情感咨询：我不希望有一个吃软饭的男友

　　nannvzhuhepingfenshoudeyuanyinkenengjiushiyinweixianghuzhijianyijingmeilegongtongdemubiaoheqiyeyuanjing，huozheganqingmanmanxiaochu。bicihuoxuyishidaoliangrendeguanxiyijingshiyigeduanban，wufajixuchixuxiaqu。yexushiyinweibicizhijiandegexing、shenghuofangshihuojiazhiguanniancunyouwufadiaohedechongtu，buguanzenyangqinfenyebunengdadaobicizhijiandeqidai。zaimianduizheiyangdexianshiyukunhuoshi，tamenjuedingyiyouyidexingshiwanbizheiyiduanganqing，xiwangkeyiyiyoushandexintaifenshou，jiduifangliuyounanwangdehuiyi，bingqieweiweilaishenghuojieshuixingzhou。

　　成长历程的交接点

　　yiduinannvzhu，duguoleyiduanmeihaodelianaisuiyue。tamenzhiqianqinmiwujian，bulunshigongtongdegerenaihao，huoshichongjingweilai，dourangzijideganqingjianbukecui。danshi，suizheshijiantuiyi，tamenmanmanfaxianzijichengzhanglichengchuxianjiaojiedian。

　　zaitamenxiangzhixiangxichuqi，tamendoushizheibandilejieduifangdemengxiangyulixiang。danshi，suizhenianlingzengzhang，takaishiduziyirenxunmizijideweilaiyumengxiang。nanzhujiaotiaoxuanxinkugongzuo，quanlizhuiqiulixiang，ernvzhuzegengzhongshineixinshenchudechengzhangyujunhengderichangshenghuo。

　　一同目标的消退

　　suizheshijiantuiyi，nannvzhuzhujianyishidao，tadeyitongmubiaozhujianxiaotui。tamenzhiqianchongjingzheyiqikaichuangmeihaodemingtian，kexianshichongjirangtamenzhujianzhongxinsikaozijishenghuofangwei。nanzhujiaogengzhongshicaifuhediweizhuiqiu，ernvzhujiaogengkanzhongdeshiqingganshangdedadaoheneixindeningjing。

　　tamenshizhegenjugoutongyurangbuquzhaodaobicizhijiandexiangtongdian，danshizuizhongfajuetadejiazhiguannianmubiaocunzaiwufadiaohedechaju。lianggerendouxiwangbierennenglijiezuochudexuanze，danbuguanzenyangqinfen，tamenyedouweizhaodaoyigejunhengdian。

　　冲突升级

　　bansuizheyitongmubiaodexiaotui，nannvzhudechongtuyezhujiangengxin。zuichu，tongguohuxianglijieyubaoronglaichulimaodun，dansuizheshijiantuiyi，cifangfabiandegengjiajiannan。tadejiazhiguanchayibiandegengjiaxianzhu，budanzairichangrichangshenghuozaochengmoca，gengshizaiguanjianjuedingshangfashengzhengzhi。

　　困境与管理决策

　　yingduichongtushengjiheyitongmubiaodexiaotui，nannvzhuxianruyizhongkunjingzhong。tamenkukusisuozenyangyizhizouxiaqu，shifougaiwanbizheiyiduanganqing。zaijueceguochengzhong，tamenyishidaoyouyifenshouhenyoukenengshizuihaodexuanze。

　　tamenxiwangkeyiyiyouyidexingshiwanbizheiyiduanganqing，weichibicizhijiandezunzhongyuyouhaowanglai。jinguanxinlinanmianhuiyouyixiebeishanghebugan，dantazhidaozaicike，youyifenshoujiushitamenliangrengongtongdejuece。

　　道别和新的起点

　　zuihou，nannvzhuxuanleyouyifenshou。suiranfenshoushibeishangde，danshitamenxiangxinzheiyeshibicizhijianzuiheshidexuanze。tamengaobieyiwangdemeihaohuiyi，daishangganenzhufuqingxu，zhengshikaishifenbiezhanxindeshenghuo。

　　zheiyiduanganqingchedijieshuzeyiweizhexindeqidian，nannvzhuzhujianxiangzhexinzhongdemengxianghemubiaoqinfen。tamenxiquyiqianjiaoxun，qidainengzhaodaohezijigengxiangpipeideairen，bingyiqimaixianggengmeihaodemingtian。

　　结束语

　　nannvzhuhepingfenshoudeyuanyinyouhenduo，youkenengshichengzhanglichengdejiaojiedian，yitongmubiaodexiaotui，chongtushengji，kunjingyuguanlijuece。suiranfenshoubicizhijianeryandoushibeishangde，danshitamenwoxiangzheishixunzhaozhenzhengdekuailebingmanzu。jianxintahuizaifenshouhouxunzhaozijideaiqingbingmaijinchenggongderensheng。