大龄未婚女性数量庞大，已成社会问题

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据《第六次人口普查数据》显示， 80 后非婚人口男女比例为 136 ： 100 ， 70 后非婚人口男女性别比则高达 206 ： 100 ，全国处于适婚年龄段的 70 、 80 后人口中存在男女比例不平衡问题，且年龄越大失衡越严重。同时， 30-39 岁男性中有 1195.9 万人处于非婚状态，而同年龄段女性中有 582 万人处于非婚状态。

 shuliangpangdade“danshendajun”hunlianwentiyibujinshisirenwenti，ershirijianchengweiburonghushideshehuiwenti，yihuazhenqingganweishou，yidapiqingganpeixunjigouzhengruyuhouchunsun，weiyingduigerenqingganwentiyingyunersheng。jinnianlai，congshifulianzuzhidexiangqinhuodongzhongkeyikandao，nvxingbaomingrenshumingxianduoyunanxing，qizhongbufagaoxueli、gaozhiwei、gaoshourudenvxing。dalingweihunnvxingzeounandeyuanyinhezai？zhenduizheiyiwenti，shifulianjinxingzhuanmendiaoyan。

现状：找不到合适的对象

年初，市妇联发放问卷 500 份，回收有效问卷 496 份。 80% 的女性认为“必须得结婚”或“结婚比较好”，可见对大部分人而言，步入婚姻是人生不可或缺的重要过程，能提高人的幸福感。

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原因：未婚女性为何择偶难？

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 qiyi，“jianvdingnan”xianxiangtuchu。shuqiannianlai“nanzhuwainvzhunei”deshehuifengongmoshizaojiuledaidaixiangchuan“nangaonvdi”dehunpeimoshi，jinguanrujinxuduonvxingyiyongyouyidingjingjitiaojianheshehuidiwei，danhenduorenzaizeoushiwangwanghaishiyizhaochuantong，xiwangzhaodaobizijigengqiangderen，yushixuanzefanweibiandehenxiao。

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改善：盲目增值不如找人帮忙

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