明知道他是渣男，为什么你却还是放不下？

　　nanrenhenifenshoudiertianjiuzhaobieren，zaiaiqingshijieli，youshinanrenfanyingrangrennanyilejie。dangyiduanhunyinpoliehou，xianglailingyifangyingdangrengzaiyoushangbianyuanpaihuaiba？shubuzhi，zongyouyixienanren，zaifenshoudediertianjiukuaisuzhaodaoxindebanlv。zheizhongzuofalingrengandaoyihuoyuwunai，haoxiangnidefuchuyuelaiyuewuzuqingzhong。yexu，tamenbenlaijiuweicengzhenxinshiyi，kenengzhishiyizhongduobidexingshi，danbuguanzenyang，dajiayidingyaodongdecongzheiyikanqilaicankudeshishizhongjiefangchulai，jixuqianjin。

　　nanrendeaiqinggerenxingweijingchangrangrenyitouwushui，zaiqizhongjiuyouyizhongxianxiang，zaifenshouyihou，tamenhenkuaijiukeyizhaodaoyigexindebanlv。zheizhongzuofabudanlingrennanyijiena，yejirendailaizhongduoyihuoyutongku。jiujingshishenmerangnanrenzaifenshouhouzheibankuaisudizijintouruyigexindeaiqingshenmeguanxi？

　　一. 逃出痛苦阴影 找到抚慰背后

　　nanrenhenifenshoudiertianjiuzhaobieren，fenshouduisuoyoureneryandoushiyizhongtongkudejingli。eryouxienanren，wangwanghuixuanzegenjuzhaodaoyigexindebanlvlaibaituozishendekuchu。duiyutamenlaishuo，xindeganqingdaibiaozhexindeqidian，shiyizhongzhonghuoanweixingfukuailedejiyu。tamenxiangyaokeyitongguoyigexindeaiqinglaimibuzaifenshouhouliuxialaidekongque，bingtaochutongkuyinying。

　　二. 追寻自我毫无疑问 找到自尊心的路

　　zaifenshouhou，youyixienanrenkenengjuedezizundedaolezhongcuo。tamenhuizhiyizijimeiliyouhuoli，yiner，taxuanzekuaisuzhaodaoyigexindebanlv，yibiaoxianzijiyiranxiyinren。jijiyuyigexindebanlvzhongxinjianliguanlian，tamenxiangyaonenggoudedaowaibuduizishenderenkehekending，jinerfujianxinxin。

　　三. 欠缺真正意义上的爱情 探寻弥补内心空虚的形式

　　youyixienanrenzaifenshouhoumashangjiuzhaodaoyigexindebanlv，bujinjinzhishitaobitongkuhuozhuixunziwohaowuyiwen。tamenxinlingshenchuhenyoukenengyizhihaipaguduhekumen，eryigexindeaiqingguanlianbianchengmibuzheileineixinkongxudeyizhongfangshi。tamenxiwangyongyuyigexindebanlvchuangjianhaodeguanxi，xunzhaodaozhenzhengyiyishangdeaiqingheqingganshangdedadao。

　　四. 针对爱情的认知不同 追寻一个新的概率

　　nanrenyunvrenzhenduiaiqingderenshitongchangbuyiyang。youyixienanrenhenyoukenengjianxin，aiqingbugaizhiliuzaiguoqutongchuyucuozhezhong，eryinggaichixuzhaodaoxindegailv。jibianfenshoudetongkuyirancunzai，tamenyirankailangdijianxin，xiayigerenkenenghuiduitamendailaigengduoxingfukuailebingmanzu。yiner，taxuanzezaifenshouyihoukuaisuzhaodaoyigexindebanlv，zaicitansuoaiqingdegailv。

　　五. 不一样的处理方式 每个人都有自己的方法

　　dajiazaijingyingganqingzheigewentishangdouyouzhezijidefangfa。youyixienanrenhenyoukenengshenglaijiukeyigengjiafangbiandishifangchulaiyiwangdeaiqing，jienayigexindeaiqing。tamenbuhuinanguodishenxianguoqudehuiyizhong，fanershijijizhudongdixiangqiankan，zhujianxindelianailvtu。zheiyangdexintaishidetamenkeyigengjiakuaisudizhaodaoyigexindebanlv，zaicitadeshenghuo。

　　nanrenhenifenshoudiertianjiuzhaobieren，nanrenzaifenshouyihouxunsuzhaodaoyigexindebanlvzheiyixianxiangbeihou，yunzangzheduozhongbutongdedeyuanyinjidongyin。wuluncongtaochutongkuyinying，zhuixunziwohaowuyiwen，mibuneixinkongxu，zhuixunyigexindegailv，yeshiyinweibuyiyangdechulifangshi，meiyigenanrendouyouzhezijidefangshijiyuanyin。womenyexuwufalijie，danshiwomenyaozhongshitadetiaoxuan，qidaitamenkeyizhaodaozhenzhengdekuailebingmanzu。yiyang，dajiayeyaoxuehuifangxiayiwang，jixuqianxing，xiangxinzijiaiqinghuichuxianzaiheshideshihou。