挽救婚姻：该如何一起走过背叛和不忠？

　　nanrenhenvrenfenshouyihouzhuangtai，fenshouhou，nanrenhenvrenshenxinjiankangbaoshoubuyiyangchongjihebianhua。nanrenhenyoukenengshenxianwuzhuganhefugu，xinxuzhongzhujianxiangqizuichudemeihao；ernvrenzejingchangmianlinneixinshenchudeshiwanghetongku，bingchangshizaicizhaohuizijideduliziyouwanqiang。wulunshinanrenhuoshinvren，tadeqingkuangdouyijingbeifenshouzhanju，suoyourendouzaishizherongruzheiyigenggai，fujianzishen，zuihoufangwuchaoxianggenghaodeshenghuomairu，huogengqiang，huozhegengwanqiang。zheileibianhuashiyigegebiechayide，meigerendouyougezhongfangshiyushijianlaimianduihelijiefenshoudeshiji。

　　男人与女人分手之后的转变

　　男人：胡思乱想与自我反思

　　nanrenhenvrenfenshouyihouzhuangtai，nanrenzaifenshouhoutongchangshenxianaierbudedezhuangtaizhong。takaishihuailianguoqudemeihaohuiyi，buduandijiujiefenshoudeyuanyinjizishendebuzu。zheileiziwofansiyexudailaileyixiefuzuiganhekuijiu，yinlingzhetamenchangshigaibianzishen，qinfentianbufenshoulidechabie。danshi，fenshouduinanrendechongjiyehuidaozhitamenqueshiqudonglihezixin，cushitadeqingkuangjinyibuxiaochen。

　　女人：恼怒和自我复建

　　yunanrenduibi，nvrenzaifenshouhoujingchangzaoyugengduoshiwanghetongku。tamenhenyoukenengjuedebeipanbian、beishanghai，xinlimingxianqipanlingyifangtouruyinggaiyoudaijia。gezhongqingxudiaodonglenvrendeneizaideliliang，tamenshituyongzishenfujianlaizaicizhaohuizijijianqiangduli。tamenkenengtoushengongzuozhong、xuexijigerentisheng；huozheliyongyuhaoyoujuhui、lvyoudengxiliehuodonglaixunzhaoxinlingdeguisuhebaituo。

　　相同点：寻觅美好生活的开端

　　nanrenhenvrenfenshouzhihoudeqingkuangjinguanyousuochayi，danshitamendouzaixunzhaomeihaoshenghuodekaiduan。wulunshinanrenhuoshinvren，zairongrufenshoudeguochengdangzhong，tamenyehuishizhecongtongchulizouchulai，zaicizhaohuizijidekaixinhekuaile。tamenqipanjianlixindeshuyuzijirichangshenghuo，bingxiangzhezijidelixiang、lixiangmairu。

　　解决分手：人人都有不一样方式及时长

　　jiejuefenshoushigebiechayide，renrendouyougezhongfangshiyushijianlaimianduifenshoudeshiji。youxierenhuitiaoxuanjijizhudongdejiaoliuhegoutong，changshitanxunjiejuewentidebanfa，yiqiuzaicixiufuguanxi；eryeyouderendouhuixuanzeyigerenmiandui，duzichengshoufenshoudailaideshanghai，yiqiugenjushijiandanhuamanmanhuifu。buguantiaoxuanshenmeyangdefangshi，jienafenshoudeshijibingzouxiangweilaishiwufataobidebizouquanguocheng。zuizhuyaodeshi，meigerendouyinggaijiyuduifangchongzukongjianheshijian，yiziwotishengweizhuyaomubiao，zhongshikaixinhekuailedeluxian。

　　结束语

　　nanrenhenvrenfenshouyihouzhuangtai，nanrenhenvrenzaifenshouhoudezhuangtaixia，zaoshouzhezhuduoqingxuganqinghezhuanbian。erbuguantamenqinshenjingliruhedejiongjing，zuihoudouyaomanmanjienacongqiandeyiqie，xiangweilaifazhanqushi，yinglaigenghaodeshenghuo。genjuhusiluanxiangyuziwofansi，nanrenxunzhaozheneixinshenchudepinghenghefazhan；genjunaonuheziwofujian，nvrentanxunzhezijiwanqiangduli。meiyigerenqingxudiaojiebuyiyang，danshidouxiwangzaixindeqidianzhongxunzhaozhenzhengdekuaile。fenshoujinjinshengmingzhongyigezhuanzhedian，nanrenhenvrendoushiyounenglifenshouhoumaixianggenghaodemingtian。