女人怎样做才能掌握婚姻的财政大权？

　　nanpengyoukaiwanxiaoyaofenshou，jiuzaineiyitianwanshang，nanyoukaiwanxiaoditichuyaofenshou，duitaeryanjinjinxiaodiaokan，rangwoxinpojulie。wowangzhetayanlidegaoxing，tongchexinfei。haowuyujingdeneijuwanxiaohuabianchenglewoxinxuyinmidejufeng，buduandiguaqigulvhedanxin。wobuzhidaoruhemianduizheiyangdexiaoronghoumianyanzangdeshijiyongyi，wodeneixinshijiexianrujuliedezhengtuo。shibushizheiyijuwanxiaohuashenhouqueshicunzaifenshoudexiangfa？woxuyaojiechuzheiyimidi，shiwomendeguanxizaicijunheng。

　　nanpengyoudewanxiaobawosongruleshenshendiyihuodangzhong，neiyike，yipianqiheidenongwulongzhaozhezhuwo。woyuanbenzhashidezixinxinzhujianyaobaibuding，xinzhongsanfachubengkuiyubuan。zheiyiwanxiaoshibushitixianletaduiyudajiaguanlianqiangliebuman？

　　困惑的思索

　　nanpengyoukaiwanxiaoyaofenshou，wojianjianhuiyiqiwomenxiangshishenghuodediandi，changshizaijiyilizhaoxiansuo。congxiangfengdeneiyikeqi，womenderichangshenghuobicizhijianjiaocuo，gongtongduguolezheimeduoxingfudeshiguang。womenpingshiyiqixixidanao，huxiangzhaogu，huxiangpeiban。tadewanxiaoyixiangshineiyangwennuan，rangwoganjuedaowomendeguanxishineimedejiangu。keshi，zheiyikaiwanxiaozeshizheibanyuzhongbutong，liuluchuyizhongshengshuhemaodundeganjuele。

　　矛盾的体验

　　tadewanxiaojuranduizhunlefenshouzheiyimingandewenti，zheiworenweifenwaiguaiyi。womendeguanxiyizhiqinmiwujian，huxiangyilai，nandaoshuozheiyiqiedouzhishiyichangbuzhenshidecuojue？nanbuchengzaiwanxiaoshenhou，cunzaitazhenshidexiangfahetihui？wojianjianhaipakongjuhejuewang，buzhidaoruhemianduizheiyangdecubujifangdenanti。

　　解开谜雾

　　wodasuanzhaoyigeheshideshijian，hetayichengxiangdaidigoutongjiaoliu。woxianglehenduohuaxiangshuo，woxuyaolejietadeneixindeneixinxiangfa。dajiazuoxia，woyouyiwuyidiwendaotayouguanwanxiaodeyongyi，qidaixunzhaodaodaan。tadeyanjingchuxianzhenjing，suihouyishunjianbianweilekeliandeweixiao。tajieshidao，tazhishiyouyiwuyidinafenshouqukaigewanxiao，congmeixiangguoqueshixianglikaiwo。tadewanxiaozhixiangdouwokaixin，rangwomenbicifenweigengweiqingsongzizai。

　　从疑惑到学会放下

　　tingjiantadebiaoshu，woxinchedifangxialeneipianhouzhongshitou。zhangqiyilaideyoulvhewuhuibeiyiyihuajie，wodongdeletameiyouzhenxinshiyixuyaofenshou。zheiyiwanxiaojinjintayongbiaodazijideyoumofengquheqinmiwodexindexingshi。woshenganshifenxingyun，womendeguanxibingmeiyouchuxianfenhaonanti，fanershigengweinonghoule。

　　结束语

　　nanpengyoukaiwanxiaoyaofenshou，cicideqinshenjingliyaowozhenqiediyishidaole，goutongdeyiyiheqingganshangdeyisunxing。womenbuyinggaipingzheyijuwanxiaohuoshiyipiangaiquanlaipandingbierendezhenzhengyongyi。zaizanmenyihuobujieshi，yingdangjingxialaiheduifangzhenxinchengyigoutongjiaoliu，xunzhaozhengquededaan。weiyoutongguolijieyubaorong，womendeguanxicainenggenglaogu，yuelaiyuemeihao。