我为什么不想跟女友聊天了，为什么跟喜欢的人聊天会没话题呢？

 womingbaikanlaihuiyingdenimendouduoduoshaoshaojuedeziyibixuxunzhaoyigenenggouhenvshengchangtanrenshengdehenhaodehuida；jizhihuidameiyou，keshikanguoyouyidingdehuodezheigeshinenggouqueshide；woweishenmebuxianggennvyouliaotianle？

zheishiweishenme？dajiaruhejiejue？

 zuixianwomenyaorenkezaiheyixingpengyougoutongjiaoliudeqingkuangxia，ruguowomenbenshenzonghexinggelingyudoubilingyifangchusexuduo，neihaowuyiwenbuyongrenmenjijidianjizheliaoshenme，lingyifangjiuhuijijiqukaolvzenyangyuniliaotianle；

 nv：puchiyisheng，jiezhechanshengleyihuo？niyinggaifeichangshaokandianyingba？xiaolizibianshilaiangnaduo，tazhuyanniyidingkanle《taitannikehao》

nan：yiliannankan，buzhidaogaizenmeban.

 jiushizheiyang，jinguanhoubianliangrenyeshiyouzaicibiedegoutongjiaoliu，keshishouzheiyishierweihai，aguangmingxianjuedeyouyixieshufu，juedezishenyeshizhangwotaishaole，suihoutamendexiangqinyuehuiliaotianjianjiandijiangdileyouhuoli，zuizhonggehuigejiale，keshihoubiangenjuwojianyidefangshi，tahuoshidedaolenvhaierdehuanxin；

 duzilimeiliaoshidaduoshuxiaohuobanzailiaotianshibuqingchuliaoshenmedeyigeguanjianyuangu，youyunizishenshuxijiqileijidesucaitupiandetaishao，buguannihenvshengdakainaxiedehuatitaolun，nizishizhizhongbukeyifeichanghaodijiehua，jinerzaochengbuduandihuanhuatitaolun，meihuanyigehuatitaolun，nidoukanqilaibuzhisuocuo；

 huijingchangchuxianneiyangdenanti，zhuyaoshidajiapingchangfeichangshaoquleijiyefeichangshaoliuyiyouguandexinxineirong，yincikanguozheipianhuida，qidainiyizhizairichangrichangshenghuoliuyiyouguanxinxi，wuxunisijiyingbeide，zhixujiandaoniyongyuanbuzhidaodeneirong，nidounenggouduokankanliangyan，jiazhongyinxiang；

 xiangyixianghenvshengliaotianneirongzhong，chukailiaonimendebutonglijinghesanguanyiwai，nihaizhidaoyounaxienenggouliao？liaoyingpian，nilejieshenmehuobaodianying，shenmeyingshimingxing？liaopaishe，nilejiebuyiyangqingjingbuyiyangshijiaozenyangbanvshengpaidegenghaokanma？liaoyulebagua，nilejiejinqifashengleshenmefeichanghuodeshierma？liaoxingzuo，nikeyijiangchunvshengxiangpipeishierxingzuodeyoudianma？

 jilao：womingbaisijiyingbeidekendingshibuxingdede，womenyaosuiyuerandoubutongchudijiluxialai，neimazuijiadefazibianshizhuanshuyibian，nidejiyilijiuhuishenru，jiangniganjueyouqudewentiyouyisideneirong，yunizhouweidenvshigoutongjiaoliu，pengyouyeba，nvxingyeba，jiarenyeba，duohetamenliaoneixiehuatitaolun，nijiuzhidaonvshixiailiaoshenme，yucitongshixiayiciliaotiandeqingkuangxianibiannenggousuiyueranjiangchuzheizhonghuatitaolunle，naizhihaikeyiyuliaonvshengdefanying；

B：心理状态缘故

 ruguonihepenyouliaotian，helaoyou，dixiongliaotian，pengmianshifoulijikaishiletangulunjin，keshipengdaoziyiganxingqudenvsheng，niweishenmejiukazhuleni？niweishenmetuntuntutudabantianshuobuchuyijuhuani？

 youyuzheizhongnvshengnihenxihuan，niyaotarentongni，niyaozaitayanqianbazijijinkenengchengxiandejizhi，zheiyiniantouzaochenglenizaochengjiaolvbuan，haipadexintai，youyutaduinihenzhongyao，yincinidanyouzijishuoshuocuoshifouhuiyingxiangdaozishenzaitaxindidepinpaixingxiang？

 yebushinituntuntutubuqingchushuoxieshenme，zhishinineixinyouhenduohuaduzainidenaozhong，niyongyuanbuzhidaozaixianjieduandeshijianshixiadechangsuo，jiujingshuonayijucaihuirangbierenganjuenijuededefeichanghao；

 niyuefazaiyi，niyejiuyueyiyucuowu，niyubiedenimeixingqudenvshengliaotian，niyagenbuzaiyitamenduininaxieguandian，ninaizhihuihetamentantaobiedenvsheng，nidandabiaoshunideniantou，neixinmeiyoushejiaomeitigongzuoyali；

 yinciyaoxianghenvshengwujuwushuwugongzuoyaliliaotian，baizhengxintaijiuyouqiguanjianle，ziranzheijiurutongyijukonghua，douxiaodeyaobaizhengxintai，neizenyangbaizhengxintai，rangziyibuhuizaijiaolvbuanhaipani？

1：beihouyilun，jiangdilingyifang

 biru：takezhenpiaolianga，shenxingzhenbang，zheiyinvshengkendingjiushiwojianguozuipiaoliangjizhidenvxing，rujintajingranzaiwozhengduimianyuwoliaotian，zheishizaitaijidongle，woyidingyaorangtaxihuanwo；

 qingbanvshengfangdaoyunitongyizhixianquduidaita，erbushiganjuetaneimahaokan，neimazhigaoqiang，zheishinijiaolvbuandezhijieyuanyin，nizongrenweitahenjizhi，nixuyaogaoqingchu，tayeshiren，yeshinvsheng，yeshiyouxuduoquexian，jinjinzishenyouyuduitadexiaibiandaletadeyoushi；

 qiadang：zheiyinvshengkanqilaihaibucuoni，keshimeiyoudajiaqiyexiaojuanhaokan，shenxingyebushineiyigepenyouhao，xingba，yadoubuqizheng，jianghuadeshuohuashengdoumeiyoubiaomiankanjianneiyangwenwan，woxianlejieyixiabiedecengmiankanyixia；

2：tigaozijipinpaixingxiang

 biru：chuanzhedabanjiumeibiyaole，nanshengbianshiyaobuguanghuayidian，zheijiushiqueshiwo，woxinlishenqingyouhuizhufan，shouyiyefeichanghao，chuanzhedabanzheizhonghenjiale，jiushizheiyangsuibianyidiantingbucuode；

 shishishangzaiyaochulaijiantayiqian，duizhejingzihaohaodichuanzhedabanzhengliyixiazishen，nenggourangziyikanshangqubiguoqugengkushuaijingshenshizhiyegengyoufengcai，congernidezixinbianhuixiangdiyibufennidejiaolvbuanxinlikongju，yucitongshikanjianyushijingzijizijijiayoudaqi，niyejiuduizhejingzishuo，jianxinziji，nenggoude，shizuizande；bubiganjuehenchun，jinyouzuolederenhuizhidaoyiyiyouduoda；

 qiadang：zishendequeweirenhechengfendouhaihao，keshizheiyinvhaiziyeshizishenxihuandeleixing，woyidingyaoweichijiaohaodeqingkuangqujianta，zhongjiurujinmeiyounvshengyounaixintongguowolalilatadewaimaoqufajuewodexinlingmeile，ng，haibuyaoshuo，chuanzhedabanyixiakanjianshibiyiqiangengkushuaigengyoufengcaile，xingzoudoushihuibuzijueshenzhiyaogan，hahaha；

3：tigaozijiruanshiyongjiazhi

 biru：woshizheiyangderen，zheibianshiwodetianxing，woyitiantiangongzuogoutaileile，wonaliyoushijianquguanxinzheixiejingdiangaoxiaoduanzi，wokandianyingjiukanguo，wonahaihuijixuguanxinzheiyiyingpiansheiyande，zheibushishouzuima？woyoubuzhaoxiang，wojiaozheixiesheyingjishuchedimeibiyaoba，qukanshuxuexipeixun？xuechaojijineng？suanleba，xiangdetaiduo，haibujiwodajibashoujiyouxishushi，xiaijiuai，kanyuanfenba；

 shijishangxuduoxiaohuobanmeiyouziwofansiguozishenweihedaoxianzaiyirandanshennannv，shiyouyushehuifazhandahuanjingbianshinanbinvshaoma？shijishangduizisheneryanweihaiyekandeqing，zhongjiunikankannizhoubianyeyouhaoduogeguanggun？tigaozijiruanshiyongjiazhibujinyouliyutanlianaiganqing，gengyouliyufengfuduocaizigederichangshenghuo，guoduorenchukaigongzuozhongbianshijiazhong，feichangshaozouxiangshijielejiexinpengyou，shizhexinshengshiwu；

 qiadang：yiqianyitianxiabanlewansijushoujiyouxi，neixianzaiwowansanju，biedeshijiankanyixiajingdiangaoxiaoduanzi，jiyixieshihedeliaotianyuju，wokebuyuankandaonvshengzhiyaoshuonihenpiaoliang，yinweiwobuyuanzaikandianshijudeqingkuangxiazhinengjianghaoniu13，wogengbuyuanzaidajialiaotianzhengshengxingdeqingkuangxia，woquebuqingchutashuodeshisha，zaochengyilianmengbi；

C：应对客观事实

 jibianshiwanmeiwuquedexinlizhuangtai，fengfuduocaidezhishichubei，danyebixulingyifangdexianghupeihe，dajianenggoubatianbuduandiliaoxialai，qierangliaotianmaixianggaochaodieqi，dajiabuyonglingyifangtixiandeduomedejijizhudong，zhixubierenxiangyaohedajialiaotian，neipingzheqianbianhuizongdejiejuefangan，womendoushinenggoubatianhaohaodiliaoqilaide；

 keshilingyifangbupeiheliaotian，huoxushiyouyuxiangqinyuehuibeibazhelaiyingshouyixia，neidajiahaiyaolianxishijizhuangkuangqujinxingdiaozhengle，youqishidangnvshengduinizhuyaobiaoxianchuyanfan，buxieyigudeqingkuangxia，niyidingyaozhongzhinidetuidongliaotian；

 bianhuangousi，jirantaduinibuxieyigu，neizanmenjiumeibiyaoreliantielengtunbu。niyuejijizhudongjiuhuijitayizhongshuobuchudezihaogan，keshiweilegenghaodibiaomingdajiadesuzhi，dajiazhixuyaozaijiaotandeqingkuangxiabiaoluchuduitabuxieyigujiqibuzaiyijiukeyi，meibiyaohenyansurenzhenmeiyouhuashuo，neiyangyehuirangtayiweinikongzhizijidenenglibuzu；

 biru：haijideyouyiciwoyueyigenvshengdaojiubahehejiuliangliaotian，neishihoutayechulai，daoyihoudajialiaoleyihuiertian，liaotiandeqingkuangxiatajiubiaoxianchulebuzhongshi，tayizhiwanshouji，houbiandayouxideqingkuangxiani，yinweiwotishiletayiliangci：gaini

 woweishenmebuxianggennvyouliaotianle？dangdisanciwotiqianzhunbeitishideqingkuangxia，woxiangleyixia，suanleba！suihouwojiang，buwanle，suoranwuwei；suihoutabianbianhuanlexintai，yishidaozishendexingweibuwentuo，yeyishidaowobingbushiyibandediaosi，jiushizheiyangshoujiyouxinenggouzaici，houbiantabianchengwoqiannanyou……