房子不是我的名字 婆婆却要我还房贷

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　　寻求确立证据

　　ruheranglaogongchengrenchugui，zaiduidaihunyinlidechuguiwentideshihou，xunqiuhenmingquedezhengjucaishiguanjian。bulunshigenjuqinshenzhencha，huoshiyikaoshejiaowangluohuoshoujitongxunludengxiangguanxinxi，huodeburongzhiyidezhengjujiushiranglaogongchengrenchuguidezhuyaoliucheng。zheizhongzhengjunengshiduanxiaoxi、tongxunjilu、shejiaowangluoweixinliaotianjiludeng，chongzuzhiqugenbenmaodun，wuyongzhiyi。

　　理智沟通表达关心

　　yulaogongkaizhanlizhierzhenchengdejiaoliu，biaoshuniduitachuguiweifaxingweideguanxinshishitachengrenbuzhengquedelingyifangfa。fangzhiqingxuhuazhengzhihezhize，ershizhijieyigepinghedeshishikeke，shushuoneixindexiangfahedanxin。ranglaogongganshoudaonideneixinqinggan，tiliangniweiheyaotazhenchengbingchengrenziyideguoshi。

　　引导他们接受现实

　　youshi，laogongbingbuxiangchengrenziyidechuguigerenxingwei，zheishihoubixuqiaomiaodeyindaotamenjieshouxianshi。nenggoucongtadeyanxingjuzhixiashou，manmanzhanxianchuguidezhengzhaohezhengju，shitawuchuduozang。yucitongshi，genjufenxiangzijitongkuyuxinhan，rangtazhidaomanbaobingbunengrangnantixiaotui，zhihuijiazhongsunhaihebuxinlai。

　　依靠技术专业协助

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　　坚持自我维护

　　zaixunzhaoranglaogongchengrenchuguideguochengdangzhong，bubihulvezishendeanquanquanyi。baozhengzijideshentijiankang、huijishenglixinlishoubaohu。youshi，buguannizuochuduoshaoqinfen，laogonghenyoukenengyiranhuijuechengrenziyideguoshi。cike，womenxuyaozuochujueding，baohuzijiliyi，baohanxunqiufalvyuanzhuzhongxinqujiejuehunyinjiufen。

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