dangnanyouyouyuqifenermingquetichufenshoushi,renmenchangchangmianlinfuhedejiongjing。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia,womenyinggaishensishulvyuxingwei。zuixian,yaomiqiegoutonghelingting,zhidaotadebumanyiyuxuqiu。cizhi,shenshizijigerenxingwei,zhaodaocunzaidewentibingfuzeren。xiamian,zhanxianchujijizhudongzhuanbian,genjuxingweichuandachuzhenzhihegenggaijuexin。yucitongshi,jiduifangshineikongjian,danbaochilianluo,zhujianfujianxianghuxinren。zuizhuyaodeshi,bixujianchinuliyushizhang,renzhenquwanliunanyoudeneixin,bingyilianghaodexiangchumoshilaixiufuguanxi。zheiyiqiedoushiweiledadao”nanpengyoushengqiyaofenshouzenmewanhui“mubiao。
nanyouxinqingdiluo,biaomingxuyaofenshou,zheiduinvyoueryanshiyigejudadeyanlidaji。keshi,mianduizheiyangdejiongjing,nvyouyingdangzenmewanhuinanyoudexinni?wanliuaiqingdelubingfeiyishi,keshizhiyaorenzhenyunuli,gailvyirancunzai。
1. 了解她的情绪
nanpengyoushengqiyaofenshouzenmewanhui,diyibuyidingyaolejienanyouweishenmeshengqibingbiaoxianlefenshoudexiangfa。xixinlingtingtadeganshouhejianyi,jinkenenglizaitajiaodushanglejietadeqingxu。zheikeyibangzhunvyougengqieshijiejuenanti,ranhouzhaodaogaijinaiqingdefangshi。
2. 自我反思和成长
zaizheiguochengzhong,nvyouyeyaoganyuziwofansi。jiarunanyouqifenyaofenshou,youkenengshinvyoudejudonghuoxintaiyouyidingdenanti。nvyounenggoushendusikaozijishibushiyoupianjideyantanjuzhi,shibushiyiqianhulvelenanyoudexuyao。genjuziwofansibingyaodanfuziyideguoshi,nvyounenggouzhanshichuchengshuhetuibiandeyimian。
3. 表述真诚的歉意
yidannvyourenshidaozijideguoshi,biaoshuzhenchengdeqianyijiubiandeshifenzhuyao。nvyouyingdangxuanzeyigeheshidejihuiyunanyouzhenchengdigoutongjiaoliu,biaoshizijiqianjiuzhiqing。zaizheigeguochengzhong,nvyouyaozhenxinzhenqingqujianghua,yaochuandachuhuigaiziwogaibianjuexin。
4. 修补沟通与信任
fenshoudejuecetongchangchuangjianzaijiaoliuliekaihexinrenzheigewentishang。yiner,fujianyouxiaodegoutonghexinrenshiwanliunanyoufenshoudeguanjiansuozai。nvyouxuyaohenanyouzhenxinchengyigoutongjiaoliu,gaijinbicizhijiandejiaoliufangfa。yucitongshi,tahaiyaozhanxianzijishizhidexinlaihefeichangzhidexinrende,genjujianchibuxiefuwuchengnuoheyanxingyizhilaifujianxinren。
5. 反映积极主动的改变
nanyougengxihuanjiandaonvyoudelianghaozhuanbian,erfeiliefengchengnuo。nvyounenggoujijizhudongdigenggaitamendexingwei,zhanshichuziyidejinbuyuchengzhang。nvyoukeguanzhunanyoudexuyao,jijitouru,genjushentilixingzhengmingzijidebianhua。
6. 给与时间和空间
wanliunanyoufenshoubixushijianhekongjian。fenshouhou,nanyouhenyoukenengxuyaoyiduanshijianlailengjingfenxiyuchulizijidexinqing。zaizheiguochengzhong,nvyouyingdangjiyunanyouchongzudeshijianhekongjian,buyaoguoduxunwenhuopanraota。yucitongshi,nvyouhainenggoushidujiaqiangyunanyoudeguanlian,zhanxianguanxinyushiyong。
7. 长久的勤奋
wanhuiganqingbushiyicuerjiudequanguocheng。nvyoubixuzhangjiudinulinaixin。zheijiangbaokuojijizhudonggaijinnidegerenfazhan,zaicirichangweihutishengyouxiaodegoutonghexinrendeng。weiyoujianchijianchibuxiedenuli,nvyoucaikenengwanliunanyoufenshou。
nanpengyoushengqiyaofenshouzenmewanhui,zaiaiqingdaolushang,fenshoushiyizhongchangjiandejiongjing。keshi,zhixunvyourenzhen、lejienanyouqingxu、fansizijidecuowu、biaoshuzhenchengdeqianyi、fujiangoutongyuxinren、chengxianjijizhudongdegaibian、jiyushijianhekongjian,bingzhangjiudinuli,nvyoujiuyoukenenghenhaodiwanliunanyoudeneixin。
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