高攀男友：他对我是短择吗？

　　nanyoushuowobuaitayaofenshou，dangnanyoujiangchu“wobuaitayaofenshou”neiyangdehuashi，dajiabukebimiandixianruwuhuigudi。danshi，womenyaojianchibuxielizhilengjing，bubiguodudanxin。zheishihou，womenyinggaizhenzhengyiyishangqingtingduifangdexinsheng，bingbuduanlejieshenhoudegenbenyuanyin。genjujijizhudongdegoutonggaoxiaodemiaoshu，dajiahaiyoujihuijiechuzheiyiyituan，fujianxianghujianderentongheaiqing。

　　nanyouturanjiangchu“wobuaitayaofenshou”，keweishiyijilaiyuanyuyanhanheianshenyuandechongji，xinlidehuangkongbuanhewoxuanmanyankailai。womenyaozuodejinyoushenxiqi，baochilizhilizhi。zaizheiyangyigejinyaoguantou，goutongyuelaiyueyouweizhongyao，womenyinggairenzhenxizhidilingtingduifangdexinsheng，renshouqingxubodong，huiyingkenengchuxiandewuhui。xianghuzhichishijiejuemaodundeguanjiansuozai，er“nanyoushuowobuaitayaofenshou”jinjinxianxiang。

　　第一章：真心实意聆听，探寻内心的真实的声音

　　buguanshishenmeyuangurangnanyoujiangchu“wobuaitayaofenshou”，womenyinggaiyichengkendetaiduqulingtingtadeneixin。qingganshangdefuzaqiexiwei，youshihouyaoshijianyujihuiquwanquanlejie。womenkeyicongtayanyu、muguanghezhuangtaizhongzhaoxiansuo，lingminbuhuotadeyaoqiu、youlvheqidai。weiyoutongguozhenxinshiyilingting，cainengzhenzhengdepoyitaneixindezhenxiang。

　　第二章：积极主动沟通，从根源上处理问题

　　zaiwomenquedinglenanyoudeneixinyaoqiuhou，womenyaoyonggandequmianduinanti，jijidikaizhangoutong。zaiyuyuedeqifenzhong，womenkeyiqingchudibiaodaguandianhetihui，qingtuneixindemimanghegulv。yucitongshi，womenhaixuyaojiyunanyouzugoudejiyu，shitahaowubaoliudebiaodaguandian。genjugoutong，womenkeyigenghaodilejiebicizhijian，xunzhaowentidebenzhi，weihuajiemaodunjieshuixingzhou。

　　第三章：重建信任，重新点燃爱的火焰

　　bulunshiwujiehaizhenshicunzainanti，zhongdianzaiyudajiashifounengfujianxianghujiandexinlai。genjuzhenzhidegoutonghebicidelejie，dajiahaiyoujihuizhongxindianranaidehuoyan。zheiyiguochengxuyaoyiduanshijiannaixin，bixuxianghuzhijiandenulihejianchi。womenkeyiyiqizhidingxingdongjihua，gongtongfendougaijinguanlian，bingxunzhaojiejuewentifangfa。jinyougoujianqibicizhijianderenke，cainengzhenzhengdezaifengyuzhihouzaicizoudaoyiqi。

　　结束语：从逆境中摆脱，一起成长

　　“nanyoushuowobuaitayaofenshou”zhishiyigeduanzanyishunjian，erliangrendeguanxishizaizhangqidegongchuhemoheqizhonggoujiande。buguanmianlinshenmejiongjing，womendouyaoxiangxin，aiqingshijingdezhujianyande。yikaozhenzhidegoutongyulijie，dajiayoushilibaituokunjing，yiqichengzhang。buguanzuihoujieguoruhe，zheiyiqinshenjinglijiangshiwomenyuelaiyuegengchengshuhewanqiang，weijinhoudeganqingdeluzhujiujianshijichu。