老公出轨变心了怎么办？五步教你保障幸福

 hunhoushenghuozhong，zonghuiyouneiyangneibandebushunxin。zhenduinvxingeryan，zuipadeshinanshengfashenghunhouchugui。zhenduinanshengeryan，zuipadeshinvxingjitamendailvmao。tanbaishuo，zaidangdaizheiyishehuifazhan，dajiadouhuodetixindiaodan，haipazishendeshenmemimibeibierenfajuele。zhenduihunhouchuguieryan，bianshizaiqizhongdeyige。laogongchuguibianxinlezenmeban/neima，danglaopofajue，laogongchuguilezenmegoutong?

０１妥当分配自身的心态

 zhangfuzaoyiyongyouhunhouchugui，yibanzhuangkuangxia，laopodoushihuifashenglirunaonu，yuanhen，jiqifahuo，wuru，biequdefumianqingxuzhong。

congxinlizhuangtaideshijiaokanlai，fashengzheileixintaishizaiyiqiezhengchangdanshidele。

danshi，zaiyingduilaogongchuguiledezheileiteshuqingkuangxia，dajiaxianyaoxuehaoguanlizijidezheizhongfumianqingxu。

 zaishehuixinlixueshang，youyigexintaiqianyidefangshi，neibianshizhaoyixienenggouyoushinijizhongzhuyilideshierquzuo，linshixianbazheizhongbukaixindeshiqingpaozainaohou。

laogongchuguibianxinlezenmeban？denglizhiyiduanshijian，nenggoulixinglumianduilaogongchuguiledeshierhouzaikaizhanshensishulv。

０２分配深思熟虑的時间

 shangbianshuodao，dengzhenidewendingqingxule，goulixinglehou，zaizhujiansisuoyuyongyouhunhouchuguidezhangfudehunlianwenti，duanqineineibubizuoyiqiebulizhideshier。

 yijudajiachupengguodezhuduoshili，xuduogukezaigangpengdaoganqingkunjingdeqingkuangxia，tongchangfeichangrongyiguoduqingxubuwending，bulizhi，zheizongshirangjieguoyulaiyujiduan。

 zheiyihuanjie，nizuihaonenggouyuenidepengyouqingtuzishendexinlitongchu，haikeyiliruxiesimiderizhi，huoshishinazhangfudeyixiewupinlaipaiqi。

niyaonenggoutiaoxuanbiruzouniangjiazhuxieshiri，huoshishichuqulvyousansanbu。

 haijide，zheiduanshijianmeiyoubixushikedianjizhelaogongchuguizheijianshiqing，xianlinshirangzishendexintaishifangchu，huodehelidezhishanghouzaizuochujuece。

ziran，gengqiangdeshimashangzixunjishuzhuanyedeqingganxiufuzuzhi，rangjishuzhuanyeqingganzhuanjiabangnixianjixiance。

 jiaruniyiqianfanguoliruyongsipilailian、lianjiaquyuedefangfachangshiranglingyifangpeizainishenbianzheizhongbuzhengque，neishijishangdengtongyuzaoyiweizijidezhuangkuangtishenglenanduxishu。danyebingbushishuozheileizhuangkuangjiuzaoyiqingshenyuanqian，yaoxianglejiehainengfouwanliu，zenyangduiyuguanjiandianwanliu，huoshibixuxiangxiqingkuangshenrufenxi，youyudequebutaikenengcunyouyitaoduirenherendoukeyongdekexuefangfalun。

 yinciwozhuanyeganlexiabiandezheiyixinyongka，jiaruniduizishendezhuangkuangbawojinzhi，dianyixianenggouxiabianxinyongkahuodewodezixunshoujiweixin，kaizhanyicixiangjindezixunpouxi。youbixudexiaohuobannenggoudianyixiajiashang。jiaruxinyongkameifajiashang，nenggouqubaidusousuozhao“xunsuxingfukuaileshu”，nenggougengqiangdexiezhuni。

youganqingwentikedianyixiaxinyongkajiaweixinhaoyouzixun：ａｉｎｉ９９８ｓ

０３思索之后的义务决策

zaizheier，wojiuyongleyiwuzheigeci，xiangxinnvxingmenyekeyilejiedao。

 zheiyiyiwushejidaodewupinxuduo，laogongchugui，nenggoubuyizheiyijiazhonghuoshishixiaohaichengdan，danshinizuoweiyigelaopo，yiweimuqin，jiuxuyaoweijiazhonghexiaohaichengdan。

ziran，buguannizuochunaxiejuece，quanshiqiadangde。

ershishishang，zheigeshihou，niyezhiyouyouerzhongtiaoxuan。

第一种便是离异。

 jiarunihuoshinanyishihuailaogongchuguilezheijianshiqing，jiububicouhezishenqujiena，youyuzaihunyinshenghuozhong，nishicanjiazhe，niyeyouzhipeiquanbiaoshunizijidezhenzhengniantou，bingfeishiquanbudeshi，douyoutayigerenlaishangxia。

yinci，zheigeshihou，niyejiuyongnihunyinshenghuoshouyunidezhipeiquanlaixuanzezijideshenghuoxiguanhehunyinshenghuoqingkuangle。

dierzhongbianshizaicijingyingaiqing。

 zhangfufashenghunhouchuguile，nijienalelaogongchuguilezheiyijianshier，neimanixuyaoduinijianglaidehunyinshenghuozuochujiaodadetiaozhanle，zhongjiurenhenyoukenenghuilianxufancuowu。

 erzheigeshihou，zhenghaoyeshirangniyigesikaosisuodejiyu，zhangfuzenmehuihunhouchugui，shizishennaerzuodebuzuhaohuoshizenyang。

zhei，congmouyishijiaoeryan，shijishangyeshiduinimendehunyinshenghuoyouyidingdexiezhu。

０４选准机会与丈夫交涉

 dajiabudawubawodezhang，zhenduinanshengeryan，yehuichuxiangeshigeyangdeyuanyinlaipianlaopo，yinci，dengzheniyishangsanbudoukaolvdaoqingxilehou，bianshiyuzhangfujiaoshedeqingkuangxiale，zheigeshihou，tajiaruhaiyouhuanghua，niyenenggouyiyichuochuan。

shijiandetiaoxuan，tiyitiaoxuanzaiwanshang，youyudabaitiandeqingkuangxia，rendeqingxuheguanniandouchuyuhuodongqi，feichangrongyiyiqing。

dizhizuihaoshibubitiaoxuanzaijiali，youyuzaijiali，feichangrongyitanbuhedeqingkuangxia，jiuyoukuyounao，rangqingxubengkui。

 yinci，zaiwanshangdeqingkuangxia，xuanyigeqingjingdediqu，biruchafanghezhangfuhaohaodizuoxialai，pingxinjingqidibashierjiangkaiguo，binggaozhilingyifangnidezhenzhengniantouhejuece。

jiarunidejueceshiliyi，erlingyifangyeyuanyi，neidangranjiuzhaobangqile，liaohaoquanbudeliyishierjiusan。

jiarunidejueceshiliyi，erlingyifangbutongyi，neimenizhinengtiaoxuanzoufalvfaguidechengxuliucheng。

 jiarunidejueceshijingyingaiqing，wojianxin，tayehuitiaoxuanzaicijingyingaiqingde，zhongjiudajiayoujiazhong，youxiaohai，youguoduodeguanianhezhiyue，butaikenengneimasuibianfangqiniquhedisanzheguorichangshenghuode。

 neimazheigeshihou，dajiajiuxuyaohaohaodixiangyixiang，zaicibaochiyitongdehunyinshenghuo，bicibixuzuoshenmeyitongdeqinfen，lairanghunyinshenghuozaicifanhuixingfudeluguishang。

０５妥当合理解决第三者

 zaizheigeshihou，niyunidezhangfujiarudoutiaoxuanlezaicijingyingaiqingdehua，neizhangfuyeshiyouhuiyide，chenzheigeshihou，jiuxuyaoduitashuo，qujiejuehaoyudisanzhedeguanlian，qianwanbietuotuolala，buranshierhuiyuelaiyuegengbubian。

 zheigeshihou，wobenrenbingbujianyinitongyiquchulidisanzhe，youyujiarunicanjiajinquhou，shierhuiyuelaiyuegengweifanza，gengweicuoluan。

 nidezhangfuwangwangwaiyuyouhunhouchugui，henyoukenengbianshiyouyunizaimouyijieduanshangfashenglenanti，erzheishijiarunizaicanjiadaojiejuedisanzhedeshiershangdehua，neizhiyoubatagengxiangdisanzhedeshenpangtui。

 yinci，zuihaoshidefangshi，bianshigaozhizhangfu，woganquexin，wojinichongzudexinlai，wozhichini，wojinichongyudeshijianqujiejueyudisanzhedeguanlian，neiyang，zhangfuhuizailiangzhideducuxiabanwanzheiyijianshierde。

 laogongchuguilezenmegoutong?jiaruzhangfubutaihaotongyi，keyiyaoqiuniyitongyingduideqingkuangxia，zheishihou，nicainenggoucanjiakaizhan，chulidisanzhe。