12星座女生相亲秘籍 助您脱单成功（一）

　　nanpengyoushengqileyaofenshouzenmehong，dangnanyouyinweiyixieyuanyinqifenbingjichufenshoushi，nvyoushichanghuijuedebuzhisuozhonghexinteng。zheishihou，nvyoubixulengjingfenxi，bingzhidingyixiliehuodonglaihongnanyou。hongnanyoubingbushijiandandezhiqianhuoshitaohaota，fanershizhenzhenglejietadeqingxu，lingtingtadexiangfa，tanxunnantidezhuyaoyuanyin，bingjijixunzhaojiejuefangan。genjutanchengjiaoliu、jiyukongjianheshijianshiyong，jiqizhuixungenggaiyuchengzhang，nvyoujiangnenggouzaicilajinguanxiheweixiguanxi。zuizhongyaodeshi，nvyoubixuxuehuizunzhongduifangdejuece，jiaruhongnanyoujianchibuxiedenulishiling，neiyangyeyingdangzhongshitadetiaoxuan，shitazhangkongzijideyihuo，ernvyouzexuehuijianqiangtanrandimianduizijideqingxuheweilai。

　　nanyouqifenyaofenshou，nvyouruhewanhuiqinggan？

　　诚信应对状况

　　nanpengyoushengqileyaofenshouzenmehong，dangnanyouqifenbingjichufenshoushi，nvyoushouxianpingjingxialai，tanrandiyingduizheiyishiji。buyaojinghuangshicuo，fanershijiyubicizhijianzugoudeshijianlailengjingfenxi。huoxunanyoudejuecechuyuyishidechongdongxingwei，huozheyinweiyixienantijidianerzaochengdeqingxupibei。nvyoubixujieshouxianshi，bingchengrenzijiguoshiyubuzu。zheiyeshidakaiwanliuzhixingdediyibu。

　　聆听与理解

　　zaibuduanwanliunanyoushi，nvyouyingdanglingtingtaxinsheng，zhenzhenglejietadeganshouhekanfa。buyaojizhezhengbianhuobiaoshu，fanershijiyunanyouchongzudeshijianhekongjian，shitabiaoshuneixindetongkuyuyihuo。genjulingting，nvyounenggougenghaodelejienanyoudeyaoqiuhexiwang，weixiayibuxingdongchongfenzhunbei。

　　思考与更改

　　fenshoudezhuyaoyuanyindaduoshiyinweilianggerenzaixiangchuguochengzhongcunzaidewenti。nvyouyingdangweizijidexingweihexingweikaizhansikao，bingjijiditanxunbianhuadefangshi。zhuyaobaokuogaijinjiaoliufangshi、jiejuemaodundeshuiping、lijieduifangdeyaoqiuheshineikongjiandeng。nvyouyingdangzhanxianchutafazhanyuchengzhang，rangnanyoujiandaozijidegaibian。

　　积极寻找解决方法

　　chukaigaibianxianzhuang，nvyouhaiyingdangjijixunzhaojiejuewentijihuafangan。zheihuishejidaobicigongtongfendoudeshi，huozhenvyouyongyuchengdandegaishanfangan。nvyounenggoutiyijianhekanfa，yunanyouyiqizhidingjiejuefangfa，binggongtongfendouquwancheng。genjuxiezuochuliwenti，nvyoukexiangnanyouzhanxiantachengxinheyongqi。

　　给予时间和空间

　　wanhuiyiduanganqingbixushijianhekongjian。nvyouyingdanglejienanyoubixudujuhelengjingfenxishi，bingjiyuchongzudeshijianhekongjian。buyaoguoduzhuiqiuhuojiuchanbuqingnanyou，zheizhihuizengjiatadeyalifudan。fanguolai，nvyounenggouzhuanzhuzijidefazhanyufazhan，zhanshichuduliziyoujijidexintai。nanyouzaijinglileyiduanshijiandesisuohou，kenengyishidaolenvyoudebiyaoxing，bingshenzhongkaolvtadequeding。

　　尊重对方的挑选

　　zuihou，nvyouyaoxuehuilijienanyoudetiaoxuan。jiarujindaoleyiqienuli，nanyouyiranjianchifenshou，neiyangnvyouyingdangjienazheiyishishi，bingfangkaishou。lijieduifangdexiangfa，qianwanbuyaozaifenshouyihouzaicibuyiburao。fanershizhongxinfangzaizishenfazhanyuxingfushang，jizijizaojiumeihaodemingtian。

　　nanpengyoushengqileyaofenshouzenmehong，fenshouwanhuinanyoudeguochengdangzhong，nvyoubixubaochilixinghelixing，zhanxianchuzhenzhihefazhan。genjutanrandimianduikunnan、lingtinglejie、sikaogenggai、xunzhaojiejuefangfajiqijiyushijianhekongjian，nvyoujianghuizengjiawanliunanyoudehaojihui。zunzhongduifangdetiaoxuan，zhangwozijideaiqing，nvyoudoujiangxunzhaozijideaiqingyuweilai。