在婚姻中，学会不要越界

　　nanrenzaifenshoushihoushuobuxihuannile，zheishiyigebijiaochangjiandefenshouyuanyin，shenhouyunzangzhefuzaqiezhenshiqingxubianhua。zheihuadaibiaoletamenduiaiqingdefennuhepijuan，yeyoukenengshiduiyuxianghuzhijiandequanmianlejie，yishidaobicizhijianbingbushizuihaodexuanze。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，tamenxuanzeyizheihualaibiaoxianfenkaidequeding，suiranzheiqishibingbuqingxidiguinaziyidezhenshitiyan。fenshoushihoudeyujutongchangyuanyuanbizheiyijujiandanchanshugengfuza，shenhoubaohanzhexinlingshenchudezhengtuo、fennuheduiyuweilaihenyoukenengxinqijideqiwang。

　　痴爱的背后事实真相

　　nanrenzaifenshoushihoushuobuxihuannile，zaijieshuyiduanganqingshi，nanrenjingchangxuanzeyi“buxihuannile”neiyangdehuayulaibiaoxianfenshoudejuece。danshi，zheiyijujiandanchanshushenhoutongchangyunzangzheyigefanzadexiaogushi。shiwomenjiekainanrenfenshoushibiaoshibumanyidebeihoushiqing。

　　情感上的波动与心寒

　　nanrenzaifenshoushibiaoshibuxihuannile，daduoshiyinweitadeqingganjinglilebodongheyihan。zuichu，tamenyexuduizijidechongmanzhejiqinghexiai，dansuizheshijiantuiyi，tamenyexufajueshuangfangdereqinghegongmingdianmanmanxiaosan。zheileimanmanlengmodeganjueleshitamenrenwei，buzaixihuannile。

　　认识局限性和不适宜

　　fenshoushibiaoshibuxihuannile，yeyoukenengshinanrenyishidaoxianghuzhijiandeyouwentihejuxianxing。bansuizhezaiyiqideshijiantisheng，tamenyexumanmanfaxianbicizhijiandereqing、jiazhiguannian、renshengmubiaobushihenxiangfuhe。zheizhonglejierangtamenyishidaole，chixubaochizheifenganqingbingbunengjibicichanshengzhenzhengdekuaile。

　　心灵深处的茫然与寻找出入口

　　dangnanrenbiaoshubuxihuannishi，huoxushitamenxinlingshenchudekunhuohexunzhaochukoufangfa。tamenyexuyishidaoletamenzishenwenti，huoshiyunizaiyiqibingbimiantamenjuedezhenzhengyiyishangdedadao。genjujiangchuzheihua，tamenchangshijizijixunzhaoyizhongjietuofangfa，suiranzheiyexuhuidaijinisunhai。

　　机遇与挑战的探索和成长的机会

　　nanrenzaifenshoushibiaoshibuxihuannile，yeyoukenengshitamenduiyuweilaijiyuyutiaozhandetansuoyuchengzhangdejihui。fenshouduiyutamenlaishuohenyoukenengshiyizhongsuixinsuoyudeshifangchulai，rangtamenhaiyoujihuitansuogengweiguangkuorenshengdaolushineikongjian。zaizheiguochengzhong，tamenxiwangkeyizhuangdaziji，zhaodaozuishihezijideairen。

　　分手并不等于无爱和无值

　　zuizhong，womenyinggaimingbaiyidian，nanrenzaifenshoushibiaoshibuxihuannile，bingbudengyutamenmeiyouaiguohuohaowujiazhi。meiyiduanaiqingdoushibutongdejingliyujingyanjiaoxun，fenshouzhishiwomenrichangshenghuozhongdeyibufen。buzhiyinerbiandizijidechuxianyujiazhi，womenyaocongzheidangzhongxuexipeixun，weizijiderenshengtanxungengxingfudelu。

　　nanrenzaifenshoushihoushuobuxihuannile，zainanrenfenshoushibiaoshibuxihuannilezheiyijianduandejuzishenhou，yunzangzhehenduofuzadeqingganhesiwei。buguanzenyang，zuizhongyaodeshiwomenkeyicongzheidangzhongfazhan，bingqieweizijideaiqingxunzhaoxindefangwei。