花镇情感挽回：老公婚前婚后两幅面孔怎么办？

　　fenshoufuhezenmeshuo，danglianggerenjingliguofenshou，youwufawanghuaibicizhijiandeganqingshi，shibushikeyishizhefuhexingchengweiyigenanti。fenshoufuhezhideshizaiqinshenjinglifenlihou，bicishenzhongkaolvhoujuedingjianlixindeerrenguanlian。zheiyiguochengbujinyiweizhemianduiguoquwentihetongku，gengxuyaoshuangfangtanchengjiaoliuyulijiebicizhijiandexuyao。fenshoufuhedeguanjianzaiyubicitanchengdibiaodaguandianhetihui，ranhoutongguogongtongfendouyubaoronglaizhongxinlajinguanxihehuxiangyikao。fenshoufuhebujinjinshiranqiaidejiyu，gengshiyiciduiziwotishengziwogaibianfazhanjiyu。

　　心有所动，分手复合苦衷

　　1. 藏于于心，却羞于启齿

　　fenshoufuhezenmeshuo，danglianggerenjinglileyiduanquzheaiqingyihou，fenshouyufuhexingbianchengle2gekanqilaixiangbeidetiaoxuan。suiranneixinzishizhizhongnanyiwangjibicizhijiancengjingdeaiqing，danshenzhongkaolvfuhexingwentishi，quebudongderuhenanyiqichi。fenshoufuhezenyangbiaoda，zenyangyanbiao，chengweileyigecuozongfuzadeyituan。

　　2. 心事厚重，言语却显无力

　　dangmianduifenshoufuhedehuatishi，xinshiyazhehouzhong，danyanyuzexiandewuli。yinweizheigeqizhongshejidaohenduoqingganshangdeenyuanyufanzadesixu，jiandancubaobiaodachuwangwangwufachedichanshineixinsuogan。zenyangyongjingquedefangfa，qingxidichuandifenshoufuhedeniantou，chengweileyigexuyaoshenzhongkaolvdewenti。

　　3. 合作是重要，理解就是根基

　　zaifenshoufuhedeguochengdangzhong，goutongjiaoliushiyanzhiguanzhongyaodejiaose。genjuzhenxinchengyigoutongyulingting，shuangfangkeyigenghaodilejielingyifangneixindekewanghetongdian。nenggoujiezhuyixierouhe、lixing、lizhideci，changshibiaoshizijineixinfuzadeqinggan，congerjianliqigengjiawengudeqingxujiben。

　　4. 更改和成长，重构关联

　　fenshoufuhebudandanshiranqiaidejiyu，gengshiyiciduiyuzishenfazhanziwogaibiandejihui。genjuzheiyiguocheng，keyishenrusikaozijidejingshenxuqiuheqiwang，bingqiezaixindeganqingzhongjianligengjiankanghejunhengdehuxiangyilai。fenshoufuhezhituburongyi，danshiruobicidoukeyizhenxinshiyimianduihefuzhunuli，huoxukeyizhonggouchugengjiameihaodeguanlian。

　　5. 英勇迈出第一步，向未来向前

　　jinguanfenshoufuhedeluchongmanzhekaoyanheweizhi，neiruguoneixinzishizhizhongxiangyouaiyuxiwang，yingyongmaichudiyibu，yexujianghuiyinglaichuhuyiliaodehaodejieguo。bulunshifuhexinghuoshifenshou，zuizhongyaodejiushiyaozaizhenchenghebicizunzhongdeqiantixiaxiangqian，buyaoliuxiayihan，juebuhouhui。

　　fenshoufuhezenmeshuo，fenshoufuhe，jinguanyanyubunengwanquanchanshizaiqizhongcuozongfuzadeheenyuan，dangoutongjiaoliu、lijiehechengzhangguochengzhong，shuangfangkeyimanmanzhaodaoshiyibicizhijiandejunhengdian。yonggandemianduineixindezhengtuo，maikaiguanjiandeyibu，yongzhenchengyuaiqukaiqiweilai。