男人变心老公出轨后，妻子不能做的4件事

 nanrenbianxinlaogongchuguihou，qizibunengzuode4jianshi。ruguoyaoyong“lihun”defangshiqiangpolaogonghedisanzhefenkai，zheizhongfangshiwangwangshideqifan。zhangfuchuguiyoutadeyuanyin，yeyoutadequedian。ruguoyonglihunlaiwanhui，shuomingniduihunyindetaidu，duiwanhuibuhao。

第一，不要轻易谈离婚。

 yudaohunyinweiji，shouxianxiangdaodejiushilihun，“lihun”zongshiguazaizuibian。danshi，“jiehun”he“lihun”haishiyaojingguoshensishulvhoujueding。buyaochongdongzhixiashuochulai。

 ruguoyaoyong“lihun”defangshiqiangpolaogonghedisanzhefenkai，zheizhongfangshiwangwangshideqifan。zhangfuchuguiyoutadeyuanyin，yeyoutadequedian。ruguoyonglihunlaiwanhui，shuomingniduihunyindetaidu，duiwanhuibuhao。

第二，不要互相争斗。

 mingbainifenkaidisanzhedemude，jiunilaogong，jiunijiaren。jingzhengzhihuitaigaomaodundian。nanrendouhaokan。kudeshihounidaochugentamenda，huozhenaodale，zhihuibashiqingtuidaoxuanyabian，rangshuangfangdoumeitaijiexia，jiulaogongdekenengxingjiugengdile。

第三，不要用手撕第三方。

 xianshizhonghenduoyuanbanlvfaxianlaogongchugui，buzhidaozenmezuo。tamenbudebuzhudongsidisanfang，faxiezijidefennu，jidisanfangdianyansekankan。

 qishizheiyanghuirangdisanfangtongguoyuyanlaijinuni。kongzhibulezijideqingxu，jiushipofu，zuizhonglaogonghuimeimianzi。zheigeshijianduihouxuhuifumeiyouyingxiang。

 ruguoxiangchenggongfenlidisanfang，yongjingzhidongshigehaobanfa。zhidaoxiangdisanfangxuexidehaochu，jianshaozijidexuqiugan，gaizhengzijidequedian，tishengziji，caishijiulaogongchenggonglvgaodefangfa。

第四，不要拿孩子出气。

 fuqizhijianzaizenmenaomaodun，yebunengbazhanzhengshaozaihaizishenshang，yinweihaizishiwugude。buyaoyinweizijidewunengerbaduijiarenhelaogongdebumanfaxiezaihaizishenshang，nvedai、ouda、rumahaizi，gengbuyaobahaizidangchengzhengjiulaogongdechouma，zheiyangzhihuirangjiatinghehunyingengjiaehua。