对付变心男人的狠招,聪明女人的做法

 nilejieyingduiyiqingbieliannanshengdeqizhaoshishama？zongshihuiyouxierenzaiwanhuiganqingdequanguochengzhongzuochugezhonggeyangdechunshi。nihenyoukenengganjuezishenweilegenghaodishitapeizainishenbian，ganlefeichangfeichangduodeshi，congmingnvrendezuofa，danquefandaobalingyifangdezuizhongyisiqinggandoumoqumeile，zuihounizhiyoubawanliubuchenggongdeyuanyinguizuidaolingyifangwuqingdedeshenshang。keshi，zheigeshizhendema？wanhuiganqingbingbingbushizhikaonibiaodaaiyijiunengjinxingdeshier，nihaixuyaokaolvdaolingyifangshibushikeyijienanideqingyi。yinerjiaruniyaoqudechenggongwanhuinanpengyou，congmingnvrenmianduinanrenbianxinnijiuxuyaofangzhiyingyongbuzhengquedefangshi，burannidexinlihuashimeifachuanzuodaolingyifangdexinlilide。

 jiaruniganlexuduoqinfen，quemeiyouyiqieshijixiaoguo！congmingnvrenmianduinanrenbianxin，neimaqinglijizaixianliuyan，banirujindenantiyihuoyicixinggenwoshuo，wolijibangnipouxizhuangkuang，jiejuekunnan！

一、挽回男朋友时什么事儿是不可以做的

１、jilingyifangfagezhonggeyangxinxineirongjiuchanbuqinghuoqiuai，qidairetaxintong

zaixinxineirongbijiaofadadejinri，xuduorendaofenshouhouxiangqidebianshidiyishijianjilingyifangfaxiaoxi。

 xinxineirongdeneirongzhibuguobianshierzhong；yaobubianshigezhonggeyangguitiannanqiufuhexing，yaobubianshibuduanxunwenlingyifangfenshouyuanyin。

zheizhongxinxineirongdajiadounenggoubatamenfenleichengjiuchanbuqingxinxineirong。

 qianmianyizhongkanshangqushizaiqinfenwanliulingyifang，keshishishishangjuedaduoshurenneixindianjizhedezhishishixianbazheigewentizanshixingjiejuele，xianbalingyifangliudaoshenpangsuihouzaizuozhunbei。

 lingyifangbingbushierlengzi，nidezheileisuanpanzhulingyifangbutaikenengbuqingchu，shubuzhizailingyifanglaikan，nizheileishijicaozuobingbuzhihuiguotou，hekuangnicaiyongguitiannanzheileifangfa，lingyifangzongshizaibiandiniyiceng。

 erhoumianyizhongkanqilaishiweilegenghaodilejiezishenbeifenshoudeyuanyin，keshizheizhongyuangushijishangzaidajiadejiaowangzaojiupuluchulai。

 jiarunizheigeshihourengzaizheigewentishangchixujiuchanbuqing，lingyifangzongshiganjuenizhimibuhui，chedimeiyouchongfenkaolvqingganzhongfashengdenanti，zheiyangyilailingyifangzongshiyouyudanxindajiadefenqizaiyicijiqi，ertiaoxuanwanquanbikaini。

 zheiyegengbiaomingleyijianshi，yiqianniguoduchenjinzaizheiyiduanqinggandailainidetianmigan，quehushileniyaobuzuzhangwotadezheiyikeguanshishi。

yaoburan，niyejiulejiegaizenyangbaituotadejianmo，shitazaicijijilianluonidefangshi。

２、没了解自己如今的真实身份，未立即调节自身的姿势

 zheiyidianshihenduorendoushizaiwanliuzhonghuifandechangjianwenti，tamenzaifenshouzhihourengranmeiyoubanfajienazishenzaoyitichufenshoudekeguanshishi，suihoutamenhuizaizaiqianyishizhongzhongjuedezishendouhaimeifenshou，rujinlijingdeyiqiedouzhishishizaizhengchaobale，juedeyijiuyizhaoyiqiandexiangchumoshihudongjiaoliuyiduanshijianbianhuidangranhaola。

keshizheileiziquqirudeniantouganghaoshiwanliuzhongdejihui。

 shexiangyixia，ruguonishilingyifang，nizijishuaikaideqiannanyoumeiridouyizishennvpengyoudezhenshishenfenlaiganyuzishenderichangshenghuo，ninengxiangyaoma？

 rendaofenshouzhihoutongchanghuiduilingyifangcunyouyizhongfourenxinlizhuangtai，zheileiqingkuangxiajiusuannijinjinyijudanchunxingdewenhao，douhenyoukenenghuizaochenglingyifangdedangxin，gengbuyaoshuonitashiqiangrutaderichangshenghuole。

 ernizaizuowanzheiyiqie，rengzaixiangyouzheileimangmugenfengdeziwomanzuzhongdeqingkuangxia，henyoukenenglingyifangzaoyizuoxialewanquanbikainidejuecele，zheigeshihounibudancuoguowanliujihui，haibazijidewanliutuiwanglegengjiannandefangweidaole。

wanliubingbushiyijianfeichangrongyideshier，jiarunimeiyouhaodefangfahefangshi，wanliuzhitujiuzhongjiuhenjianxin。

 ciwai，fenshouzhihouwomenyaoganyuyingduibenshenzaizheiliduanhunyinguanxizhongpuludenanti，mianduitamen，caihaiyoujihuitishengbicizhijiandeguanlian。

jiaruzishizhizhongtiaoxuanduobiheshanduo，jishitayishiyourouguaduanwanliuqudechenggong，fuhexinghoudenantiyiranzongshiyulaiyuduo。

yingduiyiqingbieliannanshengdeqizhao－congmingdenvrenyingduinanrenchugui

３、找彼此的亲人或朋友干预，助功不了反倒变向施加压力

 yixierenganjuezhikaozishenwufamibudeqingkuangxia，tamenbianhuibaxiangfadadaobicideqinpenghaoyoudeshenshang，zaitamenlaikanzishenshuodehualingyifanghenyoukenengburongyiting，keshiqinpenghaoyoudehualingyifangbianhuitingjinlai，yincitamenhuijiezhuqinpenghaoyoulaijilingyifangchuandizishendexinxineirong。

keshizheiyigerenxingweishishifenbuzhengquedexingwei。

 zuixiandajiadeqinpenghaoyoubingbulejiedajiazhongjiandequanbushier，woshuodeshiquanbushier，erbushinidanfangdefalaosao，yincitamenzaixinxichuandideqingkuangxiahuicunyouzheyidingwucha，zheiyidianwuchajiuhenyoukenengbaquanbuxinxineirongdehanyidoubianweierle。

cizhi，zheileigerenxingweihuiranglingyifangzaochengchuyizhongqingchunqipanni。

dangrenherendouganjuetabuyinggaigennifenshoushi，zheiganghaobianshilingyifangzuixianggennifenshoushi。

 youyunizheileigerenxingweishiyizhongshejiaomeitibangpiao，ertafandaogengganjuemeiyouyigerendongta、lejiedaozheiyiduanqingganshitaduopijuan。

nidechuleyidaodanxuanti，erxuanzexiangjinyou２ge，yigeshifuhexing，lingyigebianshibaituomuqiandeweixinpengyouquan。

erchengqianshangwandelizizhengshile，daliangrenyaotiaoxuanhoumianyizhong。

jinguannanshengdedixiongxiaiquanhe，ernvhaidezimeiquexiaiquanfen。

xuduoqingkuangxia，nvhaifenshouzhihoushenbianderenbingbuhuishiyongtalianlianbushe，gengbieshuotaohuita。

budanganjueshizaixiaohaodaliangzhenguidejingliherenshijian，gengbuzhi。

danzaiwoyanzhong，renshijiandeqinggan，yemeiyoufeichangzhidebuzhi，jinyouxiangyaobuyuanyi。

二、想取得成功挽留，一定要那样做

１、要去剖析大家分手的原因

zheiyidianshishifendeguanjiande。

 youyupouxifenshoudeyuanyin，guanliandaonixuyaoruhequwanliutadeyigefangxiang，jiaruzhishideyouyu２gerendegexingbushihe，changchanghuiyouyurichangsuosuierzhengzhi。

zheizhongzhuangkuangxiangduieryanshifeichangjiandande。

neimazheigeshihouninengshizhejijilianluoyixialingyifang，taruhedoushihuiyouyidianfanying。

keshijiaruniganleyixiejiaoweiyanzhongdeshiererzaochengdajiatichufenshou，lingyifanghuishifendezenghenni。

neimazheigeshihoujiuqianwanbiequjiuchanbuqingta、qudajiaolingyifang。

tiyizheigeshihoucaiyonglengzangchulifangfa，yaoburandajiadefenqidianzongshijiazhong。

wulunshizaiganqingli，huoshizairichangshenghuozhong，dajiayibanyaoxiangwangjiyigerendehuadoubingbushineimafeichangrongyideshi。

meiyoulijingdabannianzhishangdeshijian，lingyifangyiranhuizaizishendenaohaizhongliyihuierfasheng。

 dadaolishijishangmeiyigerendoudong，jinjinzhenduifenshouzhihoujizheyaowanliudereneryan，tamenshiyouyuxuqiugantaiqiangle（jitaixiangzaicixiangyongtale），jinerzaochengqueshilezishendelixing，youyuyaoxiangxunsuwanliulingyifang，erjizhequzuoyixiezijuedenengwanliulingyifangdeshier。

danshijishang，yuexinjiderendaowanliudelumianshangyuewufaqudechenggong。

２、调节良好的心态，改变现状

meiyigerendoudianjizhezishendeganqingkeyibaitouxielao。

danqinggancongbujiushiniqidairuhebianhuiruhede。

bidingshiyounaxiedajiameijiejuehaodenantizaochengfashengleｔａduinijiangchutichufenshoutamen。

 ruguonimeifayingduizheishiliaoweijideyanlidajideqingkuangxia，bianhuifeichangrongyishenxianxiaochenhunhoudexintaizhizhong，quanburendouchongmanlefumianqingxu。

buzhiyousheixiangyaogenyigechongchizhefunengliangderenyiqishenghuoni？

fenshouzhihouzenyangxintaidiaozhengwanhuiganqing。

suzaojijizhudongjijidexintai。

fenshouzhihouhenduorendoushihuiyidiebule，youshangdexintaizhanyoulezhengyigeneixin。

shijishangxuduoqingkuangxiaxintaishiyouzishenqucaozongde。

 xingfukuailedeweiyiguize，bianshibikaifumianqingxu！dangzishenyoufumianqingxushichulita，dangtarenyoufumianqingxushibangzhutarenchulita，jiaruqueshibangbushangneimejiubikaita。

 yinci，yaoxiangsuzaoshenxinjiankangdexinlizhuangtai，jiuwubizhaoxiefenfaxiangshangdeshierlaizuo，fensanhuazhuanzhulirangzishenbubidianjizhetichufenshoudeshier。

biru：qupashan，genpenyouqugechangdeng，rangzishendexinqingyukuaiqilai。

bashijianhuoliyongzaitigaozijidedeshenshang。

 tanlianaishi，ganqingshangbicizhijiandoushihuibazijiyidingdeshijianhehuolizijintourudaolingyifangdedeshenshang，youyizhongzhuangkuangbianshizuoweixuqiugangaodeyifang，bianhuizailingyifangzijintourudaliangshijianhehuoli，yitiandaowanjinjinweiraolingyifangzhuandong，zheimianbuleburongyiranglingyifangshangxiazishen，zaochengzishenmeiyouhuashijianlaiyuanyuwojibenjianshe。

 yinci，cike，jiuqianwanbieqianxinwankuqidaolingyifangzaigennizaiyiqile，yuqishuoneimekelingdewanliu，haibibushangbazheiyifenqidaolingyifangdequdongliyongzaiduizishendejibenjiansheshang。

jinyouchixudewanshanziwo，bianhuigengweiyouzichan，gengweidiyouyouhuoli。

 wanliutichufenshoumeiduojiudenanpengyou，zuibukeyizuodebianshixinjiwanliu，congmingnvrendezuofa，jiuchanbuqingqiqiu，xianjianshaozishendexuqiugan，bazhuanzhuliduofangdaotigaozijishiyongjiazhideshiershang，yiyibanpengyoudefangfaqukandailingyifang，neiyang，taduinideyouhaoducaihuizaidutigaoshangqu，zheishihou，wanhuinanpengyoudegailvcaihuizhubutigao！