和男朋友分手了怎么挽回？学会这5个技巧

　　zaiganqingdekaishi，meigerendouxiwangnengzhangjiudizouxiaqu。henanpengyoufenshoulezenmewanhui？youshihou，ganqingdefangxiangshiwomenwufakongzhide。dangyiduanguanxibeipojieshushi，buyuanfangshou，xiangyaoliuzhuduifang，nihuizenmezuo?xuexizheiwuzhongjinengkenenghuibangzhuni;

　　1. 接受现实

　　nixuyaojieshoufenshoudeshishi，buyaoshituqiangpozijiliuzhuduifang，yinweizheikenenghuirangduifanggengyane。shishishang，nibuyuanyi，nibuxiangfangshou，zheixiedouxiezailianshang。raner，ganqingshilianggerendeshi，xuyaolianggerenshuozuizhongjuedingquan，erbushiyigerenshuozuizhongjuedingquan。

　　yinci，jishixinbuyuanyi，xinbuyuanyifangqi，yeyaorenshou，kongzhizijideqingxu，buyaotaijiduan，buyaochongdong，buduangaosuziji，zheimeishenmedabulede，wohuiguodehenhao。

　　duifanglikaini，shiduifangdesunshi。buguanniyouduonanguo，womenzongshiyaoshuofuzijixianjieshoufenkaideshishi。zheiyidianfeichangzhongyao。

　　2. 保持冷静

　　mianduifenshou，baochilengjinghelengjing，buyaoyinweiqingxushikongerrangzijihouhui。henduoren，dangtingdaoduifangshuofenshouzheigecishi，zongshihennanbaochilengjing，rongyichongdongxingdong，piqituranshanglai，yebunengzuzhi，jieguohenrongyishiquyonghengdechouhen。

　　xiangfan，ruguoninengzaizheigeguochengzhongshizhongbaochilengjinglixingdetounao，yexuhuirangduifangduiniguamuxiangkan，congerduinitichuhejieyouhendadebangzhu。

　　yinwei，duifanghuijuedenishiyigeqingxuguanlinenglihenqiangderen。hezheiyangdenizaiyiqi，keyirangduifanggandaoshushiheanquan。

　　yinci，nikan，baochilengjingbujinkeyibimianshiguhuodacuowu，haikeyiweinijieshengrenqi，tigaonizaiduifangxinzhongdeyinxiang。zheiyeshiyizhong“zainandezhufu”，duiba?

　　3. 重建联系

　　ruguonimenzhijianhaiyoulianxi，shizhezhongxinjianlilianxi。buyaotaihuoyuehuoreqing，baochiyouhaodetaidu，rangduifangjuedenizunzhongtamendejueding。

　　ruguofenkaihouduifangmeiyoushanchunidelianxifangshi，shuomingnimenzhijianhaiyoujihui，suoyiyidingyaohaohaoliyongzheizhonglianxi。

　　zhongjianlianxishuoqilairongyi，danzuoqilaibingbunan。danzhiyaobawozhuzheigechicun，jiubuyaobaduifangbidetaijin，yebuyaotaipinfandiquzhaoduifang，zheiyangjiubuhuidaraoduifang。meigeyiduanshijian，yijuwenhou，oueryijuwenxindetishi，dounengrangduifanggandaobeiguanxinhezhongshi。

　　nikeyizhaogeshijianjiduifangfaxinxi，yuyuejianmian，chifan，jiduifangdaiyifenjingmeideliwu。ciwai，zairichangshenghuozhong，womenyinggaigengjiashandaiduifang，huxiangbangzhu，rangduifangkandaonideaihefengxian。

　　4. 自我反省

　　henanpengyoufenshoulezenmewanhui？fenshouhou，fansinidewenti，shizhegaibianziji。ruguoninengyishidaonidewentibingnuligaibiantamen，neimenijiuhuigengyouxiyinli。

　　ciwai，chuleyuduifangbaochizhongjianlianxiwai。nihaixuyaobashijianhejinglifenpeijiziji，zuoxialaixiangxiangnishifouzaizheiduanguanxizhongzuodebugouhao，huozheshanghaiduifang。

　　fenxizijizaizheiduanguanxizhongdeyouquedian、jihuidianheweixiedian，yibiangenghaodilejiezijihezheiduanguanxishifoujixuxiaqu。

　　5.保持乐观

　　ciwai，womenyinggaibaochileguanhejijidetaidu。xiangxinninengbaituozheiduanguanxi，zhaodaogenghaoderen。buyaoxianruxiaojiqingxu，xuehuidiaozhengziji，xunqiubangzhu。

　　tongshi，yaoxiangliuzhuduifang，yeyaobaochirucileguanjijidetaidu，duizijiheduifangdeguanxiyouxinxin。

　　xuyaozhuyideshi，ruguoniduocishitubaoliuduifang，beijujue，neijiuxuanzefangshou。yexunimenzhijianzhendemeiyouyuanfen，bunengzoudaozuihou;yexuduifanghaiyouqitaxiangfa。buguanshishenmeyuanyin，baochileguandetaidudoumeiyoucuo。