夫妻情感维系：在婚姻中女人要过的好就不能失去自我

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　　失望与茫然

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　　自责与猜疑

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　　恼怒与失望

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　　复建和成长

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　　新的篇章的开始

　　fenshouhounanshengshenmexinli，fenshouzhihoudenanshengxinlihuoxuhaibaoliuzheyisiduicongqiandelianlianbushehebugan，keshitamenyebuyinertingzhibuqian。jingliguofenshoudejiannankunku，takaishichongjingweilai，xinpianzhangzhengzaiqiaorandakai。tamendongdelecongnijingzhongxiqujiaoxun，bingqiguoqucuowu，gewaizhenxibingzijintouruzhixiayiduanganqingzhong。fenshoujinjinshengmingzhongyiduanjingli，nanshengmenjianxin，zaizheiyangyigefenshoubeihou，yidingyougengmeihaoderenheshizaijingjingdedengdaitamen。