情感咨询：如何彻底放下一个暗恋很久的人？

　　nanpengyouquzuyudianwohetafenshoule，nanyouquzuyudianyuwofenshoule，zheiyijianduandejuziyouzheyiduanbutongxunchangdexiaogushi。yexu，nanpengyouquzuyudianbingfeiwentidebenzhi，fanershiyixilieshuyuan、goutongbudaoweihexianghuxinrenquefadefanying。zheijuhuagaojiewomen，zaiyiduanganqingzhong，xiweideshiqingyekenenghuiyinqijidadebianhua。zaizheiyangyigegushili，zuyudianbianchenglexianghujiandejiedi，jinerdaozhilefenshoudejuece。zheijuhuafangfozaigaojiewomen，ganqingxuyaobuduankuanrong、goutongyulejie。

　　jianshu：nanpengyouquzuyudianzaochengfenshou，tanxunshiwangyubeipandejiexian。

　　第一部分：渐露疑窦

　　nanpengyouquzuyudianwohetafenshoule，taxuanzelequzuyudian，erwoxuanzejianxin。zheiyitianhaoxianghewangchangyiyang，womeiyouxiangtaiduo。danshi，suizheshijiantuiyi，tamendexingweizhujianzaochenglewogulv。wojianjianjuechataxinyouyujidemoyang，tadeshoujiyebiandeshenmixiaqu。zheizhongweixiaodezhuanbianrangxinzhongshengzaodongbuan。

　　第二部分：解开迷题

　　yiciourandejihui，wofaxiantalaizuyudianbeihoudezhenxiang。zaipingrilichuanzhedabanposhiwuhuadefuzhuangxia，juranyinzangzheyigebuyiwosuozhishijie。taduiwomanbaoletadexingquheaihaoaihao，jiqiyucixiangguandeyiqierengenshi。zheiyiqierangwojuedezishenbuhuizailejieta，liangrendeguanxizhujianjijikewei。

　　第三部分：失望和背叛的界限

　　cicizuyudianshijianzhibuguoshibingshanyijiao。woyiduhuaiyiwomenzhijianderenkeshibushihaicunzaizhe，shiwangzhujianzaiwodexinlikuosan。woganshoudaobeipandekuchu，youyutadetiaoxuanshuomingletaduiwomenzhijiandebiyaoxingdediaojia。jinguantabingmeiyouzhijieduiwobuzhong，kewonanyirenshoutabeipanledajiayiqinulichuangjianderenkejiben。

　　第四一部分：激光切割情感上的桥梁

　　zuihou，wodasuanyutafenshou。zaiyigegezaodongbuanhegulvzanxiadeyishunjian，wocaiyishidaojijingzaiyewufaweichixialai。zheiyizuyudianshijianjinjinjiakuailedajiaqingganlianjiedepolie。fenshoushibeishangde，danwocaiyishidaozheigeshiwofujianzizunxinyuzhuiqiuzhenzhenzhengzhengxingfukuailedediyibu。

　　汇总：一个足浴店，一个分手

　　nanpengyouquzuyudianwohetafenshoule，nanyouquzuyudian，wohetafenshoule。zheiyikanqilaixiweideshiqing，jieluchuwomenzhijianqianquederenke、goutongyulejie。tashiyizhongshiwanghebeipandebiaozhi，jinerdaozhilewomengebendongxi。zheipiangushirangwoxuehuileaixixianghuzhijianderenke，jiqiyaoshizhongbaochixinlingshenchudelianjie。zuyudianjinjinyinqilefenshoudedaohuoxian，beihoudoushiwomenzhijianzaoyiposundeqingganlianjie。