异地恋要如何维持才能长久？

　　fenshouhounanpengyoubufapengyouquan，zuoweiyigezhongyaodeshejiaowangluopingtai，pengyouquanwuyichengweiletamenganqingzhuangkuangdeyimianjingzi。danshi，dangfenshoudeyinmailongzhaozhexinzhong，nanpengyouquexuanzelechenmowuyan，buhuizaigengxinzijidepengyouquan。yexuzheiyeshitaxuanzelebaohuhaozijidefangfa，yexuzheiyeshitabuyuanyibeihuiyisuoyingxiangdexuanze。buguanshichuyuhezhongyuanyin，zheileichenmowuyanhaowuyiwenzaiduifangxinliliuxialehenduoyihuohekunhuo，rangfenshoutongkuyuelaiyuegengjiashenru。

　　当爱褪掉青春活力

　　zaifenshouhou，nanpengyoudepengyouquantongchangyuelaiyueshenshaoshengji，huoshenzhiwanquanchenmowuyan。zheizhongqingkuang，bujinjinshiliangrenzhijiandeliekai，gengshiyizhongwushengxuanyankouhao，xuangaozhelianggerenzuichudemeihaohuiyiyiqubufan。yingduizheizhongzuofa，buguanwomendoushifenshoudeyifanghuoshijuwairen，doubujinhuichanshengxuduoyihuohexiangdao。

　　探寻宁静与疏远的方法

　　nanpengyouxuanzebufapengyouquan，henyoukenengshiweilexunqiuneixindeningjingheshengshu。pengyouquanzuoweiyigechongchizheshejiaoyalidequdao，beifuzhetamencengjingdetianmiyuzhuiqiu，yechengzaizhexianjintongkuyushiwang。bufapengyouquan，shiweileduobizheixiexuannaodehuiyi，bushouwaijieyingxiang，tanxunyifenningjinghesuiyi。

　　掩埋回忆的沉默无言

　　nanpengyoudebufapengyouquan，tongchangzeyiweizheyizhongduiguoqudewangqueheyanmai。buxiangbeiyiwangpanrao，tamenxuanzebaocunhuiyi，buhuizaiyuqifenxiang，buhuizairangtazaipengyouquandesuipianzhongfuxian。zheileichenmowuyan，bingbushiduiganqingdefouren，ershiyizhongkeyidixuanzebaohu，napashizaibeishangzhongyexunzhaoxiangqian。

　　躲避与现实的撞击

　　yexu，nanpengyoubufapengyouquanhaicunzaizhelingyizhonggailv，jiduobiyuxianshidezhuangji。fenshouzhihoudeqingxuquanguochengshifuzade，chongchizhetongkuhebuyuanmianduizheiyishishi。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，nanpengyoufangzhifapengyouquan，yifangzhenshideqingganqingkuangzhilu，yeyimianzaochengwaibudehaoqihetaolun。

　　另一方内心深处的羁绊

　　suiranfenshou，dannanpengyoubufapengyouquanhuoxubingbudengyutayichediwangjihuoxuehuifangxia。zheizhongzuofayexuanzangzhetaduiguoqudejuannianheduilingyibanneixinshenchudejiban。jiusuantongchu，tamenyexuxiwangyicifangfabaocunfenshouqianxingfu，ranghuiyizaixinjianchenji，bubeiwaijieganraohewuran。

　　分手与自我成长的转折点

　　nanpengyoubufapengyouquan，jiushitamenzicigerentishenghezhuanzhediandexiangzheng。fenshoushiyizhongzhongyaoderenshengjingli，duiyumeigerenlaishuodoushiyicichengzhangyuqifa。zaizheigeshihou，nanpengyouxuanzehuijuepengyouquandezhigu，jixuqianjin，jijizhudongmianduitiaozhan，tanxunshuyuzijidexingfu。

　　分手后男朋友不发朋友圈，yexukanqilaipingpingdandan，queyunzangzhehenduoshenmideqingxuhejiazhi。butongderenyoubutongdexuanzeheliyou，erwomennengzuode，shishifangchulaiduifangxuanzeyuzunzhongtamenneixindeyaoqiu。aidejieshubingbudengyuyiqiedouyaochengweiguoqu，ershiyaojiuyizouxiangchengshudanchunshanliangxintai，baorongtanrandimiandui，rangshuangfangzaizheiguochengzhongchengweigenghaoderen。