怎样才能提高自己的情商？

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一、怎样才能提高自己的情商？

1、要有自己的原则

 zenyangcainengtigaozijideqingshang？meigerenzuorenzuoshiqingdouyinggaiyouzijideyuanze，zheiyangcaibuhuibeibierenqianzhebizizou，zheiyangcaihuiyouzizhusikaonengli，caihuixingchengzijidutederengemeili。tongshiwomenzuorendeyuanzeyidingyaoduizijichanshengzhengnengliang，zheiyangcainengshiwomendeqingshangbiangao。

2、多听父母的话

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3、要学会感恩

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4、yaoyouzijizhengquederenshengguanhejiazhiguan

 zenmekanqingshanggaodini？zenmexiandeqingshanggaoni？meigerendouxuyaolejiezijixiangyaoshenme，bingqiegaizenmezuocainengdedaota，bixuyouzijizhengquederenshengguanhejiazhiguan，zheixiehuibangzhuwomenchengweiyigegengyouxiuderen。ruguobuzhidaozijixiangyaoshenme，womenkeyimeitianhuashangyigexiaoshiwenwenzijijiujingxiangyaoshenme，zheiyangwomenlejiezijixiangyaoshenmele。

5、学会看人

 qingshanggaoderenshifeichangshanyuhezuode，suoyiwomenwomenyidingyaoxuehuikanren，xuehuikanrenshiyigefeichanghuanmandexuexiguocheng，youderenkenengyibeizidoumeiyouxuehui，danshihaishiyaonulixue，xuehuikanrenkeyibangwomenjiaodaozhiyou，xuehuikanrenshiyigexixipinweideguocheng，xiangjiuyiyang，zhiyouhedaozuihoucainengpinweichutadechunxiang。

6、yaoxuehuichushiwaiyuanneifang

 womenzairichangshenghuozhongyaojinliangbimianhebierenchanshengmoca，yinweichaojiahenshangganqing，tongshiyeshangshenti，womenyaoxuehuichushiyuanhuayidian，zheiyangcainengyubierenxiangchuhao，dangranyebushiyiweidirenrang，womenbixuhaiyaoyouzijideyuanzehedixian。

7、duogenbizijinianzhangderenjiaotan

 zenyangcainengtigaozijideqingshang？laorenmenchangshuowochideyanbinizoudeluhaiduo，qishizheijuhuashiduide，yinweilaorenmendejingyantongchangbiwomendefengfu，yueliyebiwomengao，suoyiwomenzaizuoshiqingzhiqianyidingyaowenwenzijidefumuhuonianzhangdepengyou，yinweitamenxiangdebiwomenduo，kaolvdebiwomenquanmian，tamentichudeyijianwomenyidingyaozixidesikao。