花镇精选：女生如何走心地降pu

　　nanpengyoutifenshoulehenjuejuezenmeban，dangnanpengyoujueranmingquetichufenshoubingbiaoxianchulejuejuedexintaishi，womenyinggailengjingfenxijiejueliangce。zuixian，zunzhongtadexuanyong，bingjieshouxianshi。jiezhe，keyishizhehetagoutongjiaoliu，zhangwofenshoudezhuyaoyuanyin，shifouyoufuhedekongjian。ruowufamibu，yaochongfenbiaoshuxinlideqingxu，xunzhaoshidushijianhefangfa，qingtuziyidetongku，jinermanmanxuehuifangxiabingliaoyushangba。zuizhongyaodeshi，bixujianchiziwochengzhanghezhaodaoxindejiyu，jijizhudongmianduitiaozhan，mairugenghaodeshenghuohuanjie。

　　nanpengyoudejuejuefenshou：zenyangtuoshanchuzhi？

　　nanpengyoutifenshoulehenjuejuezenmeban，yingduinanpengyouhaobuliuqingdemingquetichufenshoudejuejuexintai，womenyinggailizhijiejue，bingzhaodaoheshidefangshilaijiejuezheiyiduanganqingjieshu。fenshouduiwomenlaishuokenengshiyigeyanlidaji，danwomentongguoxialiefangfalaimianduiyuchuli。

　　1. 接受和重视它的挑选

　　nanpengyoudejuejuefenshoujiushitajingguoyifankaolvdaohouzuodejueding，womenyinggaizhongshitadetiaoxuanbingjieshouzheizhongkeguanshishi。suiranhenyoukenengwufamianduixianshi，danjieshouhezhongshitadequedingcaishiguanjiandediyibu。

　　2. 保持理性并思索

　　zaiqingxubengkuiyiqian，womenyinggaibaochilixingbingkaishikaolv。lingtingzijineixinxiangsheng，baozhenglixingdipouxizheiyiduanganqingwentiyufenshoudezhuyaoyuanyin。youzhuyurenmennenggougenghaodijiejue，xunzhaozhengquejiejuefangan。

　　3. 交流是重要

　　zaifenshouhou，shidudejiaoliushihenzhongyaode。keyihenanpengyouzhenchengdijiaotan，lejietaquedingfenshoudezhuyaoyuanyin。zheinengbangzhuwomengenghaodilejietadexiangfahetihui，zheikenenghuiweijinhoudeyouhaowanglaijieshuixingzhou。

　　4. 心理状态疗愈和自我成长

　　fenshouhenyoukenengjidajiadexinlijiankangdailaiyidingdechongjixing，womenyinggaijizijiyixieshijianliaoyu。nenggouxunzhaogengzhuanyedexinlifudao，qingtuneixinshenchudetongku，bingshizhecanjiaziwochengzhanghuodong，runianshu、xuexijinenghuocanyuxingqupeixunban。zheizhongkeyibangzhuwomenzhujianzouchuyinying，kandaoyigexindeshiyongjiazhiyukuaile。

　　5. 宽敞明亮，探寻新机会

　　fenshoubingbudengyuquanqiumori，fanguolai，takenengshiyinglaixindejiyudekaiduan。weichilianghaodexintai，kuankuowomendeshiye，zhaodaoxindejiyuhegailv。yuhaoyouyujiarengongchu，canyuxiuxianhuodong，huoshizheyigexindexingquyuaihao，zheidoushikuozhanrenjijiaowangheziwotishengdehaobanfa。

　　6. 时间是最好的疗愈者

　　jiejuefenshouxuyaoyiduanshijian，meiyouyigemingqueshijianbiao。biebazijibidetaijin，jinkenengmanxiajiaobu，hejieshoushijianshizuihaodeliaoyuzhe。meiyigerenxiufuzhouqishijianbuyiyang，xiangxinzijishuiping，xiangxinshijiannengjinidailaixindeqidian。

　　nanpengyoutifenshoulehenjuejuezenmeban，zainanpengyoujuejuetifenshouhou，womenyinggaicongrongyingduizheigeshishi，jienatadetiaoxuan，bingzhaodaozijidefangfahecuoshilaibaituotongku。jilao，shinirenshengzhilvzhongdeyixiaobufen，jianglaiyijiuyouxuduomeihaodeshiwozaidengdai。jianxinziji，xiangxinyuanfennengjinidailaigenghaodemingtian。