女人如何正确应对老公出轨变心呢？

nvrenruhezhengqueyingduilaogongchuguibianxinni？zhangfuchuguihou，henduoqizizhihuiyiweidekunaomanma，danyidingbuzhidaozheibujinwuxiao，erqieshizuidiaojiadexingwei。zheiyangdeqiziyinggaifansizijiweishenmehuibeizhangfubeipan!ruguohaishibuzhidaozenmeban，neijiukankancongmingdelaoposhizenmexiaosachulideba。

1.不能为了婚姻而迷失自己。

hunyinzhishirenshengdeyibufen，erbushiquanbu。buyaoziyiweishi，weileyigewanmeidehunyinfuchuquanbudexinxuehelinghun，zuihouyebuhuidedaorenherenke。xuehuizuolaopo，yeyaoxuehuixiangshoushenghuo，buyaoyinweijiehunermishiziji。nilianzijishisheidoubuzhidao，hainengzhiwangnilaogongbushouzuwucuoma?zhaodaoziji，zuohaoziji，huochuyigezhenshizixindeziji，erbushiyinweisuoweideyuanyinermishi，ganga。aiqing，qishihenjiandan，guanjianshiruhemianduihejieshouxianzaideziji，zheicaishizuizhidefanside。

2.仔细检查问题的原因。

daduoshuzhangfuchuguikendingbushiguyide，zhishiyifangdangshideqingxuzhuangtaixuyaolingyizhongbuchong，erzheizhongbuchongqiaqiashiduiqiziyishidehushi。zhangfuchuguideshihou，qizishouxianyaosikaodeshi，zaizheiduanhunyinzhong，womenshifouzhenzhengjinruleqizidejiaose。yexujiehunhou，wohuishaogenlaogongcou;yexuhunhou，weilegongzuo，weilezhaoguhaizi，wozaijingshenshangbalaogonglengluole;yexuhunhoudejiaosenenglinvxingbinanxinggengqiang?hunyinzuizhongyaodeshipeibanduifang，yinweizhangfuyidanlikaiqizidepeiban，jiuhuigandaogudu，xiangfangzongzijideyuwang;yihunnanrengengxuyaoqizideguanxinhehehu。ruguojingchangbeiqizilengluo，tahuijuedezizunxinshoudaolejidadedaji，huigandaowusuoshicong，yushizaiyiguwaizaidenuanliuzhongganshoudaoqiansuoweiyoudejidonghejiqing;nanrenjiaoao。tanengrongrenqizideruanruohewuzhi，danbunengrongrenqizigefangmiandeqiangshihenengli。suoyi，zaihunyinzhong，womenyaoyouzugoudebaoronghehuxianggoutong。ruguowomenxiangshouhuotianmeideguoshi，womenbixuzhidaoruhenuli。

3.给他时间和机会。

renmenzongshuo:yidanbuzhong，baicibukeren。danshishijieshangdemaozenmekenengbuchuguini?youbiyaoweileyigechuguibamaoqiechengsuipianma?changyandao，zaigonggongchanghebaoshoumimishihenzhongyaode。jiranfashenglezheizhongshiqing，womenshouxianyaozuodejiushibaochiqingxingdetounaohelixingdetaidu。buyaojizhechengfata，yebuyaohebierenshuozheijianshi。nanrenjiaoao。dangniyidiandoubujitamianzideshihou，tabuhuihuigai，fanerhuiduinigengjiafangan。dannidetaidushitayihuilaijiuyuanliangta。qingjinliangjitayixieshijianhekongjian，rangtayishidaozijizuocuole。yinweiai，aikeyibaorongyiqie，meigerendouxuyaojiyicijihui。yexutayijingkandegengqingchule，ranhouyouhuilaile。