跟男朋友冷战几天不和自己联系？聪明的女人应该这样做

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一、不受其影响，随遇而安

lianaizhong，ruguoyigenanrenturanzaiganqingliwanxiaoshidehua，shuomingzheigenanrenbushizhenxinde，tabingbuxiangguoduodefuchuyebuxiangduiganqingfuze，jiulianfenshouyehensuibian。gennanpengyoulengzhanjitianbuhezijilianxi，neimecishi，nvrenyidingbuyaoshouyingxiang，niwubiyaomingbai，budongdezhenxizijidenanren，zongshizijishangxinnanguo，zonghuiyoumanmanxiaohuadeneiyitian。shenghuoyaojixu，bunengyinweitadeliqu，erbazijideshenghuoguodeyituanzao。

二、不要主动联系男人，做好自己

ruguonanrenturanbulianxinile，nanrenhaojitianbuheshuohua，kenengshuomingtabuxianghenizaiyiqile。tabucierbiejiushiyaogaosuni，lianggerenyijingjieshule。ganqingzhongnanrenyunvrenmianduiganqingdetaidushibuyiyangde，nvrenbinanrenganxing，zaimianduiganqingdeshihou，zonghuihuandehuanshi。ernanrenqueshiyiyigeguolurendezitaiqumiandui，duitamenlaishuowutongwuyang。nihebiyongbierendecuowulaichengfazijini？lixianghenfengman，danshixianshiquehencanku。zaixianshishenghuozhong，dangnanrentingzhijiechunishi，niyaoxuehuiweixiaozhuanshen，wufeijiushitaxihuanshanglelingwaiyigenvren，kanbudaozijihaodenanren，youhebiwanliuni？

三、适当的转移注意力，让自己忙碌起来

ganqingshoudaocuobaideshihou，zuipanvrenzhenniujiaojianle，runanyouhaojitiandoubuhewolianxi。congmingdenvrenbuhuizheiyangzuo，tamenhuishidangdezhuanyizhuyili，zuozijixihuanzuodeshiqing：guangchiguangchi，gouwukandianying，quanshenxintourugongzuo，rangzijimangliuqilai。manmandedejiubashiqingdanwangle，dangnizaixiangqideshihouyiqiedoufangxiale。

四、提升自我魅力

aiqingzhongyao，danshenghuozhonghaiyouhenduobiaiqinggengzhongyaodedongxi，womenbunengbaquanbudexinsidoufangzaizheijianshiqingshang。nanrenhaojitianbuheshuohua。tairongyidedaodedongxi，nanrenwangwangbudongdezhenxi，tamengengxihuanneixiejuyoutiaozhandenvsheng，congerzhengfutamen。yincinvrenwulunzairenheshihou，douyingzuodeziji，rangzijibiandegengjiayouxiu。dengtazaizhongxinjiandaonideshihou，lingtaguamuxiangkan，，tabianhuizhongxinzhuiqiuni。zheigeshihouniyidingyaobengzhule，dangtazaicilianxinideshihou，yidingyaodiaotadeweikou，tafanjuedebuxiguanle，duinidezhuiqiuhuigengjiadezhudong，yihoujiangyehuibanishiweizhenbao，zaiyebuhuibaninongdiule。