和老公有红颜知己怎么挽回

　　henduonanrenjishijiehunhouhaishihuilianxizijidehongyanzhiji。zheizhongqingkuangyuelaiyuepubian。helaogongyouhongyanzhijizenmewanhui？youxiehuabushiheheqizishuohua，suoyitamenxiangzhaogerenshuoshihua。danshi，zuoqiziderenjuedenanrenyaochugui，dachaodanao，zuihoudaoleshikongdedibu。womenlaikankanzhangfuhehongyanzhijigaizenmeban。

　　1、关心包容

　　duoguanxinta，duoheduifangshangliang，youyiwuyidianshita，niyijingzhidaotadezhiji，rangtazhudongjiejue。buyaoqiangpozhangfuqieduanyuzhijidelianxi，henrongyichanshengpannixinli，buyidingtahuizheiyangzuo，gengguanxinta，rangtayoubeiaideganjue。

　　2、沟通

　　meicizhangfuhenigoutong，renzhenqingting，buyaobiaoxianchubunaifan，zheiyangtajiubuhuiyouzhaohongyanzhijishuohuadechongdong，zuoyigehaodeqingtingzhe，rangzhangfumeicixiangdaodediyijianshijiushini。

　　3、调整自己的情绪和心态

　　buyaolumangxingshi，shiqingmeiyouxiangxiangdeneimeyanzhong，danyebunenghushi，duizhangfutaifangxin，zheihuirangtajuedenibuaita，buyaorangtamensuiyifazhan，zhudonggaishannideshenghuo，gaishanziji，bimianfuqizhijiandemaodunhechongtu，nideguanxihenhao，zirantabuhuitonglixin。

　　4、做好妻子的职责

　　jirannidezhangfuxuanzejiajinierbushihongyanzhiji，neijiuyiweizheniduizhangfudexiyinlishitebiede。hunhou，qizishizhangfujingshenheshenghuozhongbuketidaideyibufen，suoyibuyaohusiluanxiang，zheiyangcainenghezhangfunaoqingxu，yingxiangfuqiguanxi。buguanzenyang，nijiehunle，nizhangfuduinideganqingbushibierennengqingyitidaide。

　　5、告诉对方自己的想法

　　helaogongyouhongyanzhijizenmewanhui？buyaojuededuizhangfushuozijideshengyinhendiuren。ruguonixinliyoushenmebushufudedifang，jiushuochulai。shuochunineixindexiangfabushibuxinrenduifang，ershikeyidiaozhengtamenzhijiandeguanxi。gaosuduifangnijidu，fuqizhijianouerdexiaoxingquhuirangganqinggengshen。

　　6、主动与对方成为朋友

　　jiranzhangfuheduifangmeiyouqitaguanxi，neimenizhidaojiaopengyoumeishenmebuhao，huxiangrenshi，nikeyizhidaoshifoushiyigefangxindepengyou，xiaochuduizhangfudexinlihuaiyi，yinweitamenshihaopengyou，buhuijieyinidejiaru，bijing，nishinizhangfudeqizi。