维持异地恋：男生不能花心 女生不能作死

　　fuqizhijiandexiangchuzhidaoshijianlizaishuangfangyuanliangheduobaozhongdejichuzhishang，taqianshedaogoutongjiaoliu、zhongshi、xinrenheshujugongxiangdenggegefangmian。xianghuzhichilingyifangdeyaoqiuheniantou，renzhenqingtingyuyandebiaoda，nengyouxiaohuajiemaodunhemoca，tigaofuqizhijiandeaiqing。yucitongshi，zunzhongduifangsirenkongjianyuziyou，suzaoxinrenhebaorong，yingzaolianghaodejiatinghuanjing。chucizhiwai，fuqizhijiandexiangchuzhidaohaiyaobicizhijianchuandikuailehetonggangongku，gongtongmianduirichangshenghuodekaoyanhejiongjing，yitongjingyingjiating、zhuixunxingfu，baozhengganqingzhangqierxingfu。

　　fuqizhijiandexiangchuzhidao - jianliyouxiaodegoutongjiben

　　重视会话，聆听感受

　　xiangchuzhidaodeguanjianjichushizhongshihuihua，fuqiyingdangxieshoubingjianjianliyigegongpingduiwaikaifangdeduitanziranhuanjing。zaigoutongzhong，bicizhijiandouyinggaijiyuchongzudezunzhongyulingtingkongjian，buqieduan、buhuaiyibierendeganshouheyijian。

　　积极主动表述，诚信沟通交流

　　chengshishouxinshifuqijiangongchudezhongyaoqianti。goutongjiaoliushiyingdongdebiaodazijideqingxuyuxuqiu，yucitongshiyidingyaobaochichengxin，fangzhimanbaohuoyoudaolingyifang。jinyouzhenxinshiyimianduikunnanhetiaozhan，caikeyijiejuehaofuqiguanlianzhongdehenduokaoyan。

　　理解包容，多维度思考

　　xiangchuzhidaobixufuqibicirenzhihebaoronglingyifangzuidadebutong。keyicongduifangjiaodusikaonanti，shizhelejieduifanglichangyuqinggan。lijiehebaorongshitigaofuqiaiqingdeguanjianyinsu，tamenkeyibangzhubaituowentimoca，jianligenghexiezhijiandeguanxi。

　　建立信任，实现合作共赢

　　xinrenshifuqizhijianzhangqixingfukuailedezhongyaoqianti。fuqixuyaobaochifuwuchengnuo，zunshouchengnuo，jianliqixianghuzhijiandexinrenguanlian。jinyouxinrendeqiantixia，bicicaikeyigongtongfendou，shixianhezuogongying，yitongzhuixunxingfu。

　　塑造共同爱好，享受时光

　　fuqinengtongguosuzaogongtongdexingquyuaihaolaicujinganqing。gongtongdezhutihuodonghejiaoliudemeihaoshiguanghuishifuqizhijiandelianjiegengjiangu，gongtongmubiaohexinyuanyekeyicujinbicizhijiandejinbuyuchengzhang。

　　接受缺陷，重视健全

　　fuqiyingdangbicijieshouduifangdeyoudianyubuzu，bingyiqinuliwanshanziwo。xiangchuzhidaozhonggengxuyaodeshiyizhongbaorongheshiyong，fuqiyingdangxianghuguli，bianchenglingyifangchengzhangdedongli。

　　共享义务，承担

　　fuqizhijianxiangchuzhidaodeyigezhongyaofangmianyeshigongxiangdandanghechengdan。jiatingwentidefenpaiyingdangshigongpinghejunhengde，fuqibicibixugongtongxieshou，yiqichengdanjiazhongdezhongrenyuzeren。

　　zaifuqizhijiandexiangchuzhidaozhong，jianliyouxiaodegoutongqiantishizhongyao。genjuzhongshihuihua、chengxingoutongjiaoliu、lijiebaoronghejianlixinren，fuqinenggougenghaodilejiebicizhijian，chulishiqing，yitongwanchengmeimanhunyin。yucitongshi，suzaogongtongdexingquyuaihao，jieshoulingyifangdequexian，gongxiangdandanghechengdandoushixiangchuzhidaobukehuoquedeyibufen。jinyoubicizhenxinfuchu，bingbuxienuli，caikeyijianliqizhangqilaogudefuqiguanlian。