情感咨询：为什么积极相亲，也找不到合适的男生？

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　　探寻问题症结——再次了解对方的需要

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　　再次建立联系——渐渐地重新点燃他的内心

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　　重建信任和理解——交流是重要

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　　忘记过去——重构新的起点

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