谁说最毒妇人心？那是因为没有见过狠男人！

　　nanpengyouyinweichicuerfenshouzenmeban，dangnanyouyouyuchicuerfenshoushi，womennengcaiquyixieduicequjiejuewenti。zuixian，goutongcaishiguanjian，xianghuzhijianlingtingbierendeganshouhedanxin，lejieduifangdejiaolvqingxu。cizhi，lajinguanxishifeichangzhongyaode，liyongquantouminghetanlvdegoutong、zhanxianzhongshihebaochiyizhidejudonglaitishengxianghuzhijiandexinlai。erqie，genjuyuhaoyouhejiarenyiqiduguoshijian，rangnanyouganshoudaoziyidezijuexingyuzixin，congerjiangditadezaodongbuanhecaiji。zuizhuyaodeshi，weichisirenkongjianheaidejunheng，rangnanyouqingchuzijideaishiweidade，bubeichicusuoxiandingbingyingxiang。tongguoheligoutonghejianqiangdeyizhi，dajiakeyizainanyouyinchicuerfenshoudejiongjingzhongxunzhaojiejuewentidebanfa。

　　nanyouyinchicufenshou，womengairuhejiejuezheileikunjingni？yixiashuyuyixiejiejuefangfa，xiwangnenggoubangzhudaoni。

　　1. 真诚沟通，聆听彼此之间的体验

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　　2. 提升相互信任，建立良好的关联基本

　　shulilianghaodexianghuxinrenguanliankeyijiejuechicuwentidehexin。shuangfangxuyaonulizhanxianzijidezhongshihekekaoxing，yizengqianglingyifangderenke。genjuzhenchengdeyantanjuzhiheyizhidegerenxingwei，rangnanyouganshoudaoniduiaiqingderenzhenqiefuwuchengnuo，congerjiangdicaijiyubuanqingxu。

　　3. 共享生活，营造健康的生活社交圈子

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　　4. 塑造个人兴趣爱好，提高自信和魅力

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　　5. 创建身心健康的沟通方式，防止误会与矛盾

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　　6. 寻找技术专业指导，解决情绪难题

　　youshihounanyoudechicuyoukenengshiqingxuwentitixian。jiarunantimeifazixingchuli，xunzhaojishuzhuanyezhidaohenyoukenengshiyigehaodetiaoxuan。jishuzhuanyexinlixuezixunshinenggoubangzhunanyoujiejueqingxunanti，bingtigongyouxiaojiejuefangfa。

　　nanpengyouyinweichicuerfenshouzenmeban，zuizhuyaodeshi，bicidouyaozhenxinchengyikandaizheizhongqingkuang，bingkeyiweileweichiganqingfuzhunuli。genjugoutong、xianghuxinrenyulijie，nanyouchicufenshouwentinenggoujishijiejue。jilao，ganqingxuyaoxianghulijieyuchengzhang，gongtongfendoucaikeyichuangjianzhangqierjiankangdeshenghuoguanlian。