不是独生女而被男友父母棒打鸳鸯该如何挽回

　　nanrenshengqilemeishuofenshoujiushibufenshouma，dangnanrenzaiyiduanganqingzhongshengqilequeweimingquebiaodafenshoudeyiwei，neiwomennengfoujuedetazhendemeifenshoudexiangfani？zheizhongqingkuangqianshedaonanrenzaixinlibiaodalidexiguanxing、gerenxingge、goutongfangfadenghaojigeyaosu。youyixienanrenhenyoukenengbushanzhanglijibiaodaqingxu，fanershicaiyongchenwen、lengdandefangfajiejue。yiner，womenbuyinggaiguangpingyishidezhengzhilaipanduannanrenshibushizhendeyoufenshoudexiangfa，gengyinggaiguanchatahouxugerenxingweihexingwei，yiquanfangweizhidaotadezhenzhengyongyi。

　　心态意味着心里，但不一定意味着分手的想法

　　nanrenshengqilemeishuofenshoujiushibufenshouma？zheizhongqingkuangyinqiledajiaduiqingganbiaodaheyongyijiangjiedetansuo。zaiganqingli，nanrenyunvrendegoutongfangfaheqingganbiaodachangchangyousuochayi。youxienanrenzaifashengzhengzhihuobuyukuaiqingkuangxiadouhuixuanzezhuanglongzuoya，erfeimashangmingquetichufenshou。yebingbuyuyitamenbuzaihuhuoxiangbudaofenshou，fanershikenenghuiyouqitawentishidetamenzanbuxiangyaobiaomingtaidu。

　　沉默缘故各种各样

　　nanrenzaishengqideshihoubaochichenmobuyidingbiaomingtamenbingbufenshou，youkenengshichuziyugezhonggeyangdeyuanyin。yixienanrenhenyoukenengbuaishuohua，chulishiqingshigengpianzhongyusisuohefansheng，erfeigaoshengbiaoda。tamenxiwangyongpingjingxialailaishulixinxu，tongshibimianzainaopiqizuochuchongdongqueding。chucizhiwai，youyixienanrenhenyoukenengdanyouzhengzhihuijiazhongfenqi，qidaijiduifangyixieshijianyukongjianlaipingjingxialai，bianyuhouxuyouxiaogoutong。

　　观查后面个人行为和行为

　　guanxinnanrenshengqihouhouxuxingweibiaoxianxintaishilejiekehuzhenzhengyongyidezhongyaoyinsu。youxienanrenhenyoukenengyehuizhudongheduifanggoutong，xunzhaojiejuewentidefangfa。tamenbuxiangqingyanfangqiaiqing，gengxiwangyonggoutonghequconglaixiufuguanxi。lingyifangmian，youyixienanrenhenyoukenengcaiyongchuyubeidongdexingshi，denghoulingyifangjijixunzhaoziji。yebingbuyuyitamenjuedingfenshou，fanershiyaojilingyifangyixieshineikongjianhejiyuqusikaotamendexingweihetihui。

　　比较敏感较好的沟通重要

　　buguannanrenshibushibiaodafenshouyixiang，duidaiganqingdegaosufazhaneryan，bicizhijiandegoutongdoushifeichangzhongyaode。jiaruyifangqifenerlingyifangduiyucishishierbujian，zekenengzaochengqingxujiaolvbuanjinyibujiaju。fanguolai，ruguolianggerenkeyilingmindifajueduifangdeganshouzhuanbian，bingjijijinxinghuihua，jiejuewentijihuihuidadazengjia。nvxingnenggouzhenxinchengyibiaodazijideguandianhetihui，yaoyuenanxinggongxiangneixinshenchudegulvhefanrao，jinergoujianqixianghuxinrenherenkedechuangkou。

　　关心个别差异和沟通环境

　　nanrenshengqilemeishuofenshoujiushibushifenshou，yehuishoudaogebiechayihegoutongbeijingweihai。meiyigerendegexing、jingliyuwenhuadetediandoubuyiyang，zhenduijiejueqingganyujuecedeguochengfangfayeyousuobutong。yixienanrenhenyoukenengxiguangenjuchenmowuyanlailengjingfenxi，erlingyixiehuigengshanyubiaodazijideqingxu。chucizhiwai，ziwodegoutongbeijingqingxukongzhinengliyehuiyingxiangdaozheixierenzaiqingganchongtulidefanyingxuanze。yiner，womenbuyinggaiyiyigaierlun，bixulejiegerendechabiebeijing，yigenghaodilejienanrendeqingxutiyanheyongyi。

　　分手是其他不确定性的最后一步

　　zuizhong，feichangzhidezhongshideshi，nanrenshengqilemeishuofenshoubingbudengyuyidinghuifenshou。fenshouyibanshiyiduanganqingqinshenjinglilidezuihouyibu，bixubicitongguosikaoyugoutonghouzuochugongtongdequeding。zaiganqingli，maodunhezhengzhishizaisuonanmiande，erzenyangchuligezhongwentiheqingganjiuxuyaolizhiwanshandexintai。nanrenshengqilehenyoukenengshiyishideqingxufaxie，bingfeizhenzhenzhengzhengdaibiaozhefenshou。zhongdianzaiyubicishifounengyikaifanggengjiachengshudetaidumianduikunnan，gongtongfendouweichiganqing，erfeixinjizuochuxuanze。

　　nanrenshengqilemeishuofenshoujiushibufenshouma，zaiganqingli，nanrenshengqiledanweimingquebiaodafenshou，bingbudengyutayidingbufenshou。womenyinggaiyijugebiechayi、goutongfangshijihoumiangerenxingweilaizonghekaoliangtadezhenzhengyongyi。ergengweiguanjiandeshi，biciyaobaochigaoxiaodegoutongyulijie，yiyitongzhanshengkunnan，chuangjianpingwenrongqiadeganqingdejichu。