冷爱：女人生孩子的时候男人都出轨吗？

　　nanyoushuowobuaitayaofenshou，yuanyiweiwomenzijideganqingyizhidouhenhao，danshi，nanyouquezongshuowobuaita，tongshiyexiwangfenshou。zheihuadapowoduidajiaguanlianderenke，rangwojinxingsikaowomenzhijiandezhuduo。wobuyoudekaishikaolvzijishifoubingmeiyouchuandachuchongzudeqingyi，huoshishifoucunzaishenmewoweicengzhuyidaodenanti。buguanshinayizhongzhuangkuang，wohaixiwangkeyiyunanyouhaohaotantan，xunzhaojiejuewentidefangfa，zaicigoujianqiwomenzhijiandehunyinguanxi。

　　nandaoshuowozhendemeiweitachongzudeqing？

　　youguannanyouzongshuowobuaitayaofenshoudeshiqing，woyizhikunhuobuyihebeitong。womenzijideganqingyiqianrucitianmi，yuanyiweiwomenkeyiyizhizouxiaqu。danshi，zheihuadapowodehuanxiang，yaowozhujianshenshizijixingweibiaoxianbiaodaxingshi。

　　疑惑于自己的情意是不是不足

　　wojianjianhuiyiqidajiazaiyiqideshiguang，huiyiqicengjingdewonuliguojianchibuxiedenuli。keshi，wojiuchajuezijihenyoukenengzaihenduofangmianbingmeiyouweitachongzudeqing。huoxuwobingmeiyouchangchangjijichuandachuwoduitadeqingxu，huozairichangrichangshenghuobingmeiyoubiandeyuelaiyuetiexinheguanai。zheizhongyoukenengshishitachanshengzhiyidezhuyaoyuanyin，shiwomengoutongbudaoweideyigefangmian。

　　探寻难题根源并进行交谈

　　yingduizheizhongqingkuang，wodasuanyutahaohaotantan。xiwangzhidaotadegulvhebumanyi，zhaodaowomenzhijiancunzaidebuzu。huoxu，zaiwomenzhenzhenzhengzhengzuoxialingtingduifangdexinshengshi，womenkeyifaxianyixiewomenyiqiandoumeiyishidaodexianxiang，congergenghaodichuliwomenzhijianwenti。

　　重新思考感情状态

　　chukaiziwofanshengwai，wokaishisikaowomenzijideganqingqingkuang。yexu，dajiazaiganqinglideyouhaodu、goutongjiaoliu、yitongdeguannianshangcunzaiyixiemaodun。zheileimaodunkenenghuizhishitaduiwodeaicunyoucaiyi。yiner，womenxuyaoyutayiqitaolunweilaideshenghuo，yiquebaowomenzijideganqingjinyibuhuodetishenghegaijin。

　　为复建关联而奋斗

　　buguannantishiyinweishenme，wohaiquedingjiejinquanli，weifujianliangrendeguanxierfendou。wonenggengweijijizhudongdibiaoshuwodeqingxu，guanxinbierendeyaoqiuheqingxu。wonengshizhegaijinwomenzijidejiaoliufangshi，shitatihuidaolewodezhenzhiheqingyi。fujianganqingxuyaobicizhijiandeqinfenyubaorong，womenyinggaiyiqimianduikunjingbingtanxunjiejuefangan。

　　寻找外界帮助与建议

　　jiaruwomenzijibunengchuliwenti，wonengkaolvdaoxunzhaowaibuxiezhuyujianyi。zheiyangkeyishihaopengyou、qinrenhuoshigengzhuanyedeqingganzhuanjia。tadejianjieyujianyikenenghuiduiwodailaigengduodeqidi，bangwomenbaituokunjing，fujianwomenzijideganqing。

　　dangmianduinanyoushuowobuaitayaofenshoushi，wobingbuxiangqingyanfangqiwomenzhijiandeganqing。woyuanrenzhennaixinqusikaowenti，weiweilaideshenghuoerfendou。bulunzuizhongjieguozenme，zuishaowomennengzhenchenglumianbicizhijian，buyaoliuxiayihan。