父亲对男友不满意 我该怎么办

　　nanrenhenifenshoushibuailema，dangnanrenquedinghenifenshoushi，nishibushihuikunhuotashifouhaiaizheni？zhenxiangshi，nanrenfenshoubuyidingdaibiaotamenbuhuizaiaini。youshihou，aiqingdexiaosanhuozhuanbiankedaozhifenshoudejuece。tamenyexuyishidaolebicizhijiandechabiehuoyouwenti，huoshitamenzhengmianlinzhenidegerenchengzhangyufazhanqushi。fenshoubingbuyidingshixiangdangyubuxihuan，ershiyizhongweilenenghuxiangchengzhanghezhuixunxingfudetiaoxuan。

　　nanrenhenifenshoudezhuyaoyuanyinbuyidingshiyinweibuhuizaiaini。aiqingdeduoyuanxingcushifenshouguanlijuecetongchanggenbenwufajiandandeguinaweiaihuobuai。zaiyixiajifangmiandajiakeyikandao，fenshoubuyidingshiqianqueaidebiaoda。

　　成长与转变

　　nanrenhenifenshoushibuailema，dajiashibuduanjinbuhebiandongde，yebaohanqingganshang。nanrenhenifenshoukenengjiushiyinweizaitamenkanlaibicidechabiehenda，huoshitamenyifaxianyonghudexuqiuhesixiangchuxianlegaibian。zheiyangdeqingkuangxia，fenshoubingbudengyumeiai，fanershilianggerenzaigerenchengzhangzhongchanshengdebuyizhi。

　　矛盾和矛盾

　　zaiyiduanganqingjiaowangzhong，maodunhemaodunshiwufabimiande。nanrenfenshoukenengjiushiyinweibicimeifajiejuezheigewenti，huoshitamenhuijuedezaiyiqigengduodeshichanshengtongchuerfeikaixin。suirantamenxuanlefenshou，danzheibingbudaibiaotamenbuhuizaiaini，ershiweilefangzhigengduotongchu。

　　本人优先选择

　　youshihou，nanrenquedinghenifenshoujiushiyinweitamenjuedegerenchengzhanghezaojiugengweizhongyao。tamenyexuyouzhezijidelixianghebaofu，qidaizhuanzhuzijishiyehuozhuixun。yebingbudaibiaotamenbuhuizaiaini，fanershiyinweitamenxuyaoyiduanshijiandujulaidadaogerenguihua。

　　不兼容

　　zaiyiduanganqingzhong，youshihoubicifajuexianghuzhijiancunyouwufayuyuebujianrong。zheiyexutixianweijiazhiguannian、gerenaihao、shenghuofangshichabiedeng。jinguanliangrenzhijianhenyoukenengchongmanzheai，danshitamenyishidaolefenliyoukenengshizuijiadexuanze，yifangzhijianglaidetongkuyubumanyi。

　　nanrenhenifenshoushibuailema，nanrenfenshoubingbuyidingshidaibiaozhebuhuizaiaini。zhenzhengdeaiqingfuzaqieqianbianwanhuade，fenshouguanlijueceyoushihoujiushiweilebicizhangyuanfazhanyuxingfu。jinguantengtongganshangxinshihennanbikaide，danshiwomenyingdangxuehuimianduiyulijietadetiaoxuan，bingjizijigenduifangweilaidefazhanzhuyuan。