挽回老公攻略：发现老公出轨后该怎么补救呢？

 wanhuilaogonggonglve：faxianlaogongchuguihougaizenmebujiuni？zaixianshihunyinshenghuozhongnvxingfaxianzijilaogongchuguihou，diyishijiandoubuzhidaogaizenmezuo。zhenduilaogongchuguixiangwanhuilaogong，nvxingkeyizhuyiyixia3geyaodian。

一、不要着急找对方摊牌

 zheiyeshiniyongyuanbuyinggaizuodeshiqing。dabufennvrenmianduiqipianlingyibandewenti，diyiganjuejiushiweishenmezheigexinrenderenbeipanlewo，xinlibuganxiangxin。danshi，dangniyijingfaxianchuguishijidingshishideshihou，buxiangxinjiuyinggaixiangxin。

 chufeinixiangmianduinimendehunyinguanxi，fouzewennidelingyibantamenyoumeiyouchuguihuozheweishenmechuguishimeiyouyiyide。niyaozuodeshijiazhuangbuzhidao，yinweiyigechuguidenanrenhenkenengyijingzaijihuaruhezhuanyicaichanhehaizi，jiazhuangbuzhidaoshiweilefangzhitaguozaojinruzheigeguocheng。zhiyouzheiyangnicaihuiyoushijianquxiangzenmewanhuizheiduanganqinghuozhejieshuzheiduanganqing。

二、在婚姻中不要迷失自己

 ruguoniwennilaogongyoumeiyouchugui，duifanghuichengren，baozhengbuzailianxi。youxienvrenhuiyinweixiangkuaidianwanhuihunyinertiantianyishenyigui，jingchangchagang，yaoqiuduifangyizhijubao“zainali，shenme，hesheizaiyiqi”，shenzhiyourenyongzishalaiyaoxieduifang。

 ruguonilaogongxiangchugui，xinmeile，chayemeiyong。ruguotazhendehouhuile，xianghuidaojiarenshenbian，neimenizhihuirangduifanggandaozhixi，yixinyiyidetaobi。

 henduoyuanpeiqinglvqutoutouzhaoxiaosan，maren，guanbuhaojiating。tamenbuzaihuhaizidexueye，zhishiweilekanzhelaogongchugui。doushiziwoshiluodebiaoxian。shenghuojiushizheiyang。nanrenchugui，zhiyoulianggexuanze，shilikaihaishibulikai。dangnixiangdaozheiyidiandeshihou，jiumaichuxiayibu。

三、学会调整积极乐观的心态

 buyaoyinweitayouwaiyujiushiquxinxin。laogongaishangbieren，youdenvrenjuedezijishiqulemeili，nanrenjiuhuiquzhaobiedenvren。tamenshenzhirenwei“laogongbuzaiaiwole，suoyiwoyidianxiyinlidoumeiyou。”chanshenghenduofumianqingxu，foudingzijidejiazhi。niyaozhaodebushinidewenti，ershinidehunyinwenti。

 qingshanggaodenvrenbuhuiyixiazihenanrenzhengmianjiaofeng，ershihuidiaozhengxintai，jizijishijianxiaohuazhengli。suiranduifangchugui，nishihunyindeshouhaizhe，danyikaishibaozhepipingbaoyuandetaidu，nijiushule。

恋爱婚姻中，任何一方都没有义务承担感情危机的责任。如果不下定决心分手或者离婚，首先要找理由解决。如果你想离婚，你应该尽量让自己的利益最大化。