花镇解读：女生应该参与雄性竞争吗？

　　zaizheiyangyigejianshuzhong，womenjiangyaoweirao”nanyouhenxinfenshou“dehuamianjinxing。zheiyijujianyueyouhenshengdongxingxiangdexushu，kehualeyigerangrenxintonggushi。nanyouyijueranxinyi，haobuliuqingdehelianrengebendongxi，zaitaxinlihaoxiangyijingmeileaiqingderongshenzhichu。zheipiangushiyexuhuirangrengankaiaiqingcuozongfuzadehebianhuanwuchang，zheiyerangdajiasisuolianxidewanzhengxinghelaoguxing。rangwomenyitongzouruzheipiangushi，tansuoqibeihouyanzangdeqingxuherendebenxingdeshiji。

　　分手的决策

　　ganqingdebodongjingchangrangrencubujifang，dandangnanyoujueqingzuochufenshoudejueceshi，lianrenxinzhongwuqiongdecuobaiganmimanzheqilai。zheigexuanzehaoxianglaidezheibancuobujifang，rutongheiyezhongdeleidian，yishunjianhuapobenlainingjingtiankong。nanyouhenyoukenengbeiwaibudegongzuoyalisuoyingxiang，yeyoukenengshiduiyuganqingdeyouhuohemitu，kenengzhishibianxindejielun。buguanyinsuzenyang，zheigexuanzezhenduilianreneryandoushiwufajieshoude，bijingrenjiayiqianhuxiangyiwei、huayanqiaoyu。danshi，zaizheiyangyigebeishangdeshishikeke，womenbixujieshouxianshi，jieshouzheizhongjueqingfenshoudeshishi。

　　悲伤的反映

　　fenshouyouruyidaolirenshenshendicijinlianrenjiandeganqing，jitamendailaiwujindebeishang。lianrenxintongbujiqishupian，meifapingfudetongkushidetamenxianrushenshendiyoushangheshiwangdangzhong。buguanshirentihuoshijingshenshizhi，douzaizheiyikebeiwanquanjibai。beishangdefanyingyexuchengxianweichouqichenmowuyan，yexushinaonuqiangliekangyi，yihuoshilengdanwangque。danshi，zheizhongfanyingdougaibianbulefenshoudeshishi，zhiyougengweiyanmaitamenneixinshenchudetengtonggan。

　　寻找出路

　　suiranyoushangmimanzhequanbuxinshi，danlianrenmenwubixunzhaochulu，jianjiandibaituofenshouyinying。zheiyexushiyigejianxindelicheng，bixutamenyishijianyuneixindelilianglaiyizhichuangkou。tamenyexuyaojingliwushuyelidezhanzhuannanmian，yexuhuizaipengyoudepeibanxiazhongshishenghuodekuaile，yexuhuiyixindeaiqinglaimibulaojiubahen。buguantamenjingliguoshenme，tamenyejiangmanmanxunzhaocongfenshouzhongjiefangchulaidebanfa，zaicikaiqixindeshenghuo。

　　成长和启发

　　fenshoujinguandailailejidadetongchu，queyeshiyigechengzhangheqifadejihui。lianrenzaikunanzhongmanmanyishidaolezishenquedianyijixuyaojiejuedewenti。yexushiduiganqingdeguoduyilai，yexushiduizishendedingweiyuguanniandegaohun，yihuoshiduizhenshiaiqingderenzhiwuqu。tongguocicifenshoudezaoyu，tamenkeyigengjiaqingxidilejiegenzijiduiganqingdeqidai，weijinhoudeaiqingguanliandiandingjichu。

　　从头开始

　　dangquanbudetongkumanmanzhiyu，lianrenmenjijiangyinglaicongtoukaishideyike。tamenyexuhuizaicitanxunguishuyuzijideaiqing，yexuhuizaicongqiandetongkuqiantixiagewaizhenxiyigexindeaiqing，yihuoshitiaoxuanduanzanduju，zaicizhaodaozijideneixinshenchu。buguantaxuanzeshenmeyangdedaolu，zheiyicongtoukaishiyiweizhetamenlikaijueqingfenshouyinying，maijinleyigexinderenshengzhilv。

　　感情的选择

　　nanyouhenxinfenshougushigaosuwomenyigeguangfandanyoucankudeshishi：aiqingbingbuyidingshijiuxiangwomensuoqipandeneiyangmeihao。zheishichongmanjiqinghebianhuade，youdeshihouhuisunhaidajia，yeyoudeshihouhuilinijianxingjianyuan，danzheibingbudaibiaowomenyaofangqiaiqingdexiangwang。fenshoubingfeibuchenggong，qishizhishiyerangwomenmingxiankandaozishenzuixiangyaodedongxiwupin。bulunshizaicizhaodaozhenai，haishixuanduziqianxing，zuizhongyaodejiushiyaoshizhongjianxin，zhenzhengyiyishangdeaiqingjiangyushidudeshijianduanfasheng，bingjiwomendailaihuanlehexingfu。