如何区分跪舔和真爱？如何避免跪舔？

　　nanyouyinweiwotaixiaojifenshouzenmewanhui，dangnanyouyinweiwotaixiaojierxuanzelefenshoushi，wojianjianxiangzheruhewanhuizheiduanganqing。bulunshitongguodiaojiezijidejuexinyuxingwei，huoshijijizhudongdihetajinxingjiaoliuhechuliwenti，woyejiangjiejinquanli。wohuiqinfenzhanxianchuzishenyangguangxiangshangdeyimian，weitakanjianwobianhuadejiandingjuexinqinfen。yucitongshi，wohuinaixinqingtingtadexiangfahetihui，bingqieyijijizhudongdefangfajiejuebicizhijiancunzaiwenti。wanhuixiaojifenshoubingfeiyishi，danwohuibuduannuli，yongwodexingdongzhengshiwojiushifeichangzhidetazaicirentonghesuoxuanzede。

　　转变态度，改变自我

　　nanyouyinweiwotaixiaojifenshouzenmewanhui，dangwocaiyishidaonanyouyinweiwoguoduxiaojierxuanzelefenshoushi，woshenganzerenzhongda，poqiexuyaonengwanhuizheiduanganqing。wozhidaoxiaojixintaiduiaiqingdebuliangyingxiang，yinciwodasuanzuixiangenggaizijidejuexinyuxingwei。wojianjianjijizhudongditanxunshenghuozhongdelequhefengfuzijideshizhang，jinliangbafunengliangzhuanhuanweijijizhudongnengliang。neiyang，wonengxiangnanyouzhanxianchuwoyehuichengweiyigekaixin、jijizhudongdeairen。

　　交流是重要

　　wanhuixiaojifenshoudeguanjianzaiyugenjugoutongjiaoliugoujianqiyigexindelianxihexianghuxinren。wocaiyishidaowomenxuyaonaixinqingtingnanyoudeniantouhetihui，erbuzhishiyiweidizhizehebiaoshu。hetakaizhanzhenxinshiyi、tanrandihuihua，wohuijijizhiqianbingchengrenzijixiaojigerenxingweiweitazaochengdeshanghai。yucitongshi，wohuitanxunheshideshijian，mingquetichujiejuewentitiyi，zhanxianwoduiyuzheiduanganqingdegaoduzhongshiziwogaibianjuexin。

　　展现变化的行为

　　yanxingyizhidizhanshichuwoyangguangxiangshangdeyimianshibukehuoquede。wohuijijikaizhangexianghuodong，zhanxianzijidezizhunenglihexinxin。yucitongshi，wohuiqinfengaibianzijixiaojixiguanxing，suzaojijizhudongderenshengtaiduheqingxukongzhinengli。zainanyouyanqian，womenjiangjiandingbuyidezhanxianzijiyizhizainulichengweigenghaoderen，yiqiutanenggouganshoudaowodeshouhuo，bingzhongxinsikaodajiajiandeganqing。

　　给对方一段时间

　　wanhuixiaojifenshouxuyaoyiduanshijiannaixin。wohuizhongshinanyoudejuece，jiyubicizhijianyiduanshijiandedujuhesikao。zaizheiqijian，wohuizhongshiziwotisheng，tigaogerennengli，tongshibaozhengyunanyoushidangdelianluoyuhudong。wojianxinzengjiajiechudaodejianjunenggouyerangwomenzhenxiduifang，haiyoujihuicongtoukaishi。

　　积极主动拥抱未来

　　wanhuixiaojifenshoubingbujinjinzhishi“huidaocongqian”，yeshiweilechuangzaoyigegenggenghaodeweilai。wojianxin，zhixuwokeyizhenxinshiyigaibianxianzhuang，yongshijixingdongchuandachuwodejuexinyunuli，liangrendeguanxiqueshishiyouhenyoukenengdedaoxiufu。bulunshiqudechenggongwanhuihuoshicongtoukaishi，wodouyaoleguanmiandui，zhenxixianzai，bingqieweiweilaideshenghuoqinfendailaigengduomeihaojiyi。

　　挽回消极分手的关键所在：

　　nanyouyinweiwotaixiaojifenshouzenmewanhui，genjuzhuanbiantaidu、gaibianziwo、miqiegoutong、zhanxianbianhuadexingwei，jiduifangyiduanshijian，bingzhudongyongbaoweilai，woyouxinxindangmianduinanyouyinweiwotaixiaojierxuanzelefenshoushi，xunzhaowanhuidebanfa。zhongjianxinrenyuqingganbushiyicuerjiude，taxuyaobangmangtouruzhenzhengdenuliziwogaibian。danshi，woxiangxin，zhixuwokeyizhenxinchengyijiqizhuanxindiqinfen，liangrendeguanxiqueshishiyouxiangdedaoxiufuzaixuqingyuande。