与前男友复合却遭短择 我该挽回还是放弃？

　　nanpengyouquzuyudianwohetafenshoule，yiduanganqingjingliguodejieshu，shiyouyunanyoubingmeiyoucenggaozhiqueqianqulezuyudian，zaochengbudebuhetafenshou。zheiyikanqilaixiweidegerenxingweiqueanshizhexinren、zunzhongyugoutongjiaoliudequeshao。bansuizhezheiyiwufawanhuidexuanze，wopobudeyiyingduishenshendixinhanyutongku，tongshiweizijixuanlecongtoukaishierjili。zheiyitongkugushiqiaoxiangjingzhong，tixingzhedajiaaixiganqinglidemeiyigexiaoxijie，jiqirenzhihezunzhongduifangdexuyao，caikeyiyitonggoujianyigejiankang、xiangduiwendingdeguanlian。

　　令人惊讶的叛变

　　nanpengyouquzuyudianwohetafenshoule，zheigerenshiwoshenaidenanyou，womencengjiqitianmeiditaguomeiyigerizi。danshi，yicitalaizuyudiandezaoyu，chengweidajiafenshoudedaohuoxian。

　　womenbiciganqingcengshizheibanlaogu，zaishuangfangdeshenshangzhaodaoanquanganwenxin。dajiafenxianghenduomeihaoshishikeke，xianghufuchiyulijie。danshi，yunshihaoxiangyizhibujinrurenyi，jinerdaozhilewomenwanbi。

　　诚信与信任

　　xinrenjiushiwomenganqinggenjibukehuoquedeyibufen。wozongxinrenta，xinrentasuojiangdemeiyigezi。danshi，yiciyiwaidefaxianyingxiangleyiqie。woouranjianfajuetazaizuyudiandetupian，dantaquecongmeitanjiguozheidifang。neixinjinbuzhuranranshengqiyigukunhuo。

　　叛变的痛苦

　　zaiwogentamingquetichuzheizhongqingkuangshi，tadedaanrangwotongkuwanfen。tarenkelaidaozuyudian，danyizhimeiyougenwoshuo。woganshoudaoyizhongpanbianheyihandeciteng，wufajieshouzheigexianshi。liangrendeguanxichedibengkui，zaiyewufaxiufu。

　　沟通的意义

　　zheijianshiqingyaowoyishidaogoutongjiaoliuzaiganqingzhongdezuoyong。womenbingmeiyouxianghutaoluntamendexingwei，bingmeiyoujiduifangjihuiqujieshishuomingzhiqian。queshaogoutongyulijie，jinerdaozhiwomenzijidefenshou。

　　重新开始的勇气

　　jinguanfenshoujiwodailaidehendadetongku，danwodasuanxuyoudanliangcongtoukaishi。zheiyiqinshenjinglirangwomingbailewozhidebeizhongshihexinren，yejiaohuilewokuanyidairenyulijie。woyaoxunzhaoyigekeyigengqiangdongwo、goutongjiaoliu、chuangjianxianghuzhijianxinrenderen，quzhujianyigexindeganqinglvtu。

　　警觉和经验

　　zheiyiduantongkudezaoyurangwodongdelezhenxiganqinglidemeiyigexiaoxijie。womenzongshizaibuzhibujuezhongfanxiacuowu，danshiwomenbixusikaobingyicixuexipeixun。xinren、chengxinhejiaoliu，shidazaoshenxinjiankangerpingwenlianxidezhongyaojichu，womenyaoshizhonglaoji。

　　自我提升与追求幸福

　　jinguanfenshoushiyigetongkudeyigeguocheng，danwoxuanzelejianxinzijihuibiandeyuelaiyuewanqiang。woyaoxuehuizaizijixingfuyukuaileshangtanxunjiezhu，buhuizaiyikaobieren。zheixiejinglichengweiwomentuibiandeyibufen，jiushiwoyinglaigengmeihaomingtiandequdongli。

　　结束语

　　nanpengyouquzuyudianwohetafenshoule，nanyouhuranquzuyudianjinerdaozhilewomenfenshou。zaineiduanganqingzhong，woshouhuoleguanjianjiaoxun，mingbailexinren、chengxinhejiaoliuzhenduichuangjianshenxinjiankangguanxidezhongyaoxing。jinguantongku，danshiwohuibuduanjinbu，xunmiguishuyuzijideaiqing。