuijiudexin。tashuo：“tamenzhongdexuduorenyounanyou。youmuyoudoumeiyouguanlian，qishidahuoerquanshiwanxiadexintai。buguanzenyang，meigerenzaidayouxi。

 tixiaojiefeixianxia，woshenxiansisuo。xiangyaozhidaotamenzenmehuineiyang?huoxu，womingbaitamenshigudande，youyaoqiu，shikuijiu，shihouyanwuchi。meibanfaxushunikeyixiangqidehenduyuhui。keshi，xinlimawanjiuwanlelemeiyou?bu，wohaizaixiang，tadegexingtezhengshisha?

 zuixian，waixing，gengbieshuofuzhuangqingxidexiangmoxiangyang，jinshineiyigejuyoudetouxing，youliangheiliangdejiuchongzuxiyinzhuyanzhu。kanyixiaguanjiandian，tazaimeiyigezishizhongshifenwanshan，naizhidahuidezishiyefeichangbiejuyige。duiyutanhuaneirong，gengbieshuole。

 keyizai2ge(huodaliang)nvshizhongjianzhouxuan，nenggoukanjiantasahuangdegongzuonengli，mianbuhongxinbutiaoquanshizuichuzhongjide。kenengtanqihuayanqiaoyulaidoushiyitaoyitaode。buran，zenmehuirangneimeduonvxingshirenyahuini。

 zheizhongbuyiqubiema?suihouwoyaogaosuni，shidefangshijiushishuokanyixiatamenshibushihui“xinlibuan”。shide，dangniganlexuduomomocengcengdeshier，nijianghuixinlibuan。

 hunyinzaodisanzhechazuzenmeban？ruhejiechuhunyinchuguiweiji？ninenggoukanjiantaduiyudexintai。jiarutabuxunilejietadeshoujimima(huochangchangchaihuan)，dangxinbubijianxintade“meigerenyouzishendeyinsibaohu”。yinsibaohuyizhishiduiyubierende，erbingbushizuiqinmiwujianderen。

 tabuguanheshishoujishangyebulishen，jiulianxianzaodoushisongqu，meimingqiyue“tingge”。chucizhiwai，shoujishangxiaijiangzao，wengwengxiangdezhendongshengxiangduinieryanhenchao。nitahuijietingdianhua。

 tahuizhuonongdishuo：jingshenbing，shichangxiaoshou。daoshihouzuishiqingshitahuihuiyingbingyifangtidefangfadangzhongnidemianjietingdianhua，kanyixiaquanshijieshibushiyouneimeduoshenjingdatiaodexiaoshouyuan。

 yizhixianzao，zenmeshuohuayizhijuede，erbingbushinanshou。jinifeilinhuohivma?haowuyiwenshixianggenjuxianzaolaizhegaibiedenvxingdeweidao!nvxingdeweijue，feichangrongyixiudao“nishoushangyoutadexiangwei……”

 huranduihenhaode，bingbushiyouyutazhanglexinshui，jianghuitashitayoushihoudeliangxinfaxian，ganlebaoqiannideshier，jueduiduinikuidui，chuzaipeichangneixinzuoyixierangzishenliangzhipingpingdandandeshiereryi。

 huoxu，yuanyuanbuzhieryu，rengyouhenduotedianbixufajue。guanjiandeshinikeyiyoujimindeshuangyan，xixindeguancha，dandadejiading，xixinderenzheng，keguandedanaohelizhidepouxi，zhaodaoyigechuguiderenbingbuhuitainan。