女人，别让男人利用了你的爱情

　　jingchangdapaidenanrenrongyichuguima？zheishiyigebaoshouzhengyitaolundehuati。yifangmian，dapaizuoweiyizhongxiuxianyulefangshi，henyoukenengjinanshidailailegengduoshejiaomeitijiyu，shidetamenbijiaorongyijiechudaolebieren，shenzhiyubiedenvxingjianliguanxi。chucizhiwai，zhangshijiandapaikenengzaochengtamenduiyujiatingyalidehulve，jineryinqihunwailian。danshi，lingyifangmian，dapaitabingbujuedingyigerendepindexiuyanghezhongshishuiping，chuguishitongguogerendesanguanhezuorendedixianjuedingde。yiner，bunengyigaierlunjuedechangchangdapaidenanrenjiuyidingfeichangrongyichugui。zhenzhenzhengzhengzuizhongyaodeshisuzaoyouxiaodegoutongherenke，jiqiweihubaoyangjiaohaodefuqiguanxi，shinanrenzairenheshihoudoukeyikeshouzhongshi。

　　jingchangdapaidenanrenrongyichuguima？

　　社交媒体机遇与引诱

　　dapaitongchangshiyizhongxiuxianhuodong，tebieshipukeyouxi，weinanshitigongleyigeheqitarenjiaoliudefuwupingtai。zheileishejiaomeitijiyuhenyoukenengshidetamentiejinbuyiyangderen，baohanbiedenvxing。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，nanmianyouyouhuocunyou，youqishidangnanrenxunzhaoshenmiganhuojidongshi。danshi，dapaizishengenbenwufachuncuijieduweizaochengchuguidezhuyaoyuanyin，youyuyinyoubingbushiyouxidebenzhi，erzaiyugerendesanguanyudiyuyouhuonengli。

　　时间和关心分散化

　　dapaitongchangxuyaodaliangshijianzijintouru，tebieshidangnanrenchangchangcanjiazhangshijianduijushi。zheikenengzaochengtamenzaishenghuorichangshenghuozoushenhuohulveziyidebanlv。jiatingyalidecuxindayikenenghuiyinqifuqijiandejinzhangguanxi，congerweichuguizaojiulegengduodekenengxing。danshi，chuguibingbushizhiyoudapainanrencainengcunzaidekunnan，suoyourenzaimianduishijiananpaimaodundeshihoudoukenenghuiyudaoleisiqingkuang。yiner，chulichuguinantideguanjianshichuangjianzhashidegoutongjiaoliuherenkejiben，bingzhaodaogenghaodejunheng，shigefangmiandexuqiuhuodemanzu。

　　需求达到与追求刺激

　　yixiechangchangdapaidenanrenhenyoukenengjiecijihuizhuiqiucijihemanzuzijixuqiu。dapainenggoudailaijinpoganhefangsong，duitamenlaishuojianghuichengweiyizhongzhuixunkuailedexingshi。danshi，ruguozheixiecijixingxuqiuwufamanzu，nanrenkenengjinyibuxunzhaobiedefangshi，baohanyuqitanvxingchuangjiangenghaodeguanxi。danshi，xuzhuyi，bushisuoyoudapaidenanrendouhuibaqicijixingxuqiuzhuanhuaweichuguigerenxingwei。meigerendouyouzijidejiazhijikangyinyoushuiping，qujueyutamenzenmekandaizheileiliwaicijixing。

　　情感与性需求的优先

　　changchangdapaidenanrenfeichangrongyichugui，kenenghetamenduiyuqingganyuxingxuqiudeyouxianxiangguan。youyixienanrenkenenghuijuededapaikeyirangtamenzaiqingganhexingfangmianhuodegengduodedadao，erbushiyongyubanlvchuangjianpingwenerchijiudeguanlian。zheiyangdexintaikenenghuizhishitamenduiyubanlvquebuzhongshigerenxingwei，changshizaiwaimianxunzhaogengduodadao。danshi，zheiyangdexintaibingfeisuoyoudapaidenanrendouyou，youderenyiranbaochiduibanlvdezhongshi，tamenzhidaoruhejunhengziyidexuqiuyubanlvdexuqiu。

　　结果

　　jingchangdapaidenanrenrongyichuguima？huidabingburongyi。dapaitabingbujuedingyigerendechuguiquxiang，ershitongguogerendesanguan、zuorendedixian、zhongshiheshimingganlaijuedingde。dapainenggoutigongshejiaomeitijiyu，yehuidaozhishizhangfensanhuaheyinqibiedexuqiu。danshi，chuangjianzhashidegoutongjiaoliuherenkejiben、zhaodaogenghaodejunhengyijiduiyubanlvdezunzhongyuzhichishikongzhichuguideguanjiansuozai。zuihou，renrendouyouyiwuweihuhunyinhejiatingguanlian，wulunqishibushichangchangdapai。