henduofuqizailaonianyihou,ganqingzhujianbiandanle,buzaixiangnianqingrenyiyang,enenaiai。dangran,zheizhongqingkuangyeshiyoutadedaolide,yinweilaonianrenkenengshentipubianbushihenhao,suoyi,tourudaozijideqingkuangjiaoduo,erduiyuduifangdeguanxinbiandebuzairucongqianneiyang。fumujiatingbuhemuzenmeban?zheishiguangdaernvdexinsheng。gengshenzhiyouxienvxinghuizhiyifumuguanxibuhexiedejiatingnengjiamazheizhongqingkuang,kejianfumujiatingbuhequeshiyouhendabiduan。
一、主动做出调节
womenyinggaijijizhudongdezuochudiaojie,rangfumuzaiwomendecuohexia,gaibianyiwangdegoutongxiguanheshenghuoguanli,rangbicinenggougengjiazunzhongduifang,congerrangzijihejiarendouchengweishouyizhe,buzaishoudaojiatingbumudekunrao。
二、与双方分别沟通
womenyinggaizhuyiyufumudegoutong,ruguolianggerenyiqigoutongdeshihou,youyushuohuaxuyaobihui,erqierongyifashengzhimianchongtu,suoyi,jinliangzaigoutongshijiangjiufangfa,zuizhonggegejipo。fumujiatingbuhemuzenmeban,cishigoutongzuizhongyao。
三、建立和谐氛围
jiatingfenweixuyaodajiagongtongnuliyingzao,erbushijinpingjieyilianggerendeyixiangqingyuan,fumuganqingbuhao,jiuxuyaowomenfuchugengdadenuli,bijingtamenyeshifuqiyichang,buyinggairangtamendehunyinyuelaiyuedan。jiatingfenweihemu,leisiyufumuguanxibuhexiedejiatingnengjiamazheiyangdedezhiyiziranjiuxiaoshile。
四、满足父母的心愿
fumuyoushenmexinyuan,womenyinggaijinliangqumanzu,burangfumuyouyihan。youshihou,fumuzhijiandemaodun,jiushiyinweitamenhaiyouyixieweijingdexinyuandabucheng,erqie,zheizhongxinyuanqiaqiayouyingxianglelianggerendeganqing。
五、减轻父母的负担
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六、体会父母的苦衷
womenyinggaichongfentihuifumudekuzhong,yinwei,fumuxinkuyibeizi,dangranyeyouhenduobuweirenzhidesuantiankula,suoyi,womenyinggaiduotiliangtamen,weitamendexingfu,gongxianchuwomenzijideliliang。
七、多陪伴父母身边
womenyinggaiduoduopeibanzaifumudeshenbian,youshihou,fumukenengshiyinweijimo,caibicizhijianzhizaochuleyixiebubiyaodemaodun,suoyi,womendepeibankeyirangshuangfangganqingjinyiburonghe,huajiemaodun。
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