恋爱宝典：恋爱胆小的人一定要知道五件事

　　beifenshounanrendexinlichengshoulezhuduoxintaichongji。congshiwang、yihuo、naonu、kuijiudaobengkui、gudan，yiqiedoubuduanhuidangzaitadeneixinzuishenchu。tamenqinfenxunmiyuangu，changshijiechushiquairendeyituan，quewangwangxianruziwohuaiyi，huaiyizishenjiazhi。zaineiduanjiannandeguochengzhong，tamenyexuyuelaiyueqingxubianhuabuqueding，naizhimishifangxiang。danshi，qiahaoshizheiyiduantongchumolianletamendechengzhang，rangtamenmingbaiaideduoyuanxingyuxiyouxing。jinglilebeifenshoudeshangtonghou，tamenjiangyigengjiawanshan、wanqiangdetaidujixuqianjin，weizijichuangzaogengmeihaodeweilai。

　　第一次面临丧失

　　beifenshounanrendexinli，tacengjingyiweiainengyonghengbubian，quezaimouyitianhuranquebeigaozhifenkai，bulunshilijideyanyuhuoshiqianqiandeliqu，dourangtacuobujifang。jingshenshangdedajihexinhanlingtabunengjieshouzheigeshishi，haoxiangqianyikehaihuodexingfu，ercishizechengweibeipaoqideren。tadexinliyipianhunluan，buzhidaogairuhejiejue、zenyangmianduitiaozhan。zheileibeifenshoudenanrenxinlizhuangtai，mimanzhewujinhuihenhebugan，xuyaoshijianlaihuifu。

　　愧疚与质疑

　　beifenshoudenanrenzhujianziwofansi，chixuxunwenzijishibushinalizuocuole，shibushitourubuzu，shibushihaibugouhao。kuijiurangtachenniyucongqiandebuzhengque，yibianbianhuibozhefensuideqiaoduan。tajiukaishizhiyizijishiyongjiazhiyunengli，haipazijizaiyewufazhaodaoxingfu。zheizhonghuaiyihezize，jinyibujiazhongletadexinliyali，shenshenyingxiangzheta。

　　失去的东西苦闷

　　dangshiquhezijiyiqiduguodemeiyigeshunjian，beifenshoudenanrengandaoyizhongshenshendikumen。congqiandetianmihuiyichenglecitengtaxinlingshenchudejiandao，meiyigepuputongtongdexiaoxijiedouchengweileshitawufahuxidezhemo。jimoheguduqinshitadexinli，congqiandewenxinheguanailitaerqu，errujin，tadezhimianzijigudanyirenderizi。

　　情绪波动

　　beifenshoudenanrenqingxubianhuabuqueding，yihuiernaonubaofa，yihuieryoushangtongchu。wufakongzhideqingxubuwendingrangtawufaningjing，tazainaonuzhongsunhaizijihetaren，zaibeishangzhongchuoqi，tihuidaobengkuideshentou。taduiganqingdezixinxindedaolezhongcuo，duishenghuochongmanlegulvhebuan。suoyoudeyiqiezaixinzhongjiaocuo，rangtananyizhaodaoanningdeyike。

　　恢复和成长

　　beifenshoubingbudengyujieshu，ershiyicifuhuodejiyu。jinglileneixindezhemo，nanrenmanmanbaituokunjing，zhujianyingduizijideqingxuyuxinlidexuyao。tamingbaiaideduoyangxingheduobianxing，yezhubuxuehuilejieshoubingfangkaishou。zheiyiduanbeifenshoudezaoyu，peiyangletadexinnian，rangtabiandegengjiachengshu、wanqiang。tacaimingbai，renshengdangzhongmeiyiduanjinglidoukeyichengweitabiandegenghaodejiyu，zhongsuziji，xunmizhenzhengdekuaile。

　　明天的希望

　　jinguanbeifenshoudenanrenjinglilefeichangdadexinlishanghai，dantayiranduishenghuochongmanleqidai。tamenmingbai，cicizaochengdeshanghaishiyishide，ertamennenggoucongtoukaishi，zhaodaogengweikaopuderenhegengjiameihaodeshenghuo。tamenxuehuileaiximeiyicidexiangyu，gengdongdeaiqingdezhengui。beifenshoubushiyizhongjieshu，ershiyigexindezhengcheng，rangtamenzhongxindingyizijishenghuoyuxingfukuaile。

　　求进与拼搏

　　jinglilefenshoudetongku，beifenshoudenanrenmanmanmingbai，xingfukuailebingbuqujueyubieren，ershilaizitamenzishendebianhuafendoupinbo。tamenkaishizhuzhonggerentisheng，fazhanqushizijideweilaiyuxingqu，chuangjiangengjiajiankangrenjijiaowang。tamenxuehuiledandu，buhuizaiyilaiyumouxierenerfangzongziji。beifenshouchengweiletamenshenghuodangzhongdazhuanzhe，dianranletamenxinlingshenchudenengliangqudongli。

　　beifenshounanrendexinli，beifenshoudenanrenxinlizhuangtaijingguoleyixiliedezhengzhahetongchu，queyezaizheiguochengzhongchixujinbuyuchengzhang。buguanqinshenjinglishenmeyangdejiannan，tamenzhongjiuhuiyigengchengshuhezixinxintaimianduitiaozhan，zaojiushuyuzijidexingfu。