发现男友劈腿正确做法有哪些？男友和前任保持暧昧怎么办？

 womenliangshizaipengyoujucanshanglejiede，tashoushouxiaoxiaode，faxiannanyouaimeicongmingzuofashishenmeni？jiushiwoxihuandeleixing，tingwentashidanshen，woyaoletadeshoujiweixin。faxiannanyouchuguizenmeban？chuguidenanrenhainengyaoma？wulunshizhangfuhaishinanyouchuguiyaozenmezuoni？nvrenyaozenmeyingduicaishizhengquedeni？faxiannanyoupituizhengquezuofayounaxie？

 jinguanjiushiwojijijiadeta，danzeshitajijizhaowoliaoshuodehua，youyuwoshijishanghaitingxiusede。zhihoudajiajiuchangchangxianliao，fajuebicizhijianyouhenduogongtongyuyan。

qingrenjietagenwogaobaile，dajiajiuzaiyiqile。tianmeiledabannianhou，dajiakaishiletongjuderizi。

 tongjushenghuoyihou，jinguanyoushihouyouzhengzhi，danxunsubianhuihehao，zheishijieshangnaliyoubuzhengchaodelianrenni？zhengtieryan，dajiahuoshitingxingfukuailede。

 faxiannanyouaimeicongmingzuofashishenmeni？nantichuzaishanggeyue，youyitianyeliwohenkeqilaiyinshui，tabutangzaichuangshang，weishengjiandedengliangzhe，wotingjianerhaidetazailibiantongdianhuadexiangsheng，tayizhijiaozhe“xiaoting”。

 neijiushitaqianrennvyoudemingcheng，bukezhifou，tahuijiawoxunwenta，tashuodaogangdequezaiheqianrennvyoudadianhua，youyutajinqishenghuoshangpengdaolexienandian，xiangqingtabangzhu。

 neitianwanshangfaleleyitongxingzi，tadayingwobuhuizaihetalianluole，kezhihouwofaxianletamenrengzailianluozhe，tayidaoxishoujianbianshibangezhongtou，shoujishangzaijialiyeshijingyinmoshi。

jiaoshi，wobuyuanyicongcitichufenshou，keyechibuxiaotayutaqianrennvyoujiuchanbuqing，wogaizenmezuoni？

 da：“jinguanyoushihouyouzhengzhi，danxunsubianhuihehao，zheishijieshangnaliyoubuzhengchaodelianrenni？zhengtieryan，dajiahuoshitingxingfukuailede。”congnidexushukanlai，nimenqingganhuoshitingbucuode。

 “wobuyuanyicongcitichufenshou，keyechibuxiaotayutaqianrennvyoujiuchanbuqing”，danzhihoufashengleqianrennvyoushiqing，nijuedehenshengqiyehenbiequ。

ganjuetabingbingbushizhiainizijide，rengzaidianjizheqianrennvyou，zheishinijuedebuanquan，buqingchutamenshifouhuihehaoruchu。

 “tashuodaogangdequezaiheqianrennvyoudadianhua，youyutajinqishenghuoshangpengdaolexienandian，xiangqingtabangzhu。”shijishangninanyoubingmeiyoujijiqulianluoqianrennvyou。

 xianzaishiqianrennvyouyongyoujiannan，xiangqingtabangzhu，kenengshichuziyuyibanpenyoudeqingfenlaibangzheiyimang，yexushimangmeiyoubangwan，tongyiledeshimeiyouzuowanjuedeguoyibuqu。

yekenengshichenzhebangzhuhuixiangdaoleyiqiandeqinggan，zaochengjinqilianluobijiaoduojiaruniyaoxianggaijingennanpengyoudeguanlian。

一、表述了解与憋屈

 xianpingjingxialai，pingxinjingqidiyunanpengyoushuoshuohua，zhangwozhuangkuang，ruguoshiqianrennvyouqueshibixubangzhu，nanpengyouguoyibuquhuijue，biaomingduinanpengyoudelejie。

 gaoqingchutabingbushiyigejueqingderen，erqiemingquetichuxiangyaoyiqibangzhu，youyukantaweizheijianshiqingmangleyizhenzile。nanpengyoujiandaonidetongqingdalihou，huiganjuezishenbeilejiele。

 zheishihouyexuyaoxiangnanpengyoumaimengyiyangbiaoshuzishendebiequ，ninengneiyangshuo，zheileishierzhihouqianwanbiefashenglee，yaobuwonengfapiqide。

weicilaishuomingzishendeguandian，yerangnanpengyoulejietazainixinlideguanjian。

二、离去一段时间

 jiarunanhaizituntuntutushuobuqing，youyizhonghehaoruchudejixiang，niyebubidanxin，bubinao，jianjuediliqu，duitashuojitamenyiduanshijianlaikaolvdao。faxiannanyouchuguizenmeban？chuguidenanrenhainengyaoma？wulunshizhangfuhaishinanyouchuguiyaozenmezuoni？nvrenyaozenmeyingduicaishizhengquedeni？faxiannanyoupituizhengquezuofayounaxie？

 neiyangzuohuirangnanhaizijuedekunjing，zaicishenshizijirujindegerenxingwei，yaolejie，youzhujianyoubumanbujianglidenvrenshinanrensuoshangxide。

三、提高自己，提升风采

 zailiquhouguohaozishenderichangshenghuo，nenggouzaiyiqiannanhaizixiwangnigenggaidediqu，jijidiqugenggai。yundongjianshenshouxiaqu，qukanshuxuexitigaohanyi，youhuikandianshijuxiangshourensheng。

 faxiannanyouaimeicongmingzuofashishenmeni？chengxianzishenjijizhudongdeyunxingzhuangtaiyufengfuduocaiderichangshenghuo，yigezishenrichangshenghuodoujiejuebutaihaoderen，yigegongzuozhongrichangshenghuofenfaxiangshangderen，meiyigerendangrandouxiaihoumianyizhong。