男人变心了执意要离婚，如何挽回婚姻？

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1.冷静讨论，找出婚姻问题!

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2.不要互相争论，找出自己的问题。

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3.回忆你的过去，再次唤回你的爱。

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4.表明她的态度，给她安全感。

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5.灵活运用第三方力量。

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