脱单五个小妙招 告别单身拒绝做“剩女”

　　zaihunyinzhong，chuguishiyigelingrenwanxiwenti。dangnanrenpanbianqizishi，dajiajinbuzhuyaowen：chuguidenanrenduilaopohaiyouxingquma？zheizhongqingkuangchudongzhuduorendeneixin。bulunshiwaibudeyinyouhuoshihunyinzhongcunzaidewenti，waiyushuominglenanrenduihunyinqiangliebuman。danshi，shendusikaojiuhuifaxian，youyixiechuguinanrenyirankenenghuiduiqizihuaiyouxingquyuqinggan。yiner，womenyoubiyaojinyibutaolunzheiyihuati，chongfenlejienanrenpanbianqizibeihoudongyinheqingxubianhua。

　　离不开关注的

　　chuguidenanrenduilaopohaiyouxingquma，hunyindoushijiyuxianghuguanzhaoyuzunzhongdejichuzhishang。jinguanwaiyudenanrenhenyoukenengguyisunhaiqizi，danhaishiyouhenyoukenengbaocunyidingdexingquyuzhichi。

　　mouxieqingkuangxia，zaihunyinzhongwaiyudenanrenhenyoukenenglinshishiquduiqizidexingqu。zheikenengshiyouyuhunyinyuelaiyuejiandan、qianquereqing，huozheyouyuzhangqigoutongbudaoweierzaochengdebumanyi。danshi，bingbuyiweizhechuguinanrenwanquanduiqizishiquxingqu。

　　fanguolai，waiyuduiyumouxienanreneryan，kenengshiyizhongtuolixianshidexingshi，jiushitamentanxunmanzuganhechengjiugandefangfa。bingbuyiweizhetamenduiyuqizibuhuizaiyouxingqu，fanershibiaomingzheixierenzaihunyinlidemouyicengmianjuedeshiwang，bingshituyongwaiyulaimibuzheileicuobaigan。

　　失去了婚姻关系

　　waiyukenengyiweizhehunyinlidehunyinguanxizaoyidedaolehuihuai。zheikenengshiyinweiqueshaogoutong、xianghuzhijianlijieyuzhichi，huozheyinweizhangqihulvelingyifangdeyaoqiuheqipandaozhide。yiner，chuguinanrenduiqizihenyoukenengshiqulebenlaicunyoudehunyinguanxi。

　　danshi，bingbuyiweizhezheileihunyinguanximeifafujianhuoxiubu。genjushenrujiaoliu、lajinguanxihezijintourushijianjingli，hunyinlidenanrennenggoushiqiduiqizidexingqu，houzhongxingoujianqihaodeguanxi。

　　追求刺激和成就感

　　youyixienanrenwaiyushiyouyuzhaodaoxindedecijichengjiugan。hunyinzhongdeyixiecengmianhenyoukenengbunengmanzuyonghudexuqiu，shidetamenxunzhaobiedeairenhuoqinshenjingli。

　　danshi，waiyubingbudengyuzheizhongnanrenduiqizichedishiquxingqu。chuguinanrendejudongkenengshiyizhongduanzanduobi，yizhongxunzhaolequdefangfa。keshi，zaihenduoqingkuangxia，takenenghuiyishidaoleyujiatingqizidebiyaoxing，xiwangkeyifujianyuqizizhijiandeguanxi。

　　重新思考自我改变

　　zhenduichuguinanreneryan，panbianqizitongchangshiyizhongdadongtamenxinlingshenchudeshiqing，rangtamenzhongxinsikaoziyidehunyinyujiating。waiyukenengshiyizhongjinggao，rangtamenyishidaohunyinlidewentiyubuzu。

　　zaizheiguochengzhong，chuguinanrenkenenghuiqinshenjinglineixinshenchudeyaobaibudinghesikao，takenenghuiyishidaoqizidezhongyaoyiyizijiduiyuhunyindezhize。zheileiziwofansiherenzhikenengjiqitamenduiyuqizizaicizaochengxingqu，bingbuduangaibianxianzhuangyifujianhunyin。

　　怎样复建婚姻

　　fujianhunyinbixubicizhijiandeqinfenheyongqi。chuguinanrenbixuzhenzhenzhengzhenghuigai，bingbiaodaleduiqizidezunzhongheguanhuai。yucitongshi，qiziyeyaokeyikuanronglaogong，bingbuduangaijinhunyincunzaidewenti。

　　genjugongtongfendou，fufukeyiyiqitanxunhunyinzhongcunzaidewentidian，bingzhudongchulitamen。goutongjiaoliu、xianghuzhijianlijieyuzhichishifujianhunyindeguanjiansuozai。zhiyouzainanrenheqizidoukeyizijintourushijianjinglilaifujianhunyinshi，chuguinanrencaikeyizaiciguanxinqizi，zaicigoujianqiliangrenzhijiandexingquhehunyinguanxi。

　　chuguidenanrenduilaopohaiyouxingquma，zongeryanzhi，zainanrenwaiyupanbianqizibeihou，suirancunyouxingqubianruodeqingkuang，danbingbunengyigaierlun。youyixiechuguinanrenkenenghuiduiqiziyiranhuaiyouxingqu，zhibuguoshizaihunyinzhongchulewentihuomishileziwo。fujianhunyinbixubicigongtongfendou，caikeyizhongxindianranbicizhijiandexingquheguanai。