相亲后我主动联系，他态度为什么有点敷衍

　　nanyoushuowobuaitayaofenshou，zaizheigejianshuzhong，nanyouzhijieledangxiangwomenbiaoxianletadebumanyiyubuan，tashuodaowobuaita，yuanwomenwanbizheifenganqing。zheiyijujianjiemingleershizhijiedeyanyuzhongyunhanletaduidajialianxidezhiyihebumanyi，yeshiwocaiyishidaolewomenbicijinzhangguanxi。rujin，wobudebumianduizheiyangdekeguanshishi，jianchazijidexiangfayuxingwei，bingquedingzenyangchulizheiyiduanganqingjianglai。

　　感情危机：男友是不是怀疑我很爱他？

　　nanyoushuowobuaitayaofenshou，wojingqiditingdaonanyoudehua，taxuanchengwobuaita，yaofenshou。zheiyicubujifangdechizeyaowoxintengeryihuo。dajiacengshineiyangqinmiwujian，wocongmeixiangguodajiayaomianlinrucidadekaoyan。rujin，wobudebusikaowomendeguanxi，xunqiudaan，bingzhongxinshenshiwodeganjue。

　　思索他们的行为：是否存在导致它的误会？

　　nanyoudekonggaoyinqilewoduizishenweifaxingweidesisuo。wojianjianhuiwangwomenzijidexiangchumoshi，tanxunshibushiyounaxierangtacaiyiwoduizheifenai。huoxushiwozaiguoqurilitoubiaodaaiyifangfayousuobianhua，huozhewohaizaimouxieshikekanqilaishuyuan。buguanshishenmeyuangu，wocaiyishidaowomenxuyaogengweixixindiguanchawomenzijidehudongjiaoliu，bingshenshizijigerenxingweishibushiduitadeganshoudaozhilewuhui。

　　沟通的意义：探寻真相的一方

　　zaizheigekaoyanqinei，wodasuanyunanyouzhenchengdigoutongjiaoliu，tanxunzhenxiangsuoshu。huoxutadeyanyuchuyufennuhebumanyi，danwoyiranqidaitingjiantadezhenshitiyan。weiyoutongguobicilingtingyulijie，dajiacaikeyijiejuekunhuodajialianxidenanti。woqidaihetayitongzhaodaowentidebenzhi，weiweilaideshenghuoxunzhaojiejuefangfa。

　　自我反思：再次确定自己的想法

　　dangnanyoubiaoshucaiyizhiji，wobuyoudexianruneixinshenchudecuoluan。wojianjiansikaowoduitadeaiqing，shenshizijishibushizhendeaizhe。zheiyichangganqingweijiyeshiyigeshishikeke，dingzhuwozhongxinsikaowoneixin。woxianglecongqiandemeihaoshiguang，huiyiqidajiayiqijinglishenghuodediandi。manman，worenshidaozijiduiyutadeqingxurengrannonghou，woyuanweiwomendeguanxiqinfen，qingchutadegulv。

　　重建信任：共同奋斗寻找解决方法

　　yaozhongjianxinrenbingxiubuwomendeguanxi，bixubicizhijiandenuliyufuwuchengnuo。womenyinggaiyiqimianduizheiyikaoyan，jiandingdimianduiwomenbicinanti。womennengxunzhaojishuzhuanyexiezhu，lingtingbierendetiyi，huozheliyongshizhangnaixinlaihuifudajialiekaideqiaoliang。zuizhongyaodeshi，womenyinggaizhenchengdikandaibicizhijiandetiyan，bingzhebicilijieyuzhichidejibenyuanze。

　　彻底改变将来：探寻爱情新的一页

　　zaizheigejiannanshishikeke，womenyinggaizhongxinsikaoduiyulianggerendeganqingheweilaiqidai。huoxuwomenyinggaichedigaibianwomendeguanxi，shezhijidingmubiaoheshixian，bianyuzuodaogengjiajiankanghexiangduiwendingdeqingxufanying。wulunjieguoruhe，zheiyikaoyanjianghuichengweidajiachengzhangyuxuexijihui，bulunshiyiqimianxiangweilai，huoshifenbiexunmixindexingfu，womendouyaomanhuaiyiliheqidaiyingduimeiyitian。

　　nanyoushuowobuaitayaofenshou，congnanyouduiyuwosuotichudefenshouguidingzhong，woganshoudaoqingganshangdekunjingyuzerenyali。danshi，yeshiwomenchengzhangyutuijinlianxidebaoguijihui。wodasuancongfanshenghejiaoliuxiashou，fujianwomenbicixinlai，bingchedigaibianweilaizhilu。buguanzuihoudejiejuzenyang，woxiangxindajiayehuiyincigengjiaqingxizijideyaoqiuhesixiang，bingchengweigenghaoderen。