究竟情场失意遇到第三者咋办

 disanzhezheiyirenwujiaosezairichangshenghuozhizhongchuxian，queshirangrenkee。tamenbudanhuihuailetarendeqinggan，haisichuzhigaoqiyang，fangfozishendedao fengshuochengguo。yingduineiyangdezhuangkuang，dajiajinyounaonu、youshangshiyushiwubude，nandaoaiyigerenyoucuomadouhuaaitongweinengliang，yiqirenzhidaohaizhiqirenzhishen，yibaoweiwomendeai。xifuyingdangzenyangyingduidisanzhe，qingchangshiyizheijingdiandesanzhaoniyinggaixuehao。

对丈夫，要好上加好

 dangfajuezhangfuyoudisanzheyihou，xuduo zhengshihuitiaoxuanzhiyitadezhuduobingbushi，quebuzhidaozheizongshirangdisanzhefeichanghaodeyunyong。tamenhuichuifengji，jiangdao：“nikankannidexifujiuzheiyangdecusucubao，meiyouyidiannvrenqizhi”。yinci ，shourenyibashou，zhengzhongjiandisanzhexiahuaideshierdajiaguoduanbukeyizuo。xiangfan，disanzheduizhangfuhao，dajiajiuxuyaobaozhengduitagengqiang。yibanlaishuo，suoyourenmanzhezishendezhengshizhaodisanzhezheijianshiqing，qixinlizhuangtaidoushihuiyouyisineijiu，jiarukeyifeichanghaodeyunyongzheiyidian，zaiqineigoujiangengweiwennuan，gengweishifangyalideziranhuanjing，zhangfubianganjuehuanshihezhengshiyiqigengyouxinrengan，dajiabianchenggongleyidaban。

对第三者，要有一些方式

 zuodisanzhebingbushinaxiefengcaideshi，jiarulingyifanghuanshiyouyixiegujidehua，dajiachedinenggougenjujiaoshedefangshicujinqiliqu。zhongjiurendoushiyouqinggan，pengdaoaiderennenggoulejie，keshiqikeyilijiwuweiyanzhibuyu，qingchangshiyigaoqingchutashiyijianbufuzerendeshi，nenggoujitayidingdeqingmian，rangqiyouyidingdetimiandideliqu。jiaruyushangneileibenlailejiebunengweierqiangzhierwei，bingzhangshiqiren，zhigaoqiyangderen，dajiajiuxuyaojiyixiejingshi，zaiyiyiguxing，gaixiashoushijiuxiashou，juebumolengliangke。keyidangdisanzhe，yibanrenwuguanxidouburongyitaihao，womenkeyiandilizhaoyixietadeexing。lingwai，datingyixialingyifangdegongzuozhong，genjudisanzhedeshijiaolaitiejinlingyifang，gaoqingchuqizuizaiyidexingye，bingbawoxiangduideziyuan。dashedaqicun，shoujideleisiyihoujiukeyitanpaile，xiaoyilihai，rangdisanzhelejieqisuoyaotourudechengbenshisha，dangranhuizhinanertui。

运用好社会舆论，与己利，于其弊

 zheiqineini，nenggouxunzhaoyixieyouguandisanzhedewenzhangneirong，fazaizheixielianluobijiaoduo，changchangjingchangyingyongdeshejiaomeitimeitishang，rangzhangfulejiedajiazaoyimingquedisanzhedecunyou。penyoujiandaohouhuoxuhuiyixieliuyanbanliuyanhepingjia，nenggouqueliaizengfenmingdeshuiping。ciwai，yeyaofayixiehezhangfushenghuoqijuzhongdedongtaixing，bulunshitihuixinde，huanshizhaopian，dounenggoutijiao，shifangchulaidajiaxianjieduanhenxiangaidexinxineirong，neiyangzuodeyichujiuqujueyu，rangqinpenghaoyoujianguanwomendeai，yujianglaihenyoukenengzhangfufanfangxiangdisanzhechanshengmingxianchaju，jitamenyidingdegongzuoyali。dandajiaruqianwentiji，duilaogongyaobuduandehao，neiyangluobuzengjiabang，enweibingshienweiduoguanqixia，shijixiaoguohuihenhao。

 zongeryanzhi，yingduidisanzheshi，womenyaoduizhangfugengqiang，jiukeyifangzhifange;dadisanzhedeqicun，nandaoaiyigerenyoucuomarangqigaoqingchusuoyaotourudechengben;yunyonghaoshehuiyulun，jinanshengyidiangongzuoyali。zaiwomenbaozhengzheisandianyihou，yiqiedoushihuifanhuiyiqiezhengchangderichangshenghuolugui，zaicizaojiuwomendeai。