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　　fenshouhounanrenshuoyaobuchangni，zheihuahaoxiangyouzheyizhongtianbuhefuweideyisi。zaiaiqingjieshuyihou，nanrenyexulejiedaozijideguoshi，huozhechuyuyizhongkuijiudexinlizhuangtai，quedingyimouzhongfangshixiangnidaoqianhebuchang。zheiyibuchangnengshiwuzhishang，liruwupinhuoqiancai，haikeyishizaijingshenshangguanxinzhichi。danshi，zheiyifenbuchangyoushifouzhenzhenzhengzhengnenggoumibubeishanghaideneixinni？zheihuashenhoutongchangyunzangzhegengshenkedeqinggankunhuo，xuyaoshuangfanggongtongjiejueheyingdui。

　　补偿的承诺

　　fenshouhounanrenkoukoushengshengshuoshiyaobuchangni，haoxiangjinifushangneixindailaileyisikuanwei。zheiyihuatibujinshejidaoaiqingdewanbi，haichupengdaoduilishiguanlianzongjieyuduizijineixinzhengtuo。nanrenshuoshiyaobuchanghenyoukenenglaiyuanyutadekuijiu、nanyishihuaideqingxuhuozheweilejianqingzishendezuiegan。danshi，zheiyichengnuodezhenshixingheyuqixiaoguoyoushiruheni？rangwomenyiqilaitaolun。

　　承诺信息真实性

　　nanrenshuoshiyaobuchangni，shifoucunzaizhenshiyongyi？shichengxinchengyidedaoqian，youhuozheshikoutoushangdefuwei？youxieshihou，nanrenhenyoukenengzhishiweilerangzijijuedehaodian，huozhechangshigaijinjushierzuochuzheizhongchengnuo。danshi，zhenzhengyiyishangdebuchangyingdangdoushijiyuzhenzhiheshensishulvdeqiantixia，bingfeicaolvhexinkoubuyi。

　　补偿的方式

　　jiarunanrendechengnuoshifazineixinde，takenenghuiyiyixiefangshilaibuchangni。zheiyinggaishiwuzhishang，lirujiyuyixieqiancai、lipinhuoshiyaliyibufenfenshouchanshengjingjisunshi。yeyoukenengshijingshenshangde，liruweichihenidelianluo、jiyujingshencengmiandeshiyong、zuoyixiejijizhudongdegenggailaizhongxinlajinguanxi。buchangdefangshiyousuobutong，zhongdianzaiyunanrenshibushikeyigenghaodeguanzhunidebixubingfuzhushijian。

　　补偿的价值

　　buchangbingbushizhishijiandandipingfunifushanggan，gengweizhongyaodeshiweilenengbicizaicidiaozhengqingxu、zhiyutongku。buchangnenggoubangzhunifujianduizishendezixinxinheguishugan，yeyouliyunanrensikaoyufazhan。danshi，buchangbingbudengyunenggouhenhaodixiubufenshouzaochengdeshanghai，youyuqingganshangdewaishangxuyaoshijianheneixinshenchudequanyu。

　　补偿的局限性

　　buchangyecunzaizhejuxian。youshihounanrendechengnuozhishiyishizhihua，wufazhenzhengduifu。huoshijishitazaoyifuchuyixie，danshikenengbunengmanzunideqiwanghuotianbuzijineixindetongchu。chucizhiwai，guoduyilaibuchanglaixiufusunhai，huirangnishenxianguofenyilaiheduitadebujiankangjianzhengxia。

　　一起面对

　　fenshouhounanrenshuoyaobuchangni，chengxianchuyizhongzhongxinmianduiwentiyuhuajiemaodundexintai。wuluntadechengnuoshifoushushi，guanjiandeshibiciyingdanggongtongfendouqumianduiguoqudeshangtong，tanxungengjiajiankangjiejuefangfa。huoxu，zhenzhengyiyishangdebuchangbingfeizaiyunanrenxingdong，ershiyaodajiayiqichengzhanghekuanyidairen、kuanrong。

　　zuizhong，fenshouhounanrenshuoyaobuchangni，jinguandailaileyisiqidaiheanwei，danshixuyaoyishidaozhenzhengyiyishangdebuchangyingdangshijianlizaizhenzhihezaixingdongshang，bingbushisuiyichengnuo。guanjiandeshibicikeyiyiqimianduifenshouchanshengdeshangtong，tanxunaiqingdezaidingweiheyigerendechengzhang。