wuluntanlianaihuoshihunyinshenghuo,qingganyidanchuzaipingwen,feichangrongyipibei,fangfoqueshiyinglezheijuhua“wufadedaodeshizhongzaizaodong,youzhedequetuierqiuqici”。nanrenzaiganqingpijuanqibiaoxianyounaxie?shijishang,youyixieqinggan,queshibuhuiyousanxineryizhishuo,gengmeiyoufazineixindeyanfan,zhishiquefalerangrenchongjingheqidaidewupin,rutongyifuhuazhou,wuluntaduomedezhengui,yidanguiniquanbu,xiqigesanwutianmeishenmewenti,yubabunenggeyinianbanzaiyebushigeshi,keshishinichengnianrenleiyuedenachulaicaxi,shangxiyifan,zaishouzangqilai,zaisuonanmianshinikuzao,danshishinidiuqihuoshisongli,ninengdongdema?haowuyiwenburongyia,yinweitaduiniyeyoubunengsheqideshiyongjiazhiheshijiyiyi,gengyouyuniyiqianweilegenghaodihuodetatourujiageangguidechengben。yiduanganqingyaojieshudezhengzhaoyounaxie?
pengdaoqingganlidepingjing,bicizhijianrengranyouaiyi,quetibuqilaijingshenshizhilaihaohaodijiaowang,kandaolingyifanghuiyouyixieyanfan,haiyoudianeryouqidejuede:kuzao。
dongnideren,buyidinghonglielanman,queyidingrangninyoulibule、buliqudepuputongtonghewending,youyikao,yeshiyouxinlai,youxinrengan,yeshiyouguishugan,rutongdajiachiguanledebaimifanhemomo,yitiandaowanchiyejiuyanfanhennile,kenifangqitamenshiyishi,chubulaiyigeyue,niyejiudehuailianbaimifanhemomodegantian。
nanrenzaiganqingpijuanqibiaoxianyounaxie?nantidefasheng,yidingshiyongyuchulide,erbushiyonglaiduobide,jinliangyaorenqingtamendecunyou,hushitamensuodailainidetongchuhecuican,yongyugennantijiaoxiaohedouzheng,niyueqiangjing,tamenjiuyuejianruo,jibainidewoshinizishendexinlizhuangtai。
diaojiexintai,kanzhunnantidezhongyao,yiqiedoujiangdedaojiejue。
zenyangbaituonannvjiaowangzhongdeqingganpibeiqi?shiyixiazheizhao
【01】重蹈覆辙往日的打动
enaideliangren,yidingyitongyouzheguowushuxingfudeyishunjian。
zheixiejingcaipianduanli,zangzhedajiadezhuiyihexingfukuaile,dadonghewennuan,changchangzhuiyiqilai,rengranruzuobantianmeihegaoxing,naizhiyouqiqidaifanhuineiyigeqingjingzaiduganshouyifan。
neimajiranzheiyang,dajiazhongjiandeqingganpengdaoleduanbanheyanfan,weishenmebuxuwangrizaicikaiyanni?congchoubeidaozhixing,congzhixingdaojilingyifangyifenyiwaijingxihuoshidadongbicizhijian,zaizheiliquanbuquanguochengzhong,quanshiduiqingganyizhongfumoheshangxi,congjinjudetongbudaozhangjulideyuantiao,baxirilidedadongzhuiyileyibian,jinengdiaojirujindeshenghuozhuangtai,younengxinhuaiganenwangridezhuduo,xiangxianghuzhijianyanfandouyoudianernan。
liru,dangshidajiameiyoujianlilianaiguanxideqingkuangxia,nanpengyoucongyidilianyeganlaikanzheni,zhiyinweinijiangleyijuhua:fashaoganmaole。huozhinidebingdexinxihou,tameiyourangnikuanweiheguanxindehuayu,naizhimeiyouxunwennizheizhong:daoyiyuanlemeiyou?fuyaolemeiyou?youmeiyourenzhaoliao?nihenmishi,yehenbiequ,lingniyiwaijingxideshi,talianyeganlaitanwangni,bingqierangnichanshengleganmaochongji,jiuweilegenghaodiyifenanxinheguanai,takeyibucixinlaodechaoniganfu,zugouchudongdaonideai。
dangdajiazaiyiqiyihou,bujinzhuzailetongyigedachengshi,pengmianbuyongbenmanghelaoku,richangshenghuozaitongyigewuyan,bingqieqingganyepingpingdandanle,meileguoduodelanmanhedadong,manmandi,lianjiadoubuxiangchaole。
youyuneiyangdezhuangkuang,suibukeyizaikaiyanxiridelanman,danyebushimeiyoubanfa,hebushiyishizheizhong:jianchibuxiemeirizaochendesongxingwenhuoshiwananwen,shundaigenlingyifangshuoyiju:woxihuanni。
yiduanganqingyaojieshudezhengzhaoyounaxie?biexiaoqiaolezheiyifangfa,youxierenzuoleleisicideyigeshiyanzhengshi,ruguoniduiciwaiyigerenbuduanbiaodaaiyiheshangxideqingkuangxia,rentilideshanxinhewennuanyehuidafudushenggao,huibuyouzizhudifaxianlingyifangdeshenshangdeguanghuihepiaoliang,jinengdianbaolingyifangdedongxin,yekeyirongguanghuanfazishendeqingyi。
【02】找寻彼此之间有兴趣的点:希望却未经历过的事儿,喜爱却没法有着的物品;思念却没法看到的人这些
2geshenaiderenrichangshenghuozaiyiqi,shouwanshoulikailehenyuanjiaozhangdelu,bujingyijianjuranwangjilelaideshihoudechuxin。
lixiangzhujianbeirichangshenghuomolaidaobianjiao,qingjiezhujianbeiyouyanjiangcusuotidai,gerenaihaomanmanbeizinvdeyangyuhelaonianrendefuyangsuohuanzhi,congcifalixiangxiangzheixiecongmeiwanchengquequehanzhedewupin。
qingganzizhanglepibei,shiyouyumeiyouxiangtongdexingquaihaodian,huanjuhuashuoyifangdehushihehushi,cushilingyifanghaipaxiwangtaiduo,youyupayousuoqidai,youyidingdexinhan。
tangruonvxingcongtanlianaishijiulixiangzheyouzheyijiadianziqin,suiranzishenburongyidan,keshiqingjingbaizaijiazhong,yeshilingyizhonggaoxinghexiangyou,lixiangbuqujueyutadexianshiyiyizenyang,erqujueyutadewanchengkeyijirenchanshengjingshenshizhishangdeyukuaiheanwei,zheijiuzaoyichongzu。
neimazuoweilaogong,jiranzhaodaotayouxingqudewupin,hebuchangshibangtawanchengzheiyichaosimuxiangdexinyuan,zaibangtashixianyuanwangdequanguochengzhong,laogongbudankeyidedaomanzugan,bingqiejiandaolaopofazineixindekaixinhelingrenmanyi,yehuititafeichanggaoxing。
neiyangdexingquaihaodianhaowuyiwenbujinyige,bingqierengebuxiangtong,zhiyaoniyuanyiquzhao,haowuyiwenkeyifajuelingyifangdeaihaoyuqingjie,zhenduibaituoqingganyanjuanqishifenyouxiezhu。
【03】仿真模拟提出分手情景:不冷暴力,不说再见,却做着与提出分手相关的一切事儿
yiduanganqingyaojieshudezhengzhaoyounaxie?yanjuanqidedianxingxingjuedeshi,nile,fanle,wujuede,yanzhongmanshibumanyi,xiangzouqueshebude,xiangsheqiquebugan,xiangwanbiquepazhongxinxipaidetong,jinyibumangran,tuiyibuhaipa,panghuangzailiangbianbuzhidaozenmebandeshizilukou。
youyujibuyuanweilegenghaodichoubeiwangridelanmanerfeisixu,youbuyuantaiguodijiandequyuelingyifang,neimahebushiyixiazheiyifangfa:fangzhenmonitichufenshouqingjing。
fangzhenmonitichufenshou,bingbushizhenzhenzhengzhengdefenli,zhishiganshoutichufenshoudeyiqiejuede,quemeiyouyiqiedebenzhigenggai。
biesuibianlengbaoli,busuibianshuoyishengzaijian,dannenggoucongbenshenzuoxiagongfu,xiahenxiagongfu,liru:fenshou,buhuizaigenlingyifangqingtuyoushang,buhuizaidatanlingyifangderichangshenghuosuisuide;rengxiagaobiedanshendezhenshishenfen,duojiaoyixing,huoshiguangfanshejiaoquanzi;canyuyiqiehenyoukenengdejuhuihuodonghezhutihuodong,chongzuxiangyousuiyiheshineikongjianzheixie,jinyibufangzhenmonifenshouzhihoudeqingkuang。
zuizhong,nihenkenenghuifajue,huoshiyuanxiandeshouhouzuiwennuan,zuianwen,zuikekao,“yiburuxin,renburugu”zhaoxunyidaquan,yuanxiannizuiyaoxiangdexingfukuailejiuzainideshoushang,jinjinnimeiyoufajuebale。
nanrenzaiganqingpijuanqibiaoxianyounaxie?tizaoyujietongchu,ninengxinhuaiganensuoyouzhedeyiqie,genghuiaixiyandixiadexingfukuailehewending,caikeyimingbaipingpingdandanhepuputongtongcaisuanshiqinggandeguilu,yanhuozongshixuanliniaona,keyejinjinyichaneidefuxian,zuihourengranhuiyanxiaoyunsanyichangkong。
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