老公提离婚是真想离吗?辨别

 laogongtilihunshizhenxianglima？liangrenzhongjiandehunyinshenghuozaizuichudeqingkuangxia，guanlianhuoshishifenqinmiwujian，bingqiezaibicizhijiandexinlizishizhizhongdoujianxinlingyifangshikenengyiqigenzishenxieshougongduderen，bansuizheshijiandebianhuaxianghuzhijianzongshiyulaiyuzhangwo，zenmepanduanlaogonglihunjuexin？zhiqianmeifajuedeyimianyehuichengxianchuqu，zheiyangyilaibianhuizaochenghaoxuduodenanyibimiandefenqi。

老公提离婚是真想离吗

 zhangfutiliyishifouqueshiyaoxiangliyinenggoucongrichangshenghuodeyidianyidiguanchachulai。zhongjiuliangrenrichangshenghuozaiyiqizheimeduonian，xianghuzhijiankendingshizaoyishifendezhangwohelejiele。jiarulingyifangxiajuexinyaohenvxingliyi，neimazairichangshenghuozhongduinvxingdexintaihaowuyiwenyuzhiqianduibihuiyouyidingdegenggai。youyuzaitadeguannianzhong，kendingshihenxiangyaoneimezuode，buranyebuhuiduizheiyijiazhongdeshihuoshishirenzhujianyuelaiyueyulaiyulengmo。yigeyaoxiangjinzaojiejuezheiyijiazhongderendangranduizheiyijiazhongdeqingganbianhuibianqian，neiyangjiurutongquzhongrensandedadaoli。

讲清离异的原因

 buguanzuoyiqieshierdoubixuyigejiuzaideyuanyin。wanhunzheiban，liyiyeshizheiban。bicidangshitiaoxuanwanhunshiyouyuenai，neijiranrujintiaoxuanliyihaowuyiwenyebixuyidingdeyuanyin。yuanyinyouhenduo，birujiazhongdefenqi，qinggandeshengshu，shenzhishiyifangdepanbiandoushiyouhenyoukenengbianchenglingyifangliyideyuanyin。jiarulianyigehaodiandelihundeyuanyinyemeiyouneizhiyoubiaomingzheigerendouhaimeixiangqingxizheiyijueceshibushishitayihanzhongshen。

观查另一方的心态是不是果断

 xijiejuedingjieguo，youshimingquetichuliyiwubishigenjuyidingdesisuoyihoucaihuixianglingyifangmingquetichu。tiliyiderenzuixianxintaiyidingshiyaoshifenguoduande，jiaruyaobaibudingdexintai，neizhiyouzhengshizheigerendexinlishijishanghaibingbingbushineimayaoxiangliyi。gouguoduangoujianjuedexintaiburongyizaoshousuoyourendeweihai，chufeishicongyikaishideqingkuangxiazheigerenjiumeiyouxiajuexin，youyishichongdongyaoxiangliyideniantouxianglaiyeshicunyoude。yinci，guanchalingyifangdexintaijiunengbianbiechuhuida。

开展一次沟通交流

 renherenzhijian，xinyuxinzhongjiandegoutongjiaoliushizhongdouwukebimian。jibianzaixingyingbuliderenyedoumianbuleneiyangdegoutongjiaoliu。genjugoutongjiaoliuzhangwolingyifangxinlideniantou，conggoutongjiaoliuzhongnenggoulejielingyifangshibushiqueshiyanfanzheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo，yaoxiangyiliyineiyangdefangfawanbi。jianxinzailiangrenzhongjiandegoutongjiaoliuquanguochengzhong，yidingnenggoulejiebicizhijianxintoudeniantou。

观查日常生活的情况

 xuduoqingkuangxiarichangshenghuokeyijiyuyigerenshejilinggan。dangyigerenzhujiangenggaideqingkuangxia，zuoweijiaren，zairichangshenghuozhongyidinghuiyouyidingdefajue。zhongjiumeiriwuhuabushuoderen，zenmepanduanlaogonglihunjuexin？zheigerenshishenmeyangzide，doukanzaiyanzhong。jiarulingyifangzairichangshenghuozhongdexintai，chuzaiailibulishenzhishichixuzhaochaer，neiyangderichangshenghuojinyouerzhongqingkuangyishibururenyi，ershibicizaichixudezhengzhizhongduguo。neiyangdeqingkuangweiyikeyishuoyiyangdedayuebianshilingyifangyaoxiangliyidezhuyaobiaoxianleba。