怎样控制自己不和初恋联系？联系之后怎么保持彼此距离？

虽然经过了不少日子，遇见了许多的人，有的人让你开心，有的人也许带走了你的心。可是曾经的初恋的那种感觉，却再也没有感受过。初恋是很美好的感觉，试问有多少女生初恋会长时间 不和 男友联系吗？然而初恋总会遗憾而终，对于已经建立家庭的人来说怎样控制自己不和初恋联系呢？

一、初恋令人难忘的原因

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二、处理初恋问题的方式

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