当心爱的男人变心了，聪明女人的做法是这样，才是对自己负责

 henduorennvxingdouqidaiyouyigeshenaizhezishendenanshengfasheng，duizishenyixinyiyibuqibuli，peizishenduguoyouzhangdehoubanbeizi。keshizaixianshishenghuozhongjiuhuiyouxuduonvxingsuotuofeiren，chajuezijidezhangfupanbianlezishen。congmingnvrenmianduinanrenbianxin，yingduizheigewenti，xuduonvxingzuochudediyifanyingshiliquta，yeshiyouxuduonvxinghuiweiquqiuquandezaicijianchibuxie。congmingnvrendezuofa，qinggandeshibingbingbushisanyanliangyujiukeyishuoqingxide，jiarujinyou２gerenkexuanzefangshou，keshixuduonvrendoushikaolvxiaohaierhelaogongzaicijianchibuxiezaiyiqirichangshenghuo。youdenvxingzeshiaiyuqingmian，juedezishenlihunzhihoujiuzhaobuzheneimeheshideren。

 dongnvxingwanhunzaoyiyou５niandeshijian，zidawanhuntajiufangqilegongzuozhongyixinyiyidexueqilejiatingzhufu，zhaoliaoxiaohaidechichuanzhuxing，chengdanyijiarendechichihehe，weilegenghaodigengqiangdezhidaoxiaohaixuexi，talianzhiqiandexiguanxingdougaile。

 zaihunqian，meidaolibaitianbianhuiheguimiguangjiegouwugoumaiyifu，haihuijixugesanchawudequlvxing，zhongjiumeiyigenvxingdouxiaipiaoliangyifuheshipin。keshizaihunhou，tadoutongtongpaodaonaohou，yixinyiyidezhaoliaoyijiarenderichangshenghuo。

 dongnvxingrenweizishendetouruhuihuandezhangfudezhenxinshiyihezhongshi，congmingnvrendezuofa,keshirangtayixiangbudaodeshi，laogongyouwaiyu，aishangletaren。jinguanzishenduizhangfudexinxizaoyoulejie，keshidongnvxingcongneixinjianxinlaogong，juedelaogongburongyizuochubaoqianzishendeshier。zhizhiyouyitiandongnvxingfajuezhangfudeqianjialiyouhetarendeqinmiwujianxiangpian，tafahuodejiangxiangpianshuaizaizhangfudelianbu，renweizhangfuweibiaoshuxienaxie。keshimeiyouzhangfujinjinqianqiandejiangdao：“jirannidouzhidao，neimejiugennitanbaishuoba，woaishangletaren，nizijinazhuyiba”jiezhezhangfuduomenerchu。liuyoukudexianggeleiruyuxiayiyangdedongnvxingyigezaiwuzilidaitanzuozhe。

 zhidaodongnvxingqingxuyouyidingdehuifuyihou，jianjuedehezhangfutiaoxuanleliyi，kaishilezishengenghaodeshenghuo。dangshenaidenanrenchuguile，congmingdenvrendezuofashineiyang，caisuanshiyizhongduizishenfuzedexingwei。

守住底线，不必委屈求全

 nvxingzaiqingganzhong，yaomingbaikeshouzishendedaodedixian，bubiyuelaiyueweiquqiuquanherennai。nvxingzaiqingganli，tongchangfeichangrongyiyiqiyongshi，zhenduiyixiezishenbukeyijienadeshier，zaitadesanyanliangyuzhongbianhuiyuelaiyuemeiyouzishendeguandian，tiaoxuankuanrong。

 keshinideweiquqiuquanzongshishitaduinigengweitaiguo，dangnimingmingzhidaotadeneixinzaoyimeiyounishi，jiuxuyaogentadangzhonggentashuodaoqingxi，gentashengmingzishendedaodedixianzainaer。jiarutahuoshiyiranzheiban，neimenineimejiumeiyoubixuyourouguaduan。

 zaiyiduanqingganzhong，jiaruniyiweidirenshouhefangrennanshengdepanbian，nanshengbianhuiduinidedaodedixianzhizhibuli，naizhidecunjinchidefancuowu。yuqishuoshounanshengdewurubibushangyongganyidiantiaochuhuokeng，guodeyouzizunxinyixie。

让自身越来越更为出色

 yigerendenengliyouxian，ruguonigenggaibushangyigenanrenshi，niyinggaizuodebianshigaibianxianzhuang。ruguonifajueyigenanrencuoguolenideqingshen，jiudaibiaozheniduitazaoyimeiyoufengcai，meiyouyouhuoli。zheishinizuibixuzuodebianshitigaozijidefengcai。

 nixuyaobaduiwoduinideaifendaozishenyibufen，meirizhongshizishendechuanzhedaban，weizijihuayigejingmeidezhuangmian，chuandedangdaqideyifukuzi。jishineiyangdezishenbingbushiweilegenghaoditaohaonanshengzhishijizijikanjianshushi，niyeyaomingbaizaihunidebiaomian。ciwaibaduitaxinlaishou，basixuhuazaigongzuozhonghexuexishang，ruguonidegongzuoyouyidingdezaojiushi，niyeburongyizaihutadepanbian，jijimingquetichutichufenshoudeneirenjiushinierbushita。

 meiyigenvxingqipandeganqingshijishangbingbuneimananyou，jinyouruguoniyushanggengweichusedezishen，zainiderichangshenghuohaowuyiwenhuifashengxuduogengweichenggongderenlaiguanzhuni，rangniwennuan，shouhouni。

 jiarunideneigeren，congmingnvrenmianduinanrenbianxin，cuoguolenideqingshen，qianwanbieyinciershangxinnanguo，youyuneijiushitadesunhai，tashiquyigezhenxinshiyikandairennidenvren，danniyefeichangzhidegengqiangde。