脱单攻略之如何确定恋爱关系

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　　nanrenzaichuguizhihou，shibushihaihuiyuyuanpeiweichichupeng，zheishiyigefuzaqiebaoshouzhengyiwenti。zheigewentiqianshedaonanrendeqingxudongyin、jiatingqingkuang、renshengjiazhiguandengzhuduoyaosu，yinermeifajianyizuochuchouxiangxingdedaan。danshi，womennengcongbutongjiaoduqusikaozheigewenti，yiqiukeyigenghaodilejieyufenxizheiyixianxiang。

　　内心深处的挣脱：nanrenzaichuguizhihou，xinlitongchanghuizaoyufeichangdadezhengtuo。yuanpeijiushitamenyiqianshenaiguoderen，chuguishiduiyuanpeidepanbian，yinertakenenghuigandaoxiukuihehouhuimoji。zheileiqingganshangdecunyou，henyoukenenghuishiyibufennanrenxuanzeheyuanpeiweichichupeng，changshitianbuziyideguoshi，wanliuyuanxiandeaiqing。

　　求安慰和还原：waiyuyibanyehuidaozhiyuanxiandejiazhongguanxiehua，bulunshiyuanpeihuoshinanrenzishendoumianlinzhejidaxinliyali。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，yixienanrenkenengxuanzeyuyuanpeiweichichupeng，xiwangyonggoutongjiaoliuyuhudonglaixunzhaoxinlingshenchudeanweiqingganshangdehaiyuan。tamenrenwei，jinyouyuyuanpeidiaojie，caikeyimanmanxiuhuzhijiandeguanxi。

　　找到新的逐渐：danshi，bushisuoyouwaiyudenanrendoushihuizaicichupengyuanpei。yixienanrenkenengxuanzezhuixunyigexindeganqing，xunzhaojuedegengshihedeairen。tamenkenengrenwei，yuyuanpeifujianguanlianyimeiyouyiyi，danyoujuedezijiheyuanpeizaixingqing、xihaodengshangcunzaiwufadiaohedezhengyi。duiyuzheileinanrenlaijiang，yuyuanpeilakaijuliyoukenengshigengweilixiangdexuanze。

　　外在因素的影响：chukainanrengerenxuanze，waizaiyinsuyehuiyanzhongyingxiangnanrenshibushiheyuanpeiweichichupeng。biru，waiyukenengzaochengyuanpeiduinanrendefennuhemeiyouxinren，cushifujianguanlianyuelaiyuejubuweijian。ciwai，jiarunanrenzaiwaiyuqineishelilexinjiatinghuoshiganqing，takenenghuijiangzhuyiligengduodejizhonghuazaixinairendeshenshang，erheyuanpeijiechuriyijianshao。

　　对自我提升的探索：waiyukenenghuiyinqinanrenduizishendesikao，zhongxinsikaotamendexingweihesixiang。youyixienanrenzaizheiguochengzhongkenengrenshidaozijiduiyuanpeidebiyaoxing，bingbuduanxiubuyuyuanpeizhijiandeguanxi。danshi，yeshiyounanrenhenyoukenenghuibawaiyushizuozishengerentishengdejihui，xuanzeyuyuanpeiduanjuelianluo，yitanxunbenrendequanliyufazhan。

　　nanrenchuguihouhaihuipengyuanpeima，zaizheigewentishang，meiyouyigegudingbudongdehuida。meiyigenanrendoushiyoutazijideguandian、xuanzeheyishi。buguannanrenshibushiheyuanpeiweichichupeng，zuizhongyaodeshi，tayinggaiduizijidexingweichengdan，bingmouqiufazhanqushichengweigenghaoderen。bulunshijijiyuyuanpeigoutongjiaoliudiaojie，huoshixuanzeyigexindeganqing，meiyigenanrendouyinggaoqingchu，renshengdangzhongxuanzehequedingzuihoujunyouzijiquchengdanhouguo。