女生太作导致分手 如何挽回男友

　　nanrenhenifenshoudanbushanchu，benwenjiangweiraoyigelingrenyihandeqingkuangjinxing：nanrenyunifenshoudanbushanchuni。womenjiangyaoshenrufenxizheizhongqingkuangshenhoudongjiheyinsu。weishenmetaxuanzebaocungoutongjiaoliudefangshi？chuyunanyigeshedeaihenjiuge，zhenxinxiwangsuishisuidizhuanshendexinlizhangkong？womenjiangyaocongnanrendeshijiaohenvrendeganshoulaifenxiqibeihouhenyoukenengyinzangqingxubianhuahexinlidongtaixing。buguanzenyang，nanrenyunifenshou，danbushanchudejudonghuyinglerenjiguanxiduoyuanxing，yezhanxianleganqingmeilijuewangdeliangzhongxing。

　　nanrenzaifenshouquebushanchulianxifangshi，zheizhongzuofajilingrenkunhuo，youchongmanzhegezhonggeyangcaixiang。weilenengshencengciyanjiuzheigexianxiang，rangwomenyiqifenxiyixiaqibeihoudehenyoukenengdeyuanyinjixinlidongyin。

　　1. 城府很深的爱恨纠葛

　　nanrenhenifenshoudanbushanchu，zaifenshouhou，nanrenbuhuixuanzeshanchulianxifangshikenengjiushiyinweiyiranhuaizhemouleiqingxu。suirantamenbiaomiangongbujieshuzheifenganqing，danxinlingshenchuyirancunzaiyizhongyilaihewenrou。baocunlianxifangshirangtamenkeyishishikekehuiyiqiyiwangdemeihaohuiyi，huoshiweijinhoudediaojieliuyouyixianxiwang。

　　2. 控制和掌控的心理冲动

　　youshihou，nanrenfenshouquebushanchulianxifangshiyoukenengshichuziyuyizhongxinlilidekongzhiyucaozongchongdong。baochilianluonenglirangtamenjuedezijiyiranjubeizhimingdu，keyizaiyidingchengdushangbawoxingshi。zheizhongzuofanenggoutigongyizhongxinlilidechengjiugan，rangdajiazaifenshouhouyiranzhanjuzhudongyingxiangli。

　　3. 戒不掉的习惯性

　　duiyuyixiereneryan，shanchulianxifangshiwangwangyiweizheyizhongchedidejiguangqiegehewanbi。danshi，youyixienanrenhenyoukenengchuziyuxiayishihuoshibianjiexingkaolvqiebushanchu。tamenyexuzaoyishelilemouleirijingchanglianxidefangshi，biruyongshejiaowangluohudongjiaoliu、gongxiangdiandiandidideng。bushanchulianxifangshinengrangtamenchixubaochizheileilejiezhijiandehudongxiguanxing，erbuxuyaoyingduifenshouzhihoudeyihansangshi。

　　4. 戏弄心理筹码

　　zaiyixieqiantixia，nanrenhenrongyibabaocunlianxifangshidangzuoyizhongzhulizijin，yongyuweihaiduifangdeganshouyuxingwei。tamenxiwangbierenzaifenshouzhihouhaibaochiyizhongduiyutamendeyikaohuoxiwang，jiecimanzuzijiaimuxuronghuoqudeyizhongxinliyoudian。zheizhongzuofakenengheduizizunxinguoduguanxinhuoshiyizhongchongdongcaokongbierendexiangfaxiangguan。

　　5. 难平的事与未来概率

　　youshihou，nanrenfenshouhoubunengshanchulianxifangshishiyouyuhaiyouyixieweijiejuedewentibixugoutongjiaoliu。youkenengshiyixiefenshouzhihoudejichuwenti，huozhefenshouhouhaixuweichimouleilianluo（ruzaiyiqishenghuohuohezuoshiyi）。tamenbaocunlianxifangshijiushiweilezaicigoutongjiaoliuyijiejuezheigewenti，yeweilejianglaikenengxingdediaojiehuocongtoukaishiliuyouyitiaoanquantongdao。

　　nanrenhenifenshoudanbushanchu，zongeryanzhi，nanrenfenshouquebushanchulianxifangshikenenghuiyouduozhongbutongdeyuangu。bulunshiaihenjiuge、kezhiyuwang、xiayishigerenxingwei、xinlizhulizijinhuoshinanpingdeshi，zheizhongxingweichongfentixianlefanzadexinlidongyin。meiyigerenqingkuangjidongyindoubujinxiangtong，yincirenzhihejiangjiezheizhongzuofayingdanggengquanmiankeguanxing，bunengyigaierlun。buguanzenyang，zhenduifenshouhoubaocunlianxifangshi，womenyinggaikeguankeguankandaibingyijugerenxiangfajinxingxiangyingdeguanlijuece。